How unlucky am I?

[Anonymous]

So I just found out that I was pregnant 😂😂 I'm excited cause I've always wanted to be a mom but I'm pregnant by my ex 🙃 We haven't seen or talked to each other since June when we broke up. The kicker of everything though is I have gone through almost 2/3 of my pregnancy without knowing about it I will be 27 weeks on Monday and after the night the baby was conceived I took a morning after pill (which clearly didn't work). How tf am I gonna tell him? And before you guys start with the how did you not notice stuff I take a few didn't pills that give me symptoms of pregnancy so I didn't pay any mind and I've still been spotting (which I thought was my period because I've never had a heavy one)

[hornyafbi69]

Well I mean be happy but single parent families are tough on everyone especially the child. Hopefully he even though it takes two to tango, he will at least be around for his child. It's sad that with the ages you have listed as hold old you might be, that you were both okay with no condom. I mean I was a single parent child it fucking sucked for my mom she was hardly home during the day she couldn't do anything except work hopefully if you have a girl you'll teach her not to think that sex is only an activity. I am happy for you because you always wanted a kid and I really hope you can get him to be around for you're kid.

[Asker]

The whole reason we broke up was because I didn't wanna have kids anytime soon lol so I highly doubt he wouldn't wanna be in the baby's life but we both will be 25 before the baby gets here with stable jobs. And the condom broke

[hornyafbi69]

Um yeah you're only 25 by then you're body literally stops developing at 25 that's still young. I mean have you lost a job missed paid rent balanced a check book financed car have a credit score or traveled out of country yet? I mean there are so many thing that unless you've experienced it is going to be even harder with a kid, and I'm really not trying to be a dick it's just I am that kid it really really sucks and I don't want any child to have my experience

[Danny_dan92]

How tf are you going to tell him?


You don’t. Drop this cum bazooka of an ex boyfriend of yours


Kill the baby, for your sake and the sake of the child


UNLESS you have all the abilities to not only provide for the child on your own and give it a good life with proper education so that he or she don’t find themselves in the mess your in.

[Happiehippiex]

How can she kill the baby? Too late for abortion

[Asker]

@Happiehippiex didn't even respond to this stupidity. Thank you for coming in and having my back🖤

[Happiehippiex]

I’m sorry people are being mean to you in this tough time.

[Happiehippiex]

You want to PM me?

[Asker]

@Happiehippiex thank you for the offer I actually need to start getting ready for work. Have a great day or night where you are

[Happiehippiex]

Follow me and we will chat later

[Danny_dan92]

Well you’re pretty fucken stupid for going through two trimesters and barely realizing you are bearing a growing child

[Danny_dan92]

Sooo...

I don't know who the real idiot is here

[Asker]

It's no unheard-of for women not to know they are pregnant. Not everyone's pregnant or bodies are the same. Just like I told the other person you should do research before you speak but then again the internet lets idiots loss so..

[Danny_dan92]

So you didn’t get ANY symptoms.

You had monthly periods still

You didn’t get any sort of nausea

Your appetite didn’t increase.

Your weight wasn’t going up..

You REALLY mean to tell me that for 6 months you were completely unaware of this.

There’s absolutely no way.

I’ll give you maybe 1-2 months but more than half the pregnancy? Nope.

[Quackthulu]

Congratulations, you have ruined your life. But how the fuck did you not know you were 27 God damn weeks preggo? Sure, meds can mess with your cycle but how the fuck did you not notice that shit growing inside of you and gaining like 30 pounds?

[Asker]

Thats the thing I'm still not showing. Like there has been slight changes but like most people I've been laying around the house eating junk food. I've only gained like 4 pounds.

[Quackthulu]

What was your starting point, like 600 pounds?

[Asker]

😂😂 I think you should do some research about pregnancy because not everyone gains weight some women actually lose it.

[Quackthulu]

Not healthy ones.

[Asker]

😂😂 and you spoke again without doing research. Gotta love the internet

[Happiehippiex]

Some women actually don’t know they’re pregnant until they go into labor

[Quackthulu]

@Happiehippiex yeah, and it's always because they done fucked up.

[mich15smith]

I don't know how you would tell him but he prob won't be happy

[Asker]

most likely will be happy since he wanted us to start a family within the next year

[Happiehippiex]

Maybe you can get back together

[Asker]

@Happiehippiex I've been thinking about that as an open come up I don't wanna go in with high hopes and then it doesn't happen

[Happiehippiex]

Just try it
This may be serendipity

[Asker]

@Happiehippiex I'm going to try and see him today. Wish me luck. Lol

[Happiehippiex]

What do you do for a living by the way?

[Asker]

@Happiehippiex I am an assistant men's wear buyer for a retail

[chriscdi]

and you are certain its his?

[Anonymous]

We don’t care. Talk to him, not us.