Have you ever rejected someone because they were way out of your league?

[AudreyB88]

[FictionalCharacter]

Yeah. What I consider ‘out of my league’, is someone who is from a nice conservative family. Who has everything in order, that’s ‘holy’? Or upper class people.

But, I grew up in household that what you want in life. Struggle and judgement plays a part in society in order to survive. While also not giving a f**k.

Well, I’m not a evil person. But there are some things I do that some people judge or look down on.

So yeah, I reject a person out of my league. To spare them judgement from others and me getting hurt. It’s best to end it, before a painful journey starts.

[Imcmullan]

Yep... I have done this a couple of times bc I wonder, whhhhhhhyyyy would someone so hot want me? It's all about how u perceive yourself. I go back n forth on the self esteem scale , I think it's a part of being human.

[Liam_Hayden]

No. I do not really even believe in "leagues" as most people seem to. I will reject her if she is obese and not trying to get in shape, or super hairy and disinterested is removing it, or obnoxious/rude, or a drug addict. Or if she does not practice good hygiene.

As for "leagues" I have dated far wealthier than I am and girls who work at minimum or near minimum wage. I have dated taller than my 6'2 and over a foot shorter. I have dated girls with model looks and very plain girls. I like girls who have some similar interests and who are not high maintenance drama queens.

[Nik1hil]

The only person I have rejected my whole life.. Is me and myself...

[Nik1hil]

Why?
Why the MHO..

[chadpattan]

1992. Junior high school/Middle school.

I'm in typing class (actual typewriters, mind you). A girl that I was crazy attracted to comes up and tells me she wants to be with me.

"Why?"

She's like... what do you mean?

"Why me?"

Never talked to me (directly) again.

To her credit she still signed my yearbook with a heart. But thinking back, yeah I turned her down because she was too beautiful at the time.

At least four other times I can think of where I flat out told gorgeous women no because they were too good looking.

[Hazelstar]

Yes there was this guy who is a fitness model who was interested in me and he was really very hot guy. He was into body building and stuff. I refused to build further connection with him because our lives were totally different and still it is different. Also by being with him I felt even more insecure. Also a huge lot of attractive females were his friends. By being with him I felt more and more insecure. So yes, I had to reject him so that I could feel okay about myself.

[DianaWest]

yes. he was a hot Asian (Korean? Japanese?) guy i met at school, probably 2 years younger than me. he was way too muscular for me. i mean, he was smokin hot, and believe me, i was interested, but i was like, man what do you want with me? go get your Gigi Hadid or Candace Swanepoel and leave me alone.

[KeziL]

Nah. If I have any interest at all in someone, I’ll give them a chance, see if I like them. If someone out of my league likes me, guess I misjudged my league. Explore all opportunities and see where it gets you.

[jgokgotit]

I have rejected 3 different women who, by looks, would be way out of my league yet they had some interest in me. I rejected two because I knew they were manipulators and they also had a reputation for sleeping around a lot and stirring up drama. The third one I rejected because she had just got out of a long-term relationship and I did not believe she was fully healed. I probably would have dated her if I was confident enough that she was ready for a relationship.

[kymberz]

oh holy heck! are you serious? i have never rejected anyone who has ever even been half sincere? and in my league? oh bahahahahah! are you just jivin' me now? i'd love to meet someone in my league - like ever! i always gotta climb down the ladder to meet them and ya - it is tiring and boring but that is the only way i meet people and that is ok! i am just responding honestly to your question! and i do always try to help? did this help at all?

[Leonhart44]

I currently like someone that is wayyyyyy out of my league and he shows signs that he may like me. I once rejected a guy that was very explicit by saying sexual things to me despite making it clear that I had no intention to go out with him. His approach was not ok with me.

[quizz]

I am of the opinion if someone is showing interest and I am attracted, I'm game. Only time I ever denied someone I thought attractive, I was chasing someone else and thought it would be less painful to be rejected than sleep with a guy to find he's chasing other girls.

[Insightfull]

No. I have been in a couple relationships with women that I think were way more attractive than me. They loved me. I would again.

That being said, I tend to not try if I think she's "way out of my league" so to speak... oh wait. nevermind. Maybe I only try for women who are 😂

[honestGUY45]

I don't think I've come across anyone out of my league that has made a move. I'm pretty shy, so I tend to be unengaged in eye contact, or short with a face to face conversation, especially if I find them attractive. Highly unlikely and certainly unnoticed.

[Frenchbrit]

Errr no I don't think but I don't tend to go for guys that are out of my league to often but I do think it's not necessarily all about looks. You can tell if your getting on well with someone and if they might reciprocate feelings toward you usually

[Lily-bardot]

No, I only reject someone if I don't like their personality, if they come off as arrogant it's a no from me.

[J2ohhhhh]

We don't say we aren't sophisticated enough, we'd rather call those people snobby and arrogant. But indeed that is what called out of your league.

[Anonymous]

No, but I would be very suspicious of her.

As it would be very uncommon and I would think that she wants something out of me and expects to use her beauty to get something out of me.

That happened few times to me and those girls use it all the time. Just go and see how men are exploited by very beautifully sales women...

[chadpattan]

I wouldn't be "suspicious" over a basic ask. But I do have a saying.

