Am I one of the most unluckiest men out there?

[HornyyEveryday]

Unlucky

I am a 25 year old 5'6" male and I never had a girlfriend. I have only had sex once in my life when I was 20 (she was 16). We both lost our virginities to each other but she never wanted a relationship with me. I was thrown in jail and have a stalking conviction on my record all because I brought her a cookie cake around 7-8 months later trying to ask her out to her prom (she was now 17 at the time).

I once tried to make a relationship happen with this one other girl, but she ended up becoming a transgender (became a dude). I can't believe I made out with her one time.

Like I said I am 25 and never had a girlfriend. I only had sex once in my life and it was back in 2015.

Not only am I short and never had a girlfriend, I also lost my career. I had to voluntarily surrender my EMT license (it was going to be revoked anyways).

I still live at home and on disability.

I also have an Autistic Spectrum Disorder and other mental health issues.

I have been hospitalized over 13 times in my lifetime, all starting from adolescence.

I have been trying to learn programming and web development for over 3 years diligently. I am still an ameatur and suck at what I do.

I cannot get ahead in life it seems in the romance or the career department.

I only want a decently attractive woman without a romantic past (meaning no previous boyfriends or romantic bonds), but I will likely remain alone because I will never find that I feel.

I am failing at life. Period.

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It always feels like I can never get ahead.

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I am mediocre at everything I put my hands on or my mind to.

[Obtuse]

I'm going to try a blunt approach here, and you'll have to forgive me if it was miscalculated and overly harsh. I see ZERO ACCOUNTABILITY here!!! WTF! ZERO ZERO ZERO!!! NO ACCOUNTABILITY WHATSOEVER!!!

There is nothing you did wrong in your story. Everything is just bad luck, someone else did something. I don't believe this. I have to suspect that you are interpreting these events with bias leaning towards delusion.

[Obtuse]

I am not trying to hurt you. I am not against you. But if you think this is all bad luck, I really think the chances are that you need to develop some accountability. You have to realize that, at the very least, you share in some of the faults -- however little, however much. Because if you don't you will never learn. You will be the unluckiest guy in the world in your eyes while you keep doing things that ruin everything.

[moviedude714]

Not an uncommon situation

[oldoldold]

You so need to start trying to be useful