Would a women with no kids and looks young at 29 still be a catch for guys?

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Seinna · Accepted Answer

Short answer - yes.

But you're getting to an age where it will be difficult to compete with younger women for men in their early 30s. Love can happen at any point in your life but most of the best men and women are taken past a certain age. It's about 30 for women and 35 for men.

I'd definitely prioritise this part of your life especially if you want to have children because while you can always get a partner, you might have to compromise on what you can actually get. Also, leaving children till age 35 is a bit irresponsible - there's no guarantee you'll be able to have them, you don't know how good your fertility is today and it will detoriate so fast. Aside from just getting pregnant, for women over the age of 35 and men over the age of 40 their egg and sperm quality is lower leading to more miscarriages (which often happen when there's a problem with the fetus) and genetic diseases. I worked in a medical lab and we frequently got samples from fertility clinics - they were all from women over the age of 33. The older ones were sometimes after 3 miscarriages. Not to mention you'll be too tired to be chasing after young children in your 40s. So 35 is when you want to stop having children, not start if it's something you can still plan which I strongly urge you to do. Life REALLY doesn't end when you have a child.

You ask if you're still a catch - well, majority of people get together with the intention of having a family in the future. It's not something that can be posponed indefinitely and not even as much as women (and men) are told nowadays. You can be a catch for someone as a partner and companion but not necessarily as a marriage material that would lead to creating a family. Women any age will find guys willing to just be with them, especially that the older they get the more likely it is that they don't want a family and certainly don't want marriage. So it just depends on what you want from life. For your own sake you also don't want to keep putting it away, this is your time to get it sorted out.

Screenwriter · Accepted Answer

Your only qualifications are you look young for 29 and you have no kids?

I think you have to have more going for you than that. There are plenty of women who look good or young for their ages. You have to bring something else to the table than looks and no children.

HighValue · Accepted Answer

No kids is good, but what about the rest of her past?
Did she use drugs or drink alcohol heavy? Did she participate in casual sex?
Is she still in contact with any of her exes?
If the answer to all of those is no, then she is still desirable to good guys.

LegalTender · Accepted Answer

First off, 29 𝙞𝙨 young. Whether a woman is a mother (or not) doesn’t really matter to me. Her personality and her values are far more important to me than age or motherhood.

ManOnFire · Answer

Would definitely work for me. Hands down.

adamcdavis · Answer

most these answers I see on here are garbage. Seriously don't pressure youself into this just try living your life and becoming the best version of yourself and if you happen to find a great guy who is into you just let it flow naturally. I'm getting a vibe like you seem like you are starting to become desperate and worried that things are going to fall off and you need to be more aggressive and assertive in making things happen. Don't try and force things in your life whether that is working a job you hate, rushing into a marriage, having or not having kids because of pressure, etc. I'm not sure where you live but I can say that if you live in more urban bigger cities I see tons of boss women in their 30's and 40's who have become strong independent successful women and are desired simply for their ability to take charge and have confidence in themselves (well at least for me). Continue to live your life and work on yourself and be the best version of yourself you can and do things for yourself not for anybody else and everything is going to be alright regardless of what happens. The biggest problems in life usually arise when you try forcing something into your life that doesn't feel right or flow with you but you try convincing yourself it is for whatever reason. :)

Mary087 · Answer

Of course. My mom was a catch to my dad and she was 36 then she had me at 38. he's never cheated on her ever nor once thought of leaving her for a younger woman better yet love is still possible :) dont listen to the haters on here who talk about value and stuff. Almost 24 years later since my mom had me she still looks beautiful for her age and is perfectly healthy, im also healthy as she had no complications with me.

Dinklex3 · Answer

? Of course. Don't listen to the posts from the dumbass women hating men on this site who say otherwise.  Keep doing you and don't think of your age as anything negative. Early 30's is still young.

Williams28Jao · Answer

Age doesn’t defy whether or not someone will be attracted to you or not. I think looks are important yes but it doesn’t always have to be. I feel in love with someone I never found attractive to long ago because I was attracted to her personality and her traits. She was fun person to be with. Needles to say it never worked out. But age is just a number. Here I am at 30 single never married virgin that’s keeping firm until marriage. It all depends on what age gap your looking for too. I can view women at 18 and think wow she’s stunning. But I’m not attracted to that age gap. I’m finding out I’m more attractive to older women or even women in their mid 20s they are more mature and they have outgrown their teen years and are now looking for something deeper and meaningful that’s something I’m very well attracted to

sunflower00 · Answer

Yes omg, I hate the misconception that women are old hags who are unattractive and have nothing to offer once they hit 25+. It’s so false! The ONLY place people actually think like this is online, people in the real world do not think that way! Also, looks aren’t the only thing that matters anyway, you don’t have to be a model to be a catch.

