This is NOT an open invitation to invitation trans people.
Would you date a trans person?
This is NOT an open invitation to invitation trans people.
Absolutely not. I am only attracted to women. A man who thinks he is a woman, even if he has been medically modified to appear feminine, is not a woman. He doesn't have a uterus, ovaries, an functioning vagina, and has not grown up experiencing being female from birth. He doesn't have XX chromosomes, the right natural hormone levels or a female skeleton.
That's not to say that I can't be friends with someone who suffers from gender dysphoria. I actually have three friends who have transitioned. One was born female and two were born male. They're good people. I'm not a bigot. I just have personal tastes when it comes to sexual partners.
Probably not but I mean never say never I guess. Also some one not finding a trans person attractive is not bigoted. Bigoted means being intolerant to another persons beliefs, so you deciding that some one not dating a trans person makes them a bad person is in fact bigoted, not the other way around.
Also while we are at it, by your rational every gay and lesbian person in the entire world is now automatically a bigot (ignoring the fact that your using the term wrong), because they have sexual preferences and refuse to date the opposite sex. Its a stupid argument and a pretty blatant and bad attempt at virtue signalling.
Yea people are crazy. I read a post where a guy said if you don’t want to watch gay porn you are homophobic, it’s like wtf.
@Explorer91 Yeah, its really stupid. Again, by that rational every gay guy is heterophobic and their is something wrong with them for not dating outside of their gender. Pretty bad argument coming from groups that argue that they can't control how they feel or who they are attracted to so you have to accept it but then turn around and say that doesn't apply to straight people. Its not just hypocritical, its stupid too.
I'm attracted to biological men, but won't rule it out if I met an attractive trans person. Some trans women decide to keep their male body and I have no experience with trans men after transition. As long as they have a dick, no boobs and some muscle definition (to the touch and when they grab me) I'm open to it.
Yes. I mean, I'm not opposed to it in principle although I can't see it happening in practice. Reason being I am pretty picky and there's not a lot of trans people out there - I've never met an (openly) trans guy in my life. But if I was single, we had a connection, enough in common and he was hot then I would.
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It is against my religion but that said, I love the trans people and do not hate them. I simply conclude that this life is built for only two genders... those born male and those born female. To be anything else is to be in for a storm.
What religion is it if you don't mind me asking?
No. I am willing to grant trans complete social acceptance as a woman but would never consider one for a sexual or romantic interest. I am only interested in females with XX Chromosomes. This is not "phobic" as I am not attracted to ALL biological females either (obese, older than me, etc.). I fully accept trans peoples' choices, I just don't want to have sex with them
Do you check every potential partners chromosomes or do you assume
Despite the insistence that you cannot tell you always can.
No. Because I'm not homosexual and have no attraction to dick, man hands, or any other masculine features. Not to mention, almost no transwomen ever pass as actual women, and even if they DID, they still act like men in very subtle to obvious ways (the aggressiveness, the horniness, the perversion, the porn addiction, and other masculine traits).
You can't force or shame people into being homosexual and you'd be wrong to do so. But yeah, I'm super-straight.
I said no transphobia.
Saying something you disagree is not "transphobia," not that that means anything, and it's idiotic to think that it is. But I can see the writing on the wall; you're an insecure transwoman who wants the whole world to agree with them and can't handle so much as the slightest disagreement from your own worldview. I don't deal with people like that. Block me, if you have to.
I had a serious girlfriend who was very beautiful. She told me she was trans, but it didn't make any difference. We broke up after I took her to a high-class restaurant and she lost her phone which she claimed the waiter stole, which was most unlikely.
Been out on dates with a really lovely trans girl.
Also danced with her, bought her flowers, chocolates, let her hear my big loud exhaust..
I have zero problems in a non sexual relationship.
