Would you date someone who's trans?

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I wouldn't because I see gender dysphoria as a mental illness, this one being very serious and that will cause problems, they're almost certainly a flaming liberal, and I don't find them attractive. Would you date someone who's trans?

sexyDana89 · Accepted Answer

I am a man who likes living a femme life. I am not trans, but do live as a woman. This is a choice of mine, I feel feminine and masculine at times. I like woman and men. But really like being the girl for sex. It's not a mental illness it's a choice. I have lived as a woman for 2 years because I like playing the female part, do I want to be or think I am a woman No! Just like playing the role. I live a happy normal life. But what's normal? Normal is you, what you do everyday is your normal. The norm for everyone is that we all do it differently that's normal. I have dated a trans person, we were same in a lot of ways, only one difference, I agree with being male. So you can be trans without dysphoria. It can simply be your choice, and that's not mental illness living your life happy the way you see it.

Lanawolf · Accepted Answer

Its just a bit off putting for me, Im a straight woman so I like men for a reason. Because they are masculine, they were born with masculine traits ( protectiveness, alpha, confidence, recklessness), not that women can't have those things obvs but you get what I mean. Also its just a bit weird, I have no issue with trans people but I would not date a trans man. I want a man born a man, who has grown up a boy and been influenced by males his whole life and wants a woman. That may sound strange, I can't really word it well but that's my opinion

Insomnia72 · Accepted Answer

Well you can't foreplay with the vagina like you can a womans anus. More preparation needs to happen, you can't just stick it in there after a minute. She/he needs to shit out and clean up inside thoroughly, and you shouldn't attempt to stick your dick inside a woman's butt after she's had alcohol or a bad burrito. Weed edibles, however, slow down poop release, but also dries her up. So it's a give and take. Just use lube.

Regardless, I don't see the point of dating a trans woman other than not been into dicks. So I wonder what guys get out of it other than that they're closet gay. The butt hole is not intended for penetration. It can act as a detour when the vagina is out of service, but not a forefront.

adidas0169 · Accepted Answer

1st of all there's only 2 sexes MALE and FEMALE. not several.2nd of all you can dress it up cut shit off etc or sew things up and make a dick doesn't make you a damn guy or woman.3rd of all coming out of the closet doesn't or being trans or post of pre op doesn't make you a fucking hero. a hero is someone that risk there own lives for the sake of someone elses either someone you know or a complete stranger.

To answer the question would i date another guy fuck no im not a peter puffer nor would i let another guy suck my dick or fuck me in my ass. i love pussy and always will.

SpacedCharr · Answer

I would. I'm bisexual - I don't particularly care about the bits. I care about the person.

Most trans people I've met are actually quite far from "flaming liberal". They're very deliberate and intentional - but also, I've met them in person. They're not the tumblristas who like to pretend to be trans for attention.

sawno · Answer

No for multiple reasons.
I want a real girl i can possibly get a family with.
These days people transition for the wrong reasons and will get confronted with insane regret 5 years in or so.
The fact someone transitions for the sake of trying to fit in the culture i oppose means we are incompatible in general (This one does not apply to people with genuine dysphoria).

tinkey666 · Answer

Honestly, transgender people normally get on my nerves, mainly because of their straight up disrespect of other peoples beliefs. I think, from a government that used to kill men and women for even think they wanted to be gay. They have grown a lot and are much more respectful. As much as i support individuality, it is indesputable that becoming the opposite sex is 'weird'.

However some transgender people have blended into their chosen side, some you wouldn't even second guess. That is why i chose yes, because love is love.

Kaneki05 · Answer

While trans is a mental health illness, it simpley dumb to cast there personailty and there heart out just cause they have a minor health issue that don't hurt people.
however it is fair to say no guy will ever be a 100% girl no like a girl would be 100% a guy while been trans so it is up to your sexaul prefrence and if your mind can like it.

my mind cannot sort of. Since i have DID with a female personality in me i can grasp wanting to be the oppsite sex, but honeslty most people who try to transform them selfs to the other gender come out still having there true gender quailtes and i wouldn't be able to like that.

a girl acting like a guy i don't mind at all heck having a personailty of a guy in them is cool but transforming there body wouldn't do for me.
if they want to were more male clothes i would be kinda annoyed cause girl clothes are mostly hot and look better. But i wouldn't mind.

JackofSpades · Answer

No I'm straight and I don't date men.

Now that being said...
You have every right to express yourself however you like.

If you want to pretend to be a different the opposite gender, an extraterrestrial or a wear cat, go for it.

If you want to pay for cosmetic surgery because you want to look like the thing you're pretending to be.
More power to ya.

Just don't expect people to think it's normal or expect them to play along with your diluted fantasy.

WintersDaughter · Answer

Never. I want children.  I also see that as a mental illness, but it's mostly because I want my own children.

ZackBan · Answer

Well it's been said here many times so I feel like I'm repeating something but its also my opinion so I will share it.

