Would you marry a 35 year old women who has never had a boyfriend no kids no job but looks about 19-20 and pretty?

[Anonymous]

I went to school and have a degree which I never used I work in our family business but it’s not considered “real work” because I’ve never worked anywhere else.

I know I am pretty because I just know. One knows when they are ugly. I’m not going to say I’m the most beautiful woman ever but I am attractive and look very young

I never had a boyfriend for two main reasons
1. Was always too shy
2. I always thought I needed a good career to be worthy of anybody’s time.

I really do not want to end up alone But do men care about this?
if for example you were interested in me and I agreed to date you, Upon finding out I don’t have a real job or that I never had a boyfriend and never had sex and I’m 35 years old, would you just not want to be with me at all anymore?

I look fairly young And yes I can have kids. Just not 8 or 12 if that’s what you’re looking for then no of course.

Maybe 2 or 3 kids

Honest answers please.

[lightbulb27]

yes I would. I've seen this scenario before and she ended up married, although a bit late and thus no kids.
the issue is.. you are just getting started later than most, but there are very inexperienced guys out there like you... ahemm... I was at that time, and there are divorced guys, etc..

I don't really like how you expressed some of that... like it's all about how you look but I know what you mean. Personality and compatability are huge and trump attraction, although attraction is important. You are attractive just shy and thus focused on career. That was a way to avoid all the conflict and trust issues... np.

What WILL cause problems is continuing to be shy, poor dating skills, not knowing who you are.

I don't know many who want that many kids.

[drsatan]

I wouldn't marry anyone.
I'm not religious so I don't need God to recognise any relationship I have and I don't want the government getting involved in my relationships either. Nor do I want to line the pockets of a lawyer should the relationship not work out.
If I liked someone enough and thought they could be fine, I might have sex with them even though they had never been with someone before, but I get the feeling that someone who waited so long without having sex is just looking for different things from life than I am!

[Asker]

I said marry as a form of saying “serious relationship “ someone to consider as a life partner not just someone for sex, because even when I’ve never had sex, I know that part is easy if I just wanted that I could get it easy, as many men wouldn’t turn down a sex offer. That was never my thing and never will be. I want to have sex with someone that wants to stay with me and make a family. Not anything else.

[drsatan]

See, that's what I mean about wanting different things 🙂.
I'm happy to be in a long term relationship with someone and if the person I'm currently involved with happens to be my last until the day one of us dies, then I would consider myself very fortunate and lucky, but I would never take for granted that will just happen. It seems to be to be against human nature to remain with one person for a lifetime. We change too much and couples don't always change in the same direction.
Also, I wouldn't ever want children because, in my opinion, it's a very hard job to get right, very important to get right and I really don't think I would be a good enough patent. Also, this planet is already pretty full as it is!
All I really want is a companion to have some fun with while this crazy ride lasts!

It sounds like you know what you want out of life too, I hope you are able to find it! 🙂

[thehottiein513]

Well in my opinion you are in the best place to be you know you don't have any STDs don't have any kids yeah because you clearly not ready

[thehottiein513]

you have to be very careful who you dating nowadays anyway all is not what it seems take your time the right person will come to you and they will come to you the exact way that they should

[thehottiein513]

Remember it's your life and your choices you get to make those choices

[VIVANT]

Why do you think your doesn’t your job count? Work is work.

[mattmanyah2]

Please don't take this to be mean because it seems like you put a lot of stock in your looks. Me personally I care about your character I want to see that you love Jesus that you are kind to people that you go out of your way to help people that you like kids. These are the things that are valuable to me because I'm looking for a wife. If you have these things and your gorgeous that is a plus. If you have these things and are half good looking let's get rings but if you truly aren't being challenged at your job you won't talk to me because your shy and you don't want to improve on any of it then you could be a model and me I would have no interest in you... Sorry if that's too blunt don't be affraid to message me

[T4y2l0er]

I feel like it honestly depends on the person. As long as you're driven and goal oriented, you're job is still a job. I know how hard shyness/social anxiety can be especially when it comes to dating. But its impossible to meet someone if you dont put yourself out there. (From experience) I'm certain there are countless people out there who would consider it a blessing to have you by their side.

