What makes you interested in someone?

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Kaneki05 · Accepted Answer

Common grounds on thought process and good personailty.

I wouldn't be intrested in anyone with a set religion because that wouldn't be a common ground. If she didn't believe in a god or was agnostic that would intrest me because then we have common grounds and nothing will clash there.
if we agree on same things i become more intrested in that person dare say stalk there profile to see if they have more simlar thoughts.

I have strong opinions on lots of things and to be with someone who disagree's on them wouldn't exactly work. Not saying they have to agree with all my thoughts just some key stuff they do and the other stuff is more like if they do even better.

And then of course if they are hot. Plus people who speak there minds there minds there not just gonna agree with you to make you happy that may seem conflicting due to what i just said, but i want them to be honest if they don't agree or do.

A girl who is dark minded is intresting too.

Thomas__Shelby · Accepted Answer

What makes me interested in someone?
The underlying motives of anyone being “interested” in the member of the opposite sex is an interest in procreating with that member of the opposite sex.

Each of us has different values, different things we admire, like and dislike. Our ideal partners are the ones who share a similar set of values as the ones we do. Opposites attract isn’t exactly true, we are attracted to those who like the things we like and dislike the things we dislike. If you meet someone like this, there is already a mutual trust between the two of you, and there generally is more chemistry to begin with.

Personally I am interested in smart women, particularly women who are close to an intelligence of my own. Every other admirable personality trait is a natural consequence of her intellect, and so too is her beauty.

jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

I like guys with a consistent manner or disposition or style that is characteristic of their personality and not their natural appearance or dress or intellect - I also like guys that I can trust with cash - he won't change who he is if he becomes rich and he won't get angry or abusive or cheat if he is poor as a result of his marriage to me - very important to me the guy is responsible with money and relationships - I also like guys that I believe need me because it makes me feel important - one of the reasons a lot of the guys I liked had problems that did not affect their moral conduