Have you ever rejected someone because they were way out of your league?

[AudreyB88]

[FictionalCharacter]

Yeah. What I consider ‘out of my league’, is someone who is from a nice conservative family. Who has everything in order, that’s ‘holy’? Or upper class people.

But, I grew up in household that what you want in life. Struggle and judgement plays a part in society in order to survive. While also not giving a f**k.

Well, I’m not a evil person. But there are some things I do that some people judge or look down on.

So yeah, I reject a person out of my league. To spare them judgement from others and me getting hurt. It’s best to end it, before a painful journey starts.

[Imcmullan]

Yep... I have done this a couple of times bc I wonder, whhhhhhhyyyy would someone so hot want me? It's all about how u perceive yourself. I go back n forth on the self esteem scale , I think it's a part of being human.

[Liam_Hayden]

No. I do not really even believe in "leagues" as most people seem to. I will reject her if she is obese and not trying to get in shape, or super hairy and disinterested is removing it, or obnoxious/rude, or a drug addict. Or if she does not practice good hygiene.

As for "leagues" I have dated far wealthier than I am and girls who work at minimum or near minimum wage. I have dated taller than my 6'2 and over a foot shorter. I have dated girls with model looks and very plain girls. I like girls who have some similar interests and who are not high maintenance drama queens.

[Nik1hil]

The only person I have rejected my whole life.. Is me and myself...

[Nik1hil]

Why?
Why the MHO..

[chadpattan]

1992. Junior high school/Middle school.

I'm in typing class (actual typewriters, mind you). A girl that I was crazy attracted to comes up and tells me she wants to be with me.

"Why?"

She's like... what do you mean?

"Why me?"

Never talked to me (directly) again.

To her credit she still signed my yearbook with a heart. But thinking back, yeah I turned her down because she was too beautiful at the time.

At least four other times I can think of where I flat out told gorgeous women no because they were too good looking.

[Hazelstar]

Yes there was this guy who is a fitness model who was interested in me and he was really very hot guy. He was into body building and stuff. I refused to build further connection with him because our lives were totally different and still it is different. Also by being with him I felt even more insecure. Also a huge lot of attractive females were his friends. By being with him I felt more and more insecure. So yes, I had to reject him so that I could feel okay about myself.

[DianaWest]

yes. he was a hot Asian (Korean? Japanese?) guy i met at school, probably 2 years younger than me. he was way too muscular for me. i mean, he was smokin hot, and believe me, i was interested, but i was like, man what do you want with me? go get your Gigi Hadid or Candace Swanepoel and leave me alone.

[KeziL]

Nah. If I have any interest at all in someone, I’ll give them a chance, see if I like them. If someone out of my league likes me, guess I misjudged my league. Explore all opportunities and see where it gets you.

[jgokgotit]

I have rejected 3 different women who, by looks, would be way out of my league yet they had some interest in me. I rejected two because I knew they were manipulators and they also had a reputation for sleeping around a lot and stirring up drama. The third one I rejected because she had just got out of a long-term relationship and I did not believe she was fully healed. I probably would have dated her if I was confident enough that she was ready for a relationship.

[kymberz]

oh holy heck! are you serious? i have never rejected anyone who has ever even been half sincere? and in my league? oh bahahahahah! are you just jivin' me now? i'd love to meet someone in my league - like ever! i always gotta climb down the ladder to meet them and ya - it is tiring and boring but that is the only way i meet people and that is ok! i am just responding honestly to your question! and i do always try to help? did this help at all?

[Leonhart44]

I currently like someone that is wayyyyyy out of my league and he shows signs that he may like me. I once rejected a guy that was very explicit by saying sexual things to me despite making it clear that I had no intention to go out with him. His approach was not ok with me.

[quizz]

I am of the opinion if someone is showing interest and I am attracted, I'm game. Only time I ever denied someone I thought attractive, I was chasing someone else and thought it would be less painful to be rejected than sleep with a guy to find he's chasing other girls.

[Insightfull]

No. I have been in a couple relationships with women that I think were way more attractive than me. They loved me. I would again.

That being said, I tend to not try if I think she's "way out of my league" so to speak... oh wait. nevermind. Maybe I only try for women who are 😂

[honestGUY45]

I don't think I've come across anyone out of my league that has made a move. I'm pretty shy, so I tend to be unengaged in eye contact, or short with a face to face conversation, especially if I find them attractive. Highly unlikely and certainly unnoticed.

[Frenchbrit]

Errr no I don't think but I don't tend to go for guys that are out of my league to often but I do think it's not necessarily all about looks. You can tell if your getting on well with someone and if they might reciprocate feelings toward you usually

[Lily-bardot]

No, I only reject someone if I don't like their personality, if they come off as arrogant it's a no from me.

[J2ohhhhh]

We don't say we aren't sophisticated enough, we'd rather call those people snobby and arrogant. But indeed that is what called out of your league.

[Anonymous]

No, but I would be very suspicious of her.

As it would be very uncommon and I would think that she wants something out of me and expects to use her beauty to get something out of me.

That happened few times to me and those girls use it all the time. Just go and see how men are exploited by very beautifully sales women...

[chadpattan]

I wouldn't be "suspicious" over a basic ask. But I do have a saying.

If a highly attractive girl is throwing sex at you, there's probably something wrong with it.

[Opinion Owner]

I'm probably more paranoid then any other person and it saved my life multiple times.

Few of my exes noted before to me that I'm more paranoid then usual people.

[whilipino]

What does it mean to be "in my league"? I've rejected people because we are not compatible, not because one of us was superior to the other.

[i1T2daty]

I've never considered anyone out of my league? Though that sounds lacking in humility

[Amel2333]

Its not about leagues its either my key oppens that person's heart or not if it doesn't oppen it its not bc im less of a key its only bc im oppening the wrong door

[theCobbler]

Yes but not so much out of my league , but because she was too high maintenance!

[RHK36]

No, only have rejected females that I know I don't or won't like. If I know we won't get along or they have a personality I won't get along with then I stop it there.

[AspiringArtist]

Well I can’t say yes. I have rejected some girls because I wasn’t attracted to them. But I’m not that attractive myself, so to say she’s out of my league.. no. I don’t really have a league. Just preferences I guess.

[Billy0670]

All the time... when does it stop is the real question🤣🤣🤣