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They would still have the opposite sex's body. Underneath all the makeup they would have the face of the opposite sex. Its impossible to actually switch your genitals and its easy to tell fake ones from the real.
I'll treat them kindly and they do deserve equal rights and the right to a happy life but I only am attracted to females. Im not attracted to males. Im not attracted to "inner brain sex".
Yes I would. I want cisgender male, and not a trans man or a trans woman.
I don't have anything against them personally and I don't support discriminating them or harassing them, I don't mind being friends with one. Doesn't necessarily mean that I'm open to dating one.
For me, I have seen some trans that will put some women to shame, but just KNOWING turns me off sexually. I have nothing against them, would be friends with them, but it just turns off the sexual attraction for me. I guess if I never knew it wouldn't hurt me.
Open minded here. But I like women and their parts. Honestly don't know if I could get past what's between the legs.. but open minded
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Yes I would straight out reject someone just because they are trans, most of us are born male or female. There are real physical differences between a male and female, as well as hormonal differences and even our brains are wired differently. How a male and a female problem solve, is different.
No operation, can make a female think like and male and no male can think like a woman. You can do what you want to change your outside physical appearance, but you can not change your bone structure from male to female or female into male.
I personally have no problem with someone beating the shit out of some trans, when that trans leads you on to think they are the gender you prefer than the truth comes out.
Gender is not a construct, you are born male or female.
I have nothing against someone being gay, but don't try to cover up your homosexuality by trying to become the other gender. I have gay friends, that have nothing but contempt for trans. So I know it is not just me, that feels as I do about trans.
I have never met, and started dating a trans lady, but I have some friends that are.
They have asked me this same question!
I think that if I meet 'her' and I like her, and we talk, and want to have follow-up dates, and I think she is really a woman, not trans, because she is so much like a woman, then I would be fine, I think.
I would expect that 'she' would tell me, before the first time were having sex!! :)
I think it might surprise me, if I thought she was really a natural woman, but if I was dating, and liking her, thinking she was, I don't think it would change my feelings for her, if she had a penis, and even if she wanted to keep it. Strange, maybe, but for me, who I love and care about is the person, and not the physical!!
Her having a penis would definitely lead to a few discussions, and talking about how things would work!! :)
Interesting personal question, about a person's feelings, integrity, and maybe judgments and bias!!
What do you think and what would YOU do?
For those that are into it the traditional way. How do you procreate and have a child?
I am not sure if it works otherwise but I am not a specialist in this procreation business. Perhaps that I am missing something but if it does not work on a natural basis, many that want a family will wonder what the purpose is to date a transsexual person.
Yes I would. Because Looking like a woman and and actually being a woman are two different things. There are very few Trans people who can pass anyway. That natural femininity, the soft curves and a sort of gentleness to the features and the way they carry themselves are so uniquely feminine.
Looking the part is one thing, when it comes to sexual intimacy, no matter how much your genitals look like a womans, you cannot mimic the absolute bliss of a womans vagina.
Lastly, I would know that she was a dude and I think it would effect me in the long run.
Only because they are trans? Like it's a small thing ha. Only because they are the sex you are not attracted to? Well that's what sexual orientation is, you're attracted to the sex that is the sex you're attracted to Not one that has the dna and biology and parts of the one they are born with but mutilated to try to look like the other sex. Straight people will want to only be with the sex that is born as the opposite sex. I don't know who a truly straight person can look past that. I mean that's not something to look past, just as sexual orientation isn't something just decided.
I’m not going to date someone who is trans. I am a straight woman who is only attracted to guys. And no, not trans guys. But every time I say this to someone, they say I’m a terrible person. I have nothing against the LGBT community. In fact, I’ve meet some really great people who are LGBT and I support them in getting married, fighting for our country and being a real factor in society because they deserve to live like everyone else in this country. I just don’t find myself sexually attracted to anyone who is trans.
I'm not evolved enough I don't think to accept a woman who transitioned to a man and the fact is the anatomy just wouldn't be the same even with reconstructive surgery. I'm very impressed with people who can look past the anatomy to the person inside.