Gollum · Answer

If she is beautiful, takes good care of herself and above all else has a cool personality absolutely. Though if she has a shopping list of impossible demands it may be hard to compete with the 20 year olds.

At the end of the day it is a very individual choice. I've seen women age 40 who looked absolutely amazing and were super hot. So it always depends on the girl I guess. Women like status and (financial) security, men first and foremost like looks, then personality. Status and/or financial security is not important for guys.

Sarahr123 · Answer

What’s with these ridiculous questions? 29 is still young and if you look like spoilt milk at 29 you just have bad genes. White women tend to age faster than other groups so they may be okay upto 35 but other groups can stay looking hot well into their 50s if they don’t get fat.

ohshee · Answer

For me those two things don't even matter I don't even think about those two things I think about who she is on the inside if she is confident if she is smart and she is happy does she have a a beautiful heart that she care that's what I look for if she has all the above the outside of a person is just an extra bonus same with age

JamesDiaz11 · Answer

For SOME guys- not all guys. Any guy who has been on dating apps, or out in public, knows that the average woman's looks start going downhill after 25. Sure, some guys will take these women, but most men of means (under 50) will be looking for women in the 21-24 age range (and this group keeps getting replenished every year, as this hypothetical 29 year old woman does not stay the same age).

Kkstarzz96 · Answer

Selena gomez is 29 and has no kids. She is beautiful but she doesn't look happy as she once did. She's been through a lot, and that can age somebody in their demeanor. If someone treated her well, I'm sure she'd look younger again. But guys take our youth and leave us different and insecure. A 29 year old with no heartbreak is rare indeed. Kids is not hard to hold off from, they're expensive and 29 year Olds might just have started to gain a competitive income

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, but the collective is completely ruined and there are new threats to health due to the 'vaccines' that many aren't even aware about (you will see this come out in the next few years). Therefore I don't think your chances are good at all. Most guys are only looking for hookups. Your only way to find a partner is through God.

Alwayreckles93 · Answer

Oh yes for sure. I am sure you are way better and more younger looking.
Woman our age 29 we are better because we know how to cook and clean unlike the younger woman now a days that don't have self respect.

Kaamraj · Answer

Yes, why not, but being a catch or having high sexual marketplace value (SMV) is all relative. If there is another woman who has all the same attributes but is 25 instead of 29, then the younger woman is in general going to have more SMV. Men value youth and beauty.

Trevelyan88 · Answer

Lol... What is this question?

What guy in the history of time, thinks a women as less desirable because she doesn't have kids yet. Or says hmm... That 29 year old looks too young?

Unless you have that condition that reality girl does where she is 22, but looks 9, I don't think there could be a problem with looking younger than you are.

DaddyDiablo · Answer

Yeah just don't sabotage and keep ya confidence there like don't ahy or stray or think you ain't good enough mf own that shit basically n see where your confidence leads you most women don't n shouldn't have a hard time getting or being with their crushes n shit

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Of course! Why wouldn't she be?
You kids today seem to think that you're too old once you're in your 20's!! That leaves a legal window of about 4 years!! What else did you want us to do, start fucking you when your 12? I know that's prime in the hills and you're an old maid if you're not married by the time you're 16 but, these aren't the hills and fucking anyone under 18, if you're not also under 18 at the time, is considered a crime!! (16 in some states.)

Gangactivities911 · Answer

I was interested in a relationship when I was like 14-25 now that I’m 26 I don't know if I really want one at all anymore. I really wanted to build a life together with someone but I’m kinda too old for that now so I don't know if I’d go for any women over 21 seriously at this point tbh. I think I’ll just be single the rest of my life

CaptainOverthink · Answer

Yes. No worries.
Keep in shape and you'll do all right durong your 30s too.
Some looks good way up in their 40s.

But as a tip. As surface start to wayne eventually.. personality and respect goes loads further. ☺

lightbulb27 · Answer

yes, I've seen women be a catch at 37 and get married and have kids. just have to put yourself out there and sift through the damaged humans to find the good ones of similar values.

jshm2 · Answer

Hardly.  But at 29 if she has her shit together, and is in a decent career and place; she can choose from a fair amount of guys.  Depends what kind of relationship she wants, though.

Berethor · Answer

Maybe, but not for long.

Phoenix-gb · Answer

Certainly a lot of guys in that age range looking for a partner where those would be considered positives, but won't be the only things they will look at so would depend on other aspects as well.

