Guys. Would guys dating or married a woman in her early 40 with kids?

[Anonymous]

[Avicenna]

The vast majority will not marry a woman in such a situation. To give you an idea of who might, my stepsister (who had a good job) married some 61-year-old guy who never had kids when she was 41 and had two kids. One of the kids absolutely despised him and the marriage didn't work out.

You're better of staying single than trying to marry someone- your chances of someone marrying you that you'd actually want to be married to are almost zero. Your chances of finding a suitable guy to date you are also very low (most likely, any guy will just want sex).

[JacobJordan]

Nope. I don't raise other men's kids. I made the money I did to raise my own kids not someone who decided they wanted out or a woman who decided that man was good enough to have kids with but not good enough to stay with. If the guy in question died unfortunate but my answer remains the same

[Apple1996]

I can direct you to a woman's tiktok where she helps single moms get millionaire husband's. Guys on GaG are broke bitches so they're gonna say no to this question

[JacobJordan]

Ooo sorry to disappoint I am on here and I have more than enough money. I still would never marry a woman with kids because I made my money to raise my kids not someone else's

[Apple1996]

@JacobJordan a broke/ or greedy man is only willing to raise his own kids. A rich man is willing to raise others kids because he has the money and care. These type of men will adopt kids as well. They are amazing

[JacobJordan]

Again with the generalizations. I wouldn't adopt kids. Though I do use my money for other things. Like feeding dozens of people around the holidays and a group of homeless veterans twice a week. If every rich person adopted kids it would not come as such a heart warming news story when they do. Most rich people actually do not adopt.

[Apple1996]

@JacobJordan saying you'd only raise your own kids and not others is pure greed and selfishness. Nothing is cool about hating kids like that.
And it depends on the person but a lot of rich people do adopt and foster.
My brother adopted my nephew and also has foster kids. He said the classes he had to take for that were full of basically only rich people. He makes good money but was questioning if he should even go through with it since there were so many other well off parents the kids could go to.
I think back a long time ago rich people didn't do that stuff but now a days it's very popular

[Avicenna]

Apple, pathetic attempt at gaslighting. A well-off or wealthy man is not interested in simoing by supporting someone else's kids- he either wants none or his own. And he can certainly afford to do that.
There is nothing "greedy" about being unwilling to spend your after-tax dollars bailing out some single mom when your tax dollars already do that.

[Apple1996]

@Avicenna it's not simping to step up for kids 🙄 adopting, fostering, being a step dad takes a certain type of selfless man. Greedy men will only have their own/have none at all. That's why they get so defensive about this. It's a insecurity which you so obviously have

[Apple1996]

@Avicenna greedy men also get angry about where there tax dollars go tbh. It's disgusting

[Avicenna]

LOL, it doesn't make you "greedy" to not want to support someone else's kids with your after-tax dollars and given the massive waste in federal government spending, it hardly makes to greedy to have a problem with what it's being spent on.

The underlying problem here is the gynocentric view that men have to slave away to give single moms, who have usually made terrible choices in life, a comfortable and carefree life.

[Avicenna]

And as for a guy being dumb enough to take care of some other man's kids, it's hardly anything to laud. And you think that pointing out the stupidity of a man who does that is insecurity, LMAO! An insecure man runs from the chance of fathering his own kids, not from demands that he support someone else's.

I guess being a military spouse has isolated you from real life and you can't understand basic realities.

[Apple1996]

@Avicenna all the single moms I've ever known have gotten married. They don't stay single long unless it's by choice. These women have more options than any man. Your acting above them when you are far far below them.

[Apple1996]

@Avicenna being a milso has made me see more life than the average person

[Avicenna]

Ah, so now we see that you're angry that your single mom friends aren't worshipped. How many of them work?

But, yeah, sure single moms have more options than any man. Thanks for the laugh.

[Apple1996]

@Avicenna I told you all the single moms friends I've ever had got remarried. Non of them work. I refuse to be friends with working moms 🤮

[Avicenna]

How many kids did these single moms bring to their new marriage?

