Men if a woman was 35 or older, single with no kids, would you risk dating or having kids with an old woman?

[AmazonChick171]

I’m 26 so I’m YOUNG.

anwyas I have a cousin who is 37, single and she hasn’t dated since she was 23. Pushed men away, loves being single and our family is pressuring her to find a man or find the right man.
more just date men who don’t want kids because men aren’t going to want to have children when their 40s or older.

[PeachyPie93]

You are 26 soon to be 27 and yet still don't have a man.. So more than likely you won't be having kids until you are in your 30's or 40's. So why are you trying to insult other woman when you are also going to get older? lol Also how do you know you can even have kids, you could be infertile.. Anyways plenty of women have kids over 40 and their kids are fine. My aunt didn't get married until she was 40 and had 2 in her 40's both are completely healthy and fine but my dads side of the family got healthy genes plus her husband is a bit younger.

[AmazonChick171]

…. so what? I’m still young!

[PeachyPie93]

You aren't that young anymore lol but good luck with those last 3 years you will be clinging on to 😂😂

[AmazonChick171]

Hey watch it pal! I am young. Yea I’m not a youth anymore but anybody under 35 is younf

[AmazonChick171]

Young

[PeachyPie93]

Good Luck :P

[AmazonChick171]

I will

[DJB72]

I was 46 when my son was born.

The right guy will wait, just be aware over 35 increases the chances of a baby having issues like Down's Syndrome and other conditions that can impact their life and yours.

And don't misunderstand me - I'm not saying it's not worth it. Guys over 40 are more likely to pass on issues like autism and ADHD - my son is on the spectrum, although mercifully only mildly.

The other thing to consider is as you get older you're going to have age related issues yourself. Probably not as extreme as mine - I'm an amputee since 2020 - but diabetes, blood pressure, heart issues all tend to start showing up as you get older.

My advice to you and your cousin would be don't wait. You can reboot your career anytime. You only get one youth. Use it wisely before it's gone.

[HighValue]

No. Even if I didn't want kids, I wouldn't start a new relationship with a woman that is past 30. I have lots of options so I don't need to settle for that.

[kitkatto]

I read somewhere that thanks to advances in medicine and technology, the rate of decline in fertility can be slowed down. So women can safely conceive in their 40s still.

I have an aunt who didn’t get married and pregnant until she was 38/39. I also have an older cousin who didn’t get married until she was 41. So I guess there’s still a market for woman who are 35+

[QuestionObsession]

It is not about the woman's age alone, some men do not want kids even if the woman is 25.

Does she want kids still at her age?

[AmazonChick171]

She said she does but she doesn’t really know

[QuestionObsession]

Would not be worth obsessing over kids if it is a health risk at this age

[YourExLover69]

Yes if we love each other, have good understanding. Then this age is nothing to worry about.

[AmazonChick171]

Great answer!

[YourExLover69]

Thanks dear. 😊
Yes I focus more on girl's personality.
And yes physically tall height sometimes attracts me too.

[FunkyMonkee]

Absolutely. What makes you think 35 is old? My girlfriend is 33.

[Surely]

My mother was close to 40. When she had me. Maybe that is what is wrong with me! 🤔

[AmazonChick171]

Huh?

[Surely]

@AmazonChick171. Just joking! You know how people will say. “What is wrong with you!”

[LiamJHayden]

I generally date older women, so no issue there, and I am congenitally sterile, so not issue there, either.

[astralpro300]

as long as she is fertile im totally ok with being with her

[Anonymous]

Dating sure

I wouldn't have kids but that's my own corrupt genetics

[AmazonChick171]

Exactly. My cousin waited too long and she could have had children at 27.
No man wants to have children with a 37 year old woman.

[Opinion Owner]

See I would but my genes are so bad I'd turn down breeding with a woman of any age

[AmazonChick171]

Oooh

[Twalli]

I don't want kids. I made sure I couldn't have any too. But I'm engaged, so I can't be with her.

[oldpigg]

I don't like old women.

[AmazonChick171]

We’ll you’re 18, of course you don’t! You’re too young

[Ariesman81]

Depends how tall she is

[AmazonChick171]

Of course it does. Men don’t even like tall women
Well she’s 5’10.

[Ariesman81]

Yeah... ick

[AmazonChick171]

I’m not surprised you’d say that. What if she was 5’5 or 5’1? Or even 4’8

[Ariesman81]

4'8 is breakable. 5'5 can handle some abuse.
Now 5'1... that's the sweet spot

[AmazonChick171]

the 5’0-5’3 women ALWAYS gets me a attention!

[msc545]

hell no - not with any woman.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't rule it out, but unlikely.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like me

[yotaman99]

Depends on the woman

[eagle1951]

yeah