Dating? No, I wouldn't. For one, dating someone who isn't comfortable with themself - namely their assigned gender, isn't fine with me. Second - I have zero attraction towards females. Having "parts added" or "removed" is not a turn on and doesn't change the smaller things that men have - like a bigger frame in general, broad shoulder, bigger hands, a harder jaw line, etc. Third, I love kids. I'd want our own, biological kids.
I am a crossdresser and there is a running joke.
Whats the differance between a crossdress and a transgender? 5 years
I dont buy that. I been crossdressing over 4 decades. Anyways I digress.
Would I date a transgender? My answer is I don't know, I never been in that situation.
I can tell you why I won't at this moment in time, because my wife would kick my ass.
I would not be in a relationship with someone who switched to being male. I’m a straight female and want to be with someone born male who has original/authentic male parts. I don’t dislike trans people, but my preference is biological men.
So you asked this question just to get mad at peoples preferences? Having a preference does not take away their human rights. Personally I believe that trans people should be treated with dignity and respected like every other person walking this planet. So I don’t agree with transphobic people, but having a preference isn’t transphobic. You’re allowed to date and love who you want to - isn’t that the stance of the LGBTQ community? Why can’t straight people pick who they want to be in relationships with? The hypocrisy is on another level.
If all the parts are as they should be then that's fine to me, as long as they're a good person who cares about me :)
I'm not sure.
It would depend on the person I think.
Also how far they are in the transition and such as well.
I'm unsure if I want kids, so that might be why I'm more open to it and the fact I'm thinking I'm developing into bisexuality.
However, I've always thought if I do want kids, I want them to be biological.
But again. I think it would all depend on the trans person.
No I wouldn't. I once flirted with a woman who i didn't know was trans. She seemed like a woman. But once I saw her hands I realized, dang those are man hands they are huge. Then I realized her shoulders were wide. Finally I realized she had an adams apple but it wasn't sticking out that much but it was still there. It hit me like a ton of bricks. Disturbed me. I immediately stopped and just walked away.
No and hell no.
People can be free to do what they want. You can be free to get a sex change but I can be free to reject you for having the Y chromosome.
Just read what this girl (possibly trans herself) is saying. She believes that sexual preferences are “bigoted” which is insane but I’m seeing more and more of this crap.
Im sure there is a segment of guys/girls who don’t care. Well the more power to them. Again it’s a free world and it’s their choice.
But it is NOT a free world if you call me a “bigot” for not wanting to date a trans person. No you are FORCING me to change my preferences. This is where it gets sick and twisted.
I support the community but I personally wouldn’t do it only because I want to date a girl that was born a girl and I don’t think it’s wrong for other people to feel the same way
If she's post-op and completely indistinguishable from a cis woman then I wouldn't have a problem having a casual sexual relationship with her. However, as of right now, most trans people aren't able to have kids so it'd be a dealbreaker for a long-term relationship the same way an infertile cis woman would be.
sure if theyve really gone the extra mile to look like a woman ! ik thats stereotyping but really big manly man is not something a lesbian wants. no better way to word it than looking like a woman. ┐(´-`)┌
If everything clicks, yes. I really just want a life partner so it doesn't make a difference to me as long as that is the outcome.
Not a chance. You are what you are, just look in your pants. Cutting your dick off or sewing one on does not change your gender. It doesn't even make them happy - these are the most unhappy people on the planet.
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You're an idiot, and you can't even spell. GTFO of here.
I would have dated Blaire White, just out of curiosity, because she is freakin hot!
But I would not have entered a serious relationship with her, because the whole "getting children"-thing is kind of important to me.
Trans people can have kids. Cis people can't. Do you make everyone take a fertility test before you date them?
Yeah i would. I don't wanna date a vagina, i wanna date a person. I want to love them for their qualities. As long as you look feminine and pretty enough with a good personality i dont care.
Before I answer, I have absolutely nothing against how anyone wishes to choose to live their lives. But would I date them? Never knowingly.
If they have an Adam's Apple. Nope!
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