There are only two gendres on Earth so far, male and female.
Now each male and female is free to chose his lifestyle and decides whether to be called he or she. But at the end of the day males are males and females are females.
Me I'm straight so it's only females for me, biologically born females.

pajamasam · Answer

I picked yes but much closer to maybe. I've never spent extended time with a trans person so I can't say for sure. Being trans would definitely be odd and would make me feel kinda odd about it, but if I knew them well and had a close relationship with them I might would consider it.

Sensmind · Answer

I wouldn't close the door - What I mean if I found myself in a situation of a connection developed, I would think about it - I think any of the things that might turn me off, personality, values, beliefs would have arisen by now so at the end I am in the situation would I date this person or not same way as I would be if they were blonde/redhead, short/tall, slim/thick, jew/buddist, liberal/conservative etc

Anonymous · Answer

no because i dont feel comfortable with supporting the person so closely. being friends with a trans person is fine and i do have a friend like that right now whom i support and am quite close with.

trans people are often depressed and require more care and love than people who do not experience dysphoria. so it is really simply because i feel like i am not patient enough to take care of that kind of person properly.

OddBeMe · Answer

No, and I do think consent also covers telling someone you’re trans. There are some exceptionally good lookers who fooled me. I found them attractive as hell, but because they are trans I wouldn’t date them. I don’t know why actually. Perhaps just a gut feeling that could change. Thoughts?

Anonymous · Answer

I dont think it's a mental illness to be gay or trans. I just think different people pick different things to do to feel better in their skin. Some make those choices consciously while others are guided that way by things they may not even realize or understand. I ultimately think it's a choice, but one where some folks dont have the strength/courage/confidence to stick with what they know deep down is right. Not judging; just saying what I feel. That said, if I was single and a trans acted like a normal girl and not all flamboyant and could hold down a stable relationship... yeah I'd date them.

fashionguy17 · Answer

No, I am straight. And no... I do not want to hear anything more about my answer. If you are TRULY straight, you wouldn't date someone who "changes" genders. OH, and you can't really change genders, by the way. Just because you mutilate your genitals and get hormone therapy doesn't make you a new gender. Take a DNA test and you will still show up as the gender you were born with. Men have XY chromosomes and women have XX... you can't change those. Sorry.

KashNickels · Answer

Good Lord i pray you are unable to procreate. Human sexuality is a science that is rife with data and no answers. It's not a simple XX-XX for her and XX-XY for him. There are what is, sadly, classified as abnormalities that run the gamut and would boggle your mind.

I will say thank you for letting us know if your ignorance so we may educate and or steer clear of you.

Philyouup · Answer

I do not think I would knowingly. As if I know your were born a male, I see you as male. Ans I would know that your vagina is a construction.

I say this without pride , as I understand the principles and that persons belief in themselves. But I think I came from a time where thats person is just not going to register with me as the opposite sex. And since I am not homosexual or polysexual or anything but cis male, it’s a hurdle my social upbringing would struggle to overcome.

Akachan · Answer

When i date someone i don't look at their gender. It's not about what gender they identify as. It's really about their personality and just who they are as a person.

JimboGB · Answer

No, I wouldn't. Put aside the fact I don't find it appealing or attractive, this would be the definition of a toxic person to me.

And the studies are clear, that 80%+ of people wouldn't either. Including the homosexual community. Which of course is a problem for trans people who are narrowing they're chances of a relationship. Within a community who already suffer terrible levels of suicide and depression.

wingattebaby16 · Answer

being Bi, I have and would date a "girl" with a big penis and nice boobs... best of both worlds AND we dont have to use a strapon for me to get what I want...

Anonymous · Answer

i don't agree with the transgender movement and i, too, think it's caused by gender dysphoria but i don't know. the way the idea of trans women with penis going to women's bathrooms pisses off feminists and most females kinda makes me like trans women. i may date one just for that reason

korsair25 · Answer

No. I've got friends who are gay, bi, lesbian and one or two hermaphrodites (born with both genders). My limited experience with trans folks is that a lot of them are doing it for the attention and this need is going to cause other problems later on in the relationship.

Dav1ss · Answer

I mean I'd say no but I'd can't say anything 100%certain

LargePoverty · Answer

I've always been of the opinion that if there is genuine mutual attraction between two consenting adults that writing them off because of something like being trans is silly. Just a waste of a shot at emotional fulfilment.

EmmaMary · Answer

Personally  No  fucking way on earth, hell would need to freeze over first. But each to their own, whatever floats your boat.

Zealashton · Answer

Is it like the goku dolls or traps, then OK, is it like sensitive pornography Ok. But your going to have to really fucking work hard to get me to date a guy. Lols. I don't like ugly. But in a realtion ship I will work hard to improve my self

Lliam · Answer

I like actual women, not men who are medically transformed into female look alikes. Setting all else aside, a guy who looks and acts like a woman doesn't have a functioning pussy. That's a deal breaker.

MannySimms · Answer

Sure. Let's remember that males give far superior blowjobs since they have a reference point. If they look like this, why the hell not?