[Anonymous]

Marry? only men that don't read the small print will marry in this culture. To be honest, dating is nothing but a man trying to prove his worth to a woman... it's for simps. So I'd say no, but not because of any of the reasons you listed, it's just not worth the time.

[Asker]

Do you want to stay alone... for the rest of your life?

[Opinion Owner]

I do not fear being alone. Once I have my health and freedom, I'm fine.

[Asker]

Fear not being alone is different than wanting to be alone...

For example one can not be afraid to die but it doesn’t mean they want to die...

So I’m asking you, do you really aim for complete solitude and loneliness? Fearing it or not is besides the point...

[Opinion Owner]

Fearing it or not is exactly the point. There are many that remain in bad relationships, or ignore who people are, because they fear being alone. For me, I'm not in relationships because good women are extremely rare. I am happy when around others, but just as happy when alone. Solitude and loneliness are not the same either. I do tend to aim to be in solitude, more than I do aim to socialize too.

I know a woman that is only sticking around with the guy she's with currently, because she knows most other guys out there are even worse. I know a very attractive woman that is struggling to find a relationship... but when she was in the last one, she was hitting on me...(not good).

[NateSmiley]

Personally I've never had a problem with my significant others age. If I wasn't already spoken for I would be happy to get to know you. You seem like a nice person you'll find someone soon

[Asker]

I hope so.. Thank you

[NateSmiley]

No problem if you ever want to talk I'm all ears 👍

[Asker]

:) that’s so sweet thank you!

[Anonymous]

Most guys are dtf but if you are talking about marriage then probably not. In modern times 2 incomes are pretty much needed for a couple. I don't expect you to make more than me (although that would not threaten me) but I do expect you to work. With no kids what have you done until now? Housewife? With no kids? Sounds lovely-stay at home with all that free time. Go to school, get a job while you are still young enough

[Anonymous]

Yes, if you trying to get a proper job or have way in sustain your life and do not want to marry me just so I would have to pay for all and you just be mum...

Obviously you would need to fit in to more criteria then you described to get married with me, but those that you worry would not be in a way.

[Anonymous]

My current girlfriend is 34 and looks like my age (I'm 23) so I'd say yes

[Avicenna]

Would you still work in the family business after getting married? Then I'd definitely say yes. You being inexperienced wouldn't be problem- I've had inexperienced girlfriends before.

[Shark_61695]

Sounds a fair bit like me apart from the looking attractive and young :)

I don't really have an issue with anything you said, it is more about the person than answers to specific questions.

[Bandit74]

Probably not at my age, but if I would definitely prefer a 35 year old with no kids over a 25 year old with kids.

[baconninjadc]

I would if you're a good woman and it's a good fit

[Asker]

Good fit means? If you get along well?

[baconninjadc]

If you get along well if there's chemistry if there's love if there's passion friendship and when things are perfect you know how to work it out stuff like tha

[Asker]

Ah! I see. Okay I understand.

[Víctor96]

If you are attractive to me, independent of you work in a familiar business, I could date somebody like you

[glutendan]

There's no way you look 18 even with 1 in 1000000 genetics

[Asker]

You’d be surprised. Even I’m surprised lol my solución who is 32 has been confused for being my mom and my cousin who is 15 has been told looks older than me 😐

[Asker]

Cousin” not solución
I have Spanish keyboard activated to learn and it changes my words lol

[Anonymous]

Generally, it comes across odd that a female past her prime (30+) never had kids or was married, it kind of gives the impression she was to busy partying and racking up numbers... I know it doesn't necessarily mean that but it makes it look that way.

[COMMODOREII]

What's your eye and hair color? Are you athletic? Whats the family business? 😗

[Reddwolf]

I don't see any thing wrong with you sound normal to me

[Cynicalman1937]

A perfect woman? That's too good to be true but I'm bit skeptical with virgin women

[Barry88]

Inexperience wouldn't be an issue for me.

[Universal1]

You are fishing for bait demon. I see you

[Dchrls78104]

Where is she, for me to meet, date, and marry her?

[thehottiein513]

Well if you're a good guy you might find her I'm just saying keep your eyes open I might run into each other

[Dchrls78104]

@thehottiein513 yes, I'm a good guy---or try to be. If I see her I hope we're compatible.

[RLovesD7792]

yeah why not

[winterfox10]

Yes, absolutely

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Yep.