Should he pick you up or should you drive yourself on the first date? (Page 2)

[Guy143528]

Drive yourself cause if it doesn't work out and you wanna dip it's a lot easier and they guy doesn't have to learn where you live

[MajesticTwelve]

I'd drive myself in case I needed to abort and get out quick.

[kales96]

I usually meet the people I date by myself until I get to know the person and then when I do, I’ll make the decision to go with them in their car

[bubbles328]

Depends if I have never met them or met them once or twice I don't want him to know where I live.

[SamanthaAndrews]

Definitely get there myself. I wouldn't want to be dependent on him.

[jamesritchey]

It shouldn't be expected, unless you already know each other well. It's also safer to drive yourself.

[FLINTSTONE97]

In all honesty, I like to make my own way so they don't know where I live

[Anoniemus]

Whatever works out. I know I’m not picking him up though.

[20yearsolder]

Always have a exit plan. Meet somewhere. Don't depend on him as your transportation

[Amanda269]

Always have a way home, where you don't have to depend on others.

[BagoH]

I'd say pick up but if it's not too far. It's more fun that way, you can talk on the way too.

[TacosRAwesome]

I prefer driving myself to be honest so as I can leave if I'm bored or they're shitty.

[Anonymous]

You have more control and safety if you make your own way. If you already know and trust him, it's nice to be picked up. Tell someone who you're with and where you've gone. Love, dad.

[Liam_Hayden]

Drive yourself. Makes it easier to blaze if the date sucks and it also keeps where you live secret if he's a stalker type.

[foxrider77]

Call an Uber, tell them you gave your car to your ex wife/husband. You try to keep the kids happy so you gave them all your money. See if he buys your meal or even comes back for a second date.

[GreenGold1992]

well it would be more traditional and gentlemanly for him to pick you, but if you're comfortable and you mutually agree on it, you could drive yourself on the first date.

[Synikal]

She should drive. If the initial date was bad. No harm done... drive home. Plus never know if the person is crazy or a predator. Heard plenty of stories.

[Nessygurl]

I always drive myself so if the date is horrible I can leave

[red324]

I used to ask, but most girls say they'll meet me. This works out great cause then I don't have to clean out my vehicle :)

[Anonymous]

I always offer to pick the woman up at her home. Most of them decline and choose to meet me instead. If she lets me pick her up, that’s usually a sign of high interest.