[Apple1996]

@Avicenna that really varies. I know women with 1-7 kids that got remarried. The woman I know with 7 kids was pregnant when she found her husband

[Avicenna]

OMG... you're saying some man married a woman with 6 kids who was pregnant with her 7th, all by someone else?

So these men married women who have kids and the women don't even work after marriage with someone else's kid (s)? Hell to the no...

[Apple1996]

@JacobJordan straight up I'm deleting this comment cause you are just a little asshole with no soul

[JacobJordan]

And yet I am married have 3 children and spend thousands of dollars a week taking care of people. Yeah I'm the soulless asshole

[JacobJordan]

If you can't accept that people have differing opinions, preferences, likes, dislikes without getting offended and deleting/blocking real life must be incredibly difficult

[Apple1996]

@JacobJordan nah its more a long reply thing. Anyone who sends that long of a reply is defending themselves too hard is just dumb af. I can't deal with it. Stop being so defensive about shit that doesn't matter

[Apple1996]

@Avicenna yess lol I see this all the time. I just know a lot of moms tho so I see wild shit like that a lot

[JacobJordan]

I have nothing to defend lol. You are making numerous generalizations and I wasn't on for multiple replies so the post addresses numerous factual inaccuracies you presented. You deleting it is quite common you and another young lady on this app seem to enjoy getting in arguments and when called out you resort to deleting comments or blocking people. But hey if you want to delete comments because they point out how wrong you are and you have no factual rebuttal that's fine. It's your right to believe whatever you want.

[Nikki1989]

Of course, men do it all the time. Damn, I know someone that just got married at 72.

[trellbrown84]

i feel sorry for that old bastard. He's just being used. women are compromised and have no more integrity.

[OlderAndWiser]

It is probably unlikely that you will find a single guy with no kids who would want to marry you, but a divorced father with children is a much more realistic possibility for you.

[Berethor]

Most men prefer young woman with no kids. Even at my age it's still no.

[Avicenna]

Even at MY age, it's a definite no!

[aceleon]

no, i don't feel like raising someone elses kids and having someone elses leftovers as a wife/date.

[BourbonAndBacon]

Usually a guy with kids of his own around the same age. It's really hit and miss with single moms. My kids are grown and out of the house so I would only date the same or no kids

[Drumlin2001]

If I were ever single again, yes. Given I'd be a 40 something with 2 small kids I would think she'd understand the trials

[DarkWinterNights]

It a pretty safe bet to say your options will be limited. It’s hard enough to date in general these days.

[DextroShade]

That would be a hard no from me because I would never date a woman who is older than me or has kids. I would highly recommend you look for single dads your age or older who do well but aren't rich.

[Alex-Snow]

I'm 18 so I probably would not go that direction. Maybe a friends with benefits relationship for some fun sex for a while but not much more than that

[Anonymous]

I’d fuck her sure. But date as in something serous? No. Tried it before. Too many complications w single mothers in general besides her age.

[LiamJHayden]

I have dated two women who fit that description, but marriage was not a consideration and the kids did not require a sitter.

[Anonymous]

Women with kids are about as attractive to men as homeless guys are to women. When is the last time you saw a homeless guy and said "let me get some of that".

Sorry.😆

[Vegasrunner]

To old and with kids that's an L all around.

[trellbrown84]

Absolutely not. I am not a cuck, and I refuse to take care of another man's kids.

[Jmmmfi4]

PROBABLY... ITS HARD TO FIND A GIRL WITHOUT KIDS ANYMORE

[SotiCoto]

Only if the kids die first.

[KrakenAttackin]

No, never play another man's saved game.

[QuietRunner]

yes if we were compatible

[Anonymous]

different would date a woman with kids

[Tim2nice]

I would

[ImalwaysrightOK]

Not a chance

[Anonymous]

if I like her yes

[jahaims]

Just desperate ones

[Anonymous]

Yea and im doing it rn tbh