Is it bad that I find older men disgusting for hitting on girls my age? (Page 2)

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I am 20 and I think that 30+ years old men that only hit on me or girls of my age range are disgusting, shallow and don’t deserve any kind of love, especially when they tell me that they aren’t attracted to women their age. It’s just make me feel that i’m a piece of meat that will be traded in a decade for a younger model.  All I see when an older man hit on me is: hey cutie you’re still young and fresh, so I wanna exploit you before you expire!!! Please give me a chance!! It just disgust me when I see that most men no matter their age will go after women my age if they had the money and statu to buy themselves a wife ( aka the gold diggers they complain about) , and it truly wanna makes me give up on falling in love, because I feel that if I end up being single at 30 ( anything can happen) I will be disappointed and left aside like yesterday’s garbage because I’m not as pretty as the younger version of my self, and that a man will only go after me, because he can’t afford to date a younger girl

pajamasam · Answer

Your not wrong, you've got some valid points. Do keep in mind that being single at 30 ain't the end of the world I know plenty of older women who are good looking.

Dchrls78104 · Answer

Everyone has his/her preferences and the right to his/her opinion. I don't judge you for your opinion because there is no right and wrong here and it is your opinion; but I do not necessarily concur with it.

kangy · Answer

No, I think natural. if I am the mother of the 18 yo I will be annoyed and see him as pedo

melwyn_ · Answer

One of my friend always have crush on older guys... It's actually personal opinion.. yours and others. I personally think you need someone who love your behaviour , your smile and your eyes. Body face etc etc will degrade by time. You need to feel that special feeling when he is around you and it's all about smiles...

It's not always looks..

My ex double dated on me with a guy 10 years older then her. It felt weird..

DiscomfortZone · Answer

They are indeed disgusting, but you know who is more disgusting? The girls who actually go for these guys because they have money. If you stupid cunts stopped encouraging them, these pathetic desperate losers would stop behaving this way.

foxrider77 · Answer

Well if it’s just for a one night thing I think it could be fun. No strings attached. Plus the guys don’t want to deal with their baggage or drama so just keep it a one hit wonder.

Anonymous · Answer

When I was 20 I had a fling with a 31 year old guy. It did feel like he was just wanting to get something from me and nothing more nothing less so I called it off! Today I'm in a happy relationship with a younger guy who treats me amazing.

FuhQall · Answer

they can do whatever they want if its legal, jus cos u have an opinion doesn't mean u have the superior opinion and better than everyone else, its perfectly fine to me, jus grow up

AlongCameCindy · Answer

I like older men, though i think its creepy when they're only looking for sex from younger people.

chriscdi · Answer

well technically you are a piece of meat, we all are, we are all pieces of meat waiting for us to expire, rot and become totally useless now them wanting to treat you like an object is different and deserve no respect

Anonymous · Answer

As a Gerontophile, I think you should calm down. Unless he is forcing her to do something against her will, he's fine.

Avicenna · Answer

You can certainly have any opinion you like, and I understand where you're coming from. Just know that not all guys are like that.

LVbrando85 · Answer

Another example of how women's thought processes have changed over time to see men in a negative light. Man our society is slowly crumbling.

1truekhaleesi · Answer

No. I always feel disgust when they hit on me. I want to ask if they're lost or having a stroke. Good thing I know the signs of a stroke.

MackToday · Answer

Come here baby , young chicks can't get enough of this.

morganlove · Answer

Not bad. Just your opinion and we move along. I don't specifically look for women of any age. I go with whatever falls in my lap. If I happen to find one with daddy issues, yay me. I never make a first move though.

Kdude010 · Answer

You can't blame men when there are girls in their 20s that are literally targeting older men to be their sugar daddies. They'll seduce older men and pretend they're "interested" just so they can get a nice purse/car/ or get their rent paid.

BasicBad · Answer

No one cares what you think. Let people have their fun. You’ll be dried up and used soon enough and then men will ignore u.

pleasestopthis · Answer

Some older guys are really attractive but I could never take them seriously because I would feel the same, like I'm going to get ditched for someone younger someday.

genericname85 · Answer

nope. you're totally entiteled to your opinion and your preference. i had sex with a 20yo, when i was 30 and i felt like a pedo xD so i can understand that you'd feel like that too.

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

Sure you are. We're going to be honest here but we're not hitting on girls at their 40s. As biologically speaking we are attracted to the most fertile women. But if you don't like it then create your own biology. And last i checked 20 is a legal age.

Snakeyes7 · Answer

It certainly is weird but the data shows that women prefer older men and the older the better so the chances of asking a 20-something out when you are a 30 or 40 something are so much better than if you are younger than her or right around her age.

Xoirwinkan · Answer

For them, getting a young girl is like winning the lottery. Of course it MIGHT be gross for someone like you, but some girls actually like older men, not to mention the possibility of being a sugar baby.