I wouldn't date a guy, and it isn't as simple as this revisionist nonsense you've put out, i. e. "just cuz they're trans" (as if trans people are some oppressed group, and not just a bunch of mentally ill lunatics mutilating their genitals because they think it's easier as the opposite sex).
Glad you're so understanding (eye roll), but yea, no self-respecting heterosexual man would date a shemale.
This is actually something that I've thought about here lately. If a person is trans- it means they are uncomfortable with their body and are doing something to be able to view themselves on the outside- the same as they do on the inside. What trans people decide to do; it's their business. If I hit things off with a transwoman I wouldn't cast them away- because they weren't born female. I'd not want to date the person if it there was nothing there is all. I mean- we're looking at this from the wrong perspective. Let's say a woman has small boobs- a cups- they don't like them; so they decide to get implants- would you reject the woman for doing something that made her feel better on the outside as tgey see themselves on the inside. It was her money, her body, her decision- are you not gonna be with her because her tits are fake? It's the same guidelines in my book about it.
I would still reject them.
Even if they've had the surgery and their genitals look passing I doubt it would taste, feel, function the same as a real vagina.
Just the knowledge they used to be a guy would affect how I perceive them.
I suspect they would have more emotional baggage/mental issues relative to the average girl.
They are also so rare that even if I refuse to date them I still wouldn't be restricting my dating pool by a noticeable amount.
There’s only one answer to this, sorry. Personally I don’t deject anybody unless they pose as a threat to me. If I came across a trans person and I rejected them and discriminated against them, I would receive a lot of rejection from the public. Likewise, if I were to say that I reject trans people on here, it would lead to many assumptions and negative comments for my opinion. In other words, if I were to say that I am against trans people, one could say that I have a right to my religious freedom but am using my freedom derogatorily. I don’t think trans people should ever be disrespected or discriminated and the only reason why I think there is only one answer to this question is because people judge whatever you said to whomever you speak to.
I would never fall in love with a trans because that’s not what I go for, but definitely can be friends with one. I don’t have anything against them
Well as a male human, neurologically i would never feel attractive towards a trans that's just simple biology so the question of rejecting or accepting them as my companion is void in itself. But i would happily as a rational human would, makes friend with them anyday.
I used to say yes, but after repeated dates with various trans men and women I can confidently say I have 0 interest in MtF trans romantically or sexually. FtM I still find appealing sometimes, though most I dated had little man syndrome going on because the were 5’2” lol
So yes I’d reject them for being trans because I’ve been there, done that and didn’t enjoy it one bit. Each to their own, just not my cup of tea.
Being trans is not "only".
I want a guy with XY chromosomes.
no.. we're humans so when it's comes to our comfort and happiness we always choose to be different and kind so no I'm not gonna judge that person just bc he/she decides to be happy and feel confident even for a little... I'll be so happy to be close to that person _ a friend or a lover _
Being transgender is being incapable of reproduction - establishing a legacy. I'm speaking of the end of an evolutionary path, where biologically, the changes to sexual organs and other sex features literally becomes so blurred, that the ability of procreation has evaporated.
Besides that, transgender people to love being partakers of sexual activity, and it is common knowledge that they are counted amongst the most sexually-devious. Most often displaying behavior that hasn't the leaves no doubt of a totally absent conscience, one arrives at the conclusion that they, in their self-destructive mindset are detrimental role models" for the infantile and thus a great harm to society itself. But they do a good job at masking the awesome, utter misery that pervades their inner life by masking it with exterior extravaganza.
I am 100% on the "do what you think you gotta do to be comfortable with yourself" side but when you say "only because" like it's something fairly minor. It really isn't minor at all. And just like I feel trans have rights and their beliefs should not be frowned upon, I feel the same for straight folks. I shouldn't be frowned upon for their beliefs
I’m a heterosexual woman only interested in heterosexual me.
I wouldn't reject someone cause their trans it honestly depends on one their personality and if I'm attracted to them and two what type of trans they are. I'm a lesbian so if a ftm asked me on a date I would say no because they identify as a man where as I like women. Now if a mtf asked me out and I liked this person and was attracted to them then I would say yes if that makes sense.
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