Anonymous · Answer

Depends. Does she have a high body count? Is she overweight? Does she have piercing and tattoos? Is she saddled with debt? Is she a liberal? Does she drink a lot? If you answered yes to any of the above, then you are not a good catch. You are an overgrown child who would make a terrible wife and mother.

Anonymous · Answer

Absolutely, as long as she meets the other criteria I would also apply to younger women. At 29 she is still very young, so age isn't an issue. It's just a matter of whether she is a good woman with good personality, character, priorities, values and positive attitudes toward men and relationships.

Bananacake83 · Answer

Of course. Even older are attractive, ages are just a number and other qualities are more important than age.

Xhuy_006 · Answer

Wait... Is this a trick question? Where can you find these mythical creatures? I was positive that such a dream had been extinct, wiped out since ages long ago...

loveslongnails · Answer

There are plenty of reasons why she could, or could not, be a "catch". I just don't have enough information to answer. Not only that, she may a catch to one guy, and a disaster to the next. Too much is unknown.

Emiliamazing · Answer

My hubby says I’m still a catch at 44! Of course you are! Stay clean and healthy, your not even 1/3 the way through 😁

Jake_Evans · Answer

She is definitely a treasure for any 29 year old single men.

BCRanger10 · Answer

Yes. I know a few who are in their late 20s and early 30s and are beautiful, fun, and have a lot to offer.

HaveNoName · Answer

29 is still "young" :) ... in terms of numbers at least. True that there is always a problem if she is white unfortunately. They tend to look 40 at 35 and from there on, they age 10 years after every 5.

Staximus · Answer

Yes, why would she not be? I don't know where you're from, but at least 50% of the 29 year old women where I live are still not married and don't have kids yet.

fonduegirl · Answer

Usually the ones with children have trouble finding a date haha

JSmuve · Answer

It takes more than appearance, age, and lack of kids for a woman to be a catch.

Anonymous · Answer

You're fine honey. The problem isn't your age. The problem is why are you still single. It is never age.

Lionman95 · Answer

Yes sure. I know many women who are 29 and still beautiful.

Tjw78 · Answer

If she has a good personality, yes. There is tolerances when it comes to children and appearance, but a bad personality is a deal breaker.

BCA6010 · Answer

Of course, assuming she has a great personality too.

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

Absofuckinglutely & I would have her fill out an application to date me any time.

Andres77 · Answer

Does she have her own car and hasn't spent the last 6 years in prison?

LaNc3L0TT · Answer

Why not, I don't see problem in that which would make women not "good" catch. :D

Pummel · Answer

Yes, she would be a catch at 65. If she was kind, loving, not superficial and above all honest

slatyb · Answer

Of course, at 29 or 39 or 49 or 59, for men of a certain age.

Minahh · Answer

Yeah of course. Literally my teacher's fiance is in his early 20s and she's in her early 30s. There's love for everybody. Don't settle ❤

CallmeTheKnight · Answer

Most definitely. Just because she's 29 with no children doesn't mean she's not worthy of being a wife and a mother.

cookiecrusher · Answer

Depends on her past dating history and also why is she single. Her current mental health, life goals and bodyshape. Same as with any other woman.  29 in itself isn't an issue.

jestergent · Answer

+Never married for me.  No kids is an advantage. Worth saying.

Anonymous · Answer

Still yes but she may have to drop the the bar a little bit.

davewatkins · Answer

Are you serious absolutely I'm that age wondering the same thing for myself as guy that usually turns heads of the whole damn store but yes I'm still nervous for some reason and you are yes a hell of a catch no matter what!

DarkWinterNights · Answer

Depends on what kind of guys you’re trying to be a catch for.

altaboy · Answer

Does a bear do his business in the woods? You sound like you're wondering if you're an old maid at 29. You're just getting started at 29!

Mangospacho · Answer

Not sure how having kids already would put you in a higher category for dating. 🧐

jammcm · Answer

Yes, in the world we live in I think we will be seeing more men and women matting in to their 30 something years.

EssenceOfLight · Answer

Every pot finds its top. 29 and no kids is a plus point, but there are other more significant factors that make girls attractive.

zagor · Answer

That depends on the other factors - personality and looks. Which come into play regardless of age or children.

Dchrls78104 · Answer

I wouldn't mind dating such a woman---but would she be interested in dating me?

Anonymous · Answer

getting close to the wall but no kids is definitely a bonus. You could probably rival a 25 year old single mother version of yourself 👍

John_Doesnt · Answer

No, I'm from California and men with a lot of money are required by law to marry a woman who is 19.

genericname85 · Answer

of course. lot's of single dudes in that age range.

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