If a highly attractive girl is throwing sex at you, there's probably something wrong with it.

[Opinion Owner]

I'm probably more paranoid then any other person and it saved my life multiple times.

Few of my exes noted before to me that I'm more paranoid then usual people.

[whilipino]

What does it mean to be "in my league"? I've rejected people because we are not compatible, not because one of us was superior to the other.

[i1T2daty]

I've never considered anyone out of my league? Though that sounds lacking in humility

[Amel2333]

Its not about leagues its either my key oppens that person's heart or not if it doesn't oppen it its not bc im less of a key its only bc im oppening the wrong door

[theCobbler]

Yes but not so much out of my league , but because she was too high maintenance!

[RHK36]

No, only have rejected females that I know I don't or won't like. If I know we won't get along or they have a personality I won't get along with then I stop it there.

[AspiringArtist]

Well I can’t say yes. I have rejected some girls because I wasn’t attracted to them. But I’m not that attractive myself, so to say she’s out of my league.. no. I don’t really have a league. Just preferences I guess.

[Billy0670]

All the time... when does it stop is the real question🤣🤣🤣

[R_ūshī]

Yeah

I dodged a complete mismatch and an eventual toxic relationship.

[red324]

I usually don't realize they're hitting on me until it's too late and by the I've already said something stupid and I'm now staring at her ass as she's walking away.

[jamesgoldman]

No... I used to believe in them but then started dating outside of my league and so stopped believing in them

[Carbon-12]

I don't really believe in leagues. I have rejected people because of my own insecurites though, which I guess is the kinda the same thing.

[genericname85]

i once was rejected cause she thought i was "above" her league... don't ask me how that makes sense.

[genericname85]

and i mean i rejected a girl once cause she was morbidly obese. not sure if that counts as "out of my league" but i'm not fat or even chubby and i'm just not into that kind of thing.

[standingUP]

EVERYONE eats poops and dies. NOBODY is out of anybodies league ( . ) -period lol

[Joe_Barbaro]

Commas are important man

[standingUP]

@Joe_Barbaro ,

[Jamie05rhs]

I haven't rejected someone like that. But I have declined to make [initial] contact.

[anton_dee]

Yup I have. It didn't feel good but it was kinda the right thing to do. Coz it wouldn't have lasted more than a month anyways...

[Meister__]

No i have never ever thought like that. Just a kind rejection.

[JesseJayNeak]

It was the opposite actually. After many refusals, there was one of the most popular girls in school who asked me out but I refused knowing I had no chance

[knucklehead87]

Yes. She was way hotter, and I didn't think things would last. Kicked myself ever since.

[Walrus_au]

No, but in high school I overlooked someone who I figured was way out of my league.

[roland77]

"League" here means something alpha/beta thingy? I would not even date such woman.

[roland77]

... who has a mindset in thinking of leagues.

[orangecherry]

NO I dated a male model for a month but he dumped me

[Laozi]

Nope. I only reject them because I'm not relationship material.

[vxlsir]

No one is out of a tones leauge... that's my personal opinion.
I personally don't view anyone as unattainable

[AlongCameCindy]

No, lol.
but then again only guys who were way out of my league who were interested in me, got bored and went off me quick.

[Erul_24]

I've rejected 3 girls and accepted the hottest girl at my school. And now I'm alone because she left me.

[ChiTown33]

Lmao... yeah right like that's even going to happen.

[R3DthatDude]

If they out of your league why are you doing the rejection lol obviously you must be wrong

[worldscolide]

No, why would I be that stupid.. My wife is way hotter than me, if I did that I wouldn't be married

[ivbnlknfru]

Never rejected but then again I don't try because I feel its not worth the time. I prefer sure fits...

[Therisinghero12]

No, but I have thought that some people wouldn't be interested in me because of that kinda thing only to find out later they were when it's too late

[bamesjond0069]

I think many girls do this. I always get really hot awesome girls but when im single if i try to date someone more average it never works.

[stormbreaker06]

i'm incel... so i'll never get a chance to reject a bshiss.

[Piteka5]

No, but a friend of mine did, he had a model interested in him, it was a dumb move on his part

[scooogy]

And that "league" is defined by the price range of makeup used?

[Anonymous]

Yeah I had a chance with the hottest girl in school but turned her down due to only having 2 inches and she wasn't the only one

[Angel_33]

When some reject is only she lost becouse not deserve know who are. Not only meat for night dating. 🤣

[Anonymous]

Yes, multiple times. Everybody is out of my league.

[Nikki1989]

I don't believe in leagues.

[Nopalpintado]

Do you like motley crue? i kinda got a vibe

[Neo22]

I think of no one out of my league unless she's with other person 🙈😱

[Browneye57]

There are no 'leagues'.

[Warmapplecrumble]

Never got the chance to do that 😁

[_gigi18]

Yes I have. People do it all the time

[BellaBlake]

Yes, I felt like he was joking

[spartan55]

Why the hell would I do that?

[Anonymous]

I definitely don't make any effort to "talk" to super hot women, what's the point.

[DeeDeeDeVour]

Unfortunately. :( I always felt bad doing so.

[pajamasam]

Yes, and it was a stupid decision.