Cannuck22 · Answer

I think I’m today’s society it’s normal. You so so many people together that have a big age gap. I agree with you but it happens. Maybe because of celebrities you see a lot of the older males with younger females.

GermanGuy87 · Answer

I don't let other peoples actions bother me. I really couldn't give a crap who someone else dates lol

RHK36 · Answer

It's not bad, it's just your preference. Some people don't mind the age gap and others do. It's okay to have that opinion.

MannySimms · Answer

Yeah, well... Can you explain cougars and their attitude?  Men are swine. Problem? Complain in church.

OfDeath · Answer

So you are hating on men for wanting young women but you are saying you wouldn't date an older guy either. Pot calling the kettle black.

Tunasub · Answer

I look at it this way... I've been hit on by women 20 + years younger than me. I mean within reason, if they are 21 or older depending on the maturity level... shoot your shot. 🤷🏾‍♂️

Sabretooth · Answer

no, you have a healthy view. even if it could work-he'd long before you do... assuming you don't get ill-then what? i don't see an upside for girls... unless they're gold-diggers or they want the stature-both are fickle.

Jayden01 · Answer

It is sort of strange to me but then again it's not my choice if they like who they like, as long as it's mutual

RohitLakra · Answer

It's just personal likes and dislikes. If your friends like something and you don't then would it male you question your preference?😅

Anonymous · Answer

No, but you need to understand that it's basic biology and they aren't being disgusting.
You will quickly find when you hit the wall at 30ish and men generally act like you don't exist, that you were lucky to have that attention while you got it.

Piteka5 · Answer

Many people feel that, it's certainly weird. But remember it's natural for older people, men and women, to still like younger looks, we are hardwired for that

CuriousMufuxka · Answer

Fine for yourself, but stretching out to try and run others lives isn't good in my opinion. If she wants to make stupid decisions, than that's on her..

MrShaun · Answer

Hey babe. So how you doing? LOL -- just joking. I agree that it would seem if they're only interested in you because of your age, you probably would loose their interest as you get older.

nelly83 · Answer

I think its disgusting too. there's no way I would date anyone over 32.

Rebecka33 · Answer

Funny would the ybe attracted to me? I'm 43 so I bag to differ.

Anonymous · Answer

Men going for younger women is NO different than women going for taller men. If you judge men by height and looks yourself, you have zero right to complain. Hypocrite!

Solstraale · Answer

Write me a massage ill Tel you a thing or two about age and men 🤗

Liam_Hayden · Answer

You are entitled to your opinion. Just remember that those older guys and the girls who date them are likewise entitled to their own opinions.

OddBeMe · Answer

Disgusting seems overdone. You can dislike it, but as long as everyone is of age and consenting, nothing should be disgusting.

msc545 · Answer

That is pretty rough. I'm wondering why age is so important to you, and the person is not?

worldscolide · Answer

I have to ask.. I met my wife when i was 29 and she was 20... does that make me disgusting?

Shellyworld · Answer

I experienced the same thing when I was 20. A 40 year old man thought of going out with me and he was a colleague.

Usernotnamed · Answer

Dateable Age formula 1/2 of X age + 7 = Y >Y is okay to date 1/2 of 40 = 20 + 7 = 27 40's can date >27

selfdestruction · Answer

I’m 32, the only women that come to me are 18-30 year olds. I don't know, this is a new trend in my book.

LinkxPeach · Answer

Yes, I don’t see the problem here if you guys are both adults. Depends on long does two different age ranges apart.

Shy_Steve · Answer

Not really, As long as you don't go out of your way to be mean to them in public. There would be lots of people who would feel the same anyway.

BoxySama · Answer

🙄🙄🙄 Someone is told me about not getting hit on by older gentleman Girls are looking for older guys like us 😎😎😎😎

skymani · Answer

I believe what your saying is true younger girls and older men don't mix you need to find someone like me that is in age of you to feel safe and comfortable

Caunsos · Answer

Nope the real question is how you treat guys like that

smb930 · Answer

At age 26, I don't think I'd date a woman older than 35ish, or younger than 21

Shamalien · Answer

Be disgusted all u want, the truth is right in ur face. Spend ur wealth now before u expire

esotericstory · Answer

its because women with modern lifestyle dont respect their body and therefore age too fast.

bangyourhead · Answer

So spend your time in your 20s trying to find a quality guy.

ajaykinky · Answer

Age and personality are not correlated... Even a 20 year girl could have a better personality than the 40 year milf or a 18 year slut...

Atrocity · Answer

That is your choice an taste, i do know girl of your age that are more into older men even in their 40, others just aren't and that's ok...

Anonymous · Answer

Okay, so then it would seem that your strategy should be to find a guy your age and get married pretty soon, no?

Anonymous · Answer

I feel the same when 50+ year old men hit on me. I kinda want to say :"you could be my father..." Lol

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