My boyfriend and I been together for almost 8 years , I’m 24 and he is 27 we haven’t moved in together because of several things and also we always had an up and down relationship and that has stopped us from making that move. I moved out from my dads place a year ago and decided to rent a room but I’m not able to bring people over so and is been hard for my boyfriend and I to have alone time...
i usually don’t go over to his place but when I do is not like we are alone. He still lives with his parents and younger sister thats 18. Just yesterday I went over and his dad came home from work ( apparently he came home a bit drunk) I usually don’t have the greatest relationship with his family but also I never gave them reasons why not to like me. So I said hi to him and told him if he was just done with work. After that he started to talk to me and I guess make a small convo and asked me if I loved his son or how much.. we was laughing and even my boyfriend. I was a bit uncomfortable when he stArted to talk about marriage and when we were going to get married. I told him that I’m waiting on him and just laughing while I say it. Until my boyfriend got bothered and told him to stop. I guess the dad didn’t like it and started to give attitude and what made it worse is when my boyfriend said “ okay bye “ the dad got more mad and said that is his house and nobody going to be kicking him out of the room. So I’m there just awkwardly sitting looking at them. So what my boyfriend did is call his mom Hmm basically telling his mom that he got home drunk and making me feel uncomfortable. When he really wasn’t. He left the room and I could hear how he was still saying shit about he being a mamas boy and getting mad because he was trying to conversaré with me. I felt bad for my boyfriend and he felt bad for me. But now today he tells me I should go over and chill and fuck what his dad says... and yes he does pay rent. But should I even go?
i usually don’t go over to his place but when I do is not like we are alone. He still lives with his parents and younger sister thats 18. Just yesterday I went over and his dad came home from work ( apparently he came home a bit drunk) I usually don’t have the greatest relationship with his family but also I never gave them reasons why not to like me. So I said hi to him and told him if he was just done with work. After that he started to talk to me and I guess make a small convo and asked me if I loved his son or how much.. we was laughing and even my boyfriend. I was a bit uncomfortable when he stArted to talk about marriage and when we were going to get married. I told him that I’m waiting on him and just laughing while I say it. Until my boyfriend got bothered and told him to stop. I guess the dad didn’t like it and started to give attitude and what made it worse is when my boyfriend said “ okay bye “ the dad got more mad and said that is his house and nobody going to be kicking him out of the room. So I’m there just awkwardly sitting looking at them. So what my boyfriend did is call his mom Hmm basically telling his mom that he got home drunk and making me feel uncomfortable. When he really wasn’t. He left the room and I could hear how he was still saying shit about he being a mamas boy and getting mad because he was trying to conversaré with me. I felt bad for my boyfriend and he felt bad for me. But now today he tells me I should go over and chill and fuck what his dad says... and yes he does pay rent. But should I even go?