MissKittyz · Answer

I'm bi and no, I would not. If I'm dating a woman, she better have a vagina and natural boobs. If I'm dating a man, he better have a penis and no boobs.

txbiker636 · Answer

I don't agree with it. We were made the way we were for a reason in my opinion and I just prefer to keep it the way it is meant to be. That being said I in no way profile or disassociate from trans genders. I can love one as a close friend just as I could my old highschool baseball teammates.

ImSparkly · Answer

I wouldn’t rule it out, but I’m not actively seeking it either. I had a FTM buddy that was occasionally a friends with benefits while he was transitioning, but there was no romantic chemistry.

That_Guy132 · Answer

You know, it really sucks to see all these negative opinions of trans people. I'm not necessarily supporting the trans movement or advocating for it, but many of us are just plain ridiculous. Wether you support trans or not, these are still people with value, who deserve respect. Again, I don't support this movement, but I will not push negative/aggressive behaviour that doesn't help the situation. But no, I would not date a trans person.

MountainDewMan1 · Answer

I think I'll stick to a regular woman. I'll have actual access to the clam without all the extra steps.

Daarkblood · Answer

I could not date someone who is Transgender though I have no problems with being their friends. One day I'd like to have children.

simplyvisual2014 · Answer

Date them? No. I could only be with a genetic woman, not a man who chose to live their life as a woman. Genetic women are beautiful and should be honored because they can bring life onto this planet.

stillasleep · Answer

I think I would casually date a trans woman if they were attractive, cool, and easy to talk to. I wouldn't even mind not knowing if they were trans or not while dating them either. However if it ever lead to having sex, then I would want them to tell me beforehand, Would I have sex with them? .. No, I don't think I would.

jarrea01 · Answer

That's just not my "cup of tea" I have no problem with Trans and they're fine with me, I'd even be friends with them. But to date one, eeeehhhhhhh. I prefer, pan, straight, or bi women.

pigoat · Answer

Damn trans getting a date on GaG are getting demolished Good thing GaG isn't the be all end all Because trans people still be getting some action lmao

EverythingTheySay · Answer

Why would you stick you penis in a freak show when you have delicious women around?

Anonymous · Answer

As much as I loathe agreeing with the combined hate group here on anything...

I am happy with women and I'll happily call a Trans female she, her, ma'am but I can not and will not call them women. Because they are not women.

I can say that I feel I am a duck but I still won't quack, float, or fly like one

Kayla45 · Answer

No, I'm sorry but I need biological men in my life, no offense to transgender people. Like we could be friends for sure but I wouldn't date them...

Anonymous · Answer

Nope. As a straight male, I am not interested in dating a male. A guy sucking dick is gay and you will never convince me otherwise.

AbleLearner · Answer

Hell no. Dating an transgendered person is an act of homosexuality. I obviously want to have sex with a real biological woman, not a tranny.

Anonymous · Answer

Men are basically gay, so they’d love to have sex with trans women (especially if the trans women still have their dick intact). Men won’t usually date them, though, cuz they like to use women for procreation.

ryudomasters · Answer

Definitely not if they underwent any sort of surgery because thinking about that makes me feel uneasy

Big-A · Answer

I don't see how anyone could end up willing to smash a woman for example, her vagina used to have a damn cock there.

How woould you even get that out of your mind to get it up for "her" in the first place?

Callio · Answer

It is very clear that a lot of the people who answered “no” and commented why, have never actually met a trans person before. You can't spot a trans person, they dont all look the same lol

Minahh · Answer

I wouldn't. But that's just my preference. You know I'm such a hoe for male voice and hands and those just aren't so manly and natural in a transgender man the same is for trans women.

Hamsteroids · Answer

I’m not homo/trans phobic, BUT it’s not for me. I couldn’t do it

EssenceDawson · Answer

I have nothing against trans people but I personally wouldn’t

Anonymous · Answer

These people identify them as the gender they prefere. So they would not tell you their biological gender haha. But i dont support the hate against trans people. It is not your business what they do with their body

cth96190 · Answer

Hell no! I do not have a sexual interest in XY chromosomes in a dress.

timp1001 · Answer

For me 1 would be religion reason which play important role even if I wasn't religious you can't magically change from male to female sure you can look like one in appearance but not biologically that is proven fact.

MajesticTwelve · Answer

If you mean throw a date at them, yes. Romantically dating them, no.

N192K001 · Answer

Nope. I'm not trans, neither will I date one.

ness11 · Answer

Man is made for woman and woman is made for man

Msgaïj · Answer

I can't go on with a person who don't know if its a boy or a girl

JCT666 · Answer

No. Why date a transgender when I can just date a real woman?

PhiBonAhhQi · Answer

Transsexuals are born in the wrong body. Why hold that against them?

CaptainSmartass · Answer

Nope. A chick who 'used to' be a dude is still a dude. And dudes don't to it for me. Simples...

DylanLink · Answer

I am trans and I couldn't date another trans person. My life is depressing as fuck so I wouldn't want to hurt anyone else. Being with another trans person would be too hard because id know what they are experiencing too well.

Bootylicious905 · Answer

I have. Best experience of my life. She is still my best friend as with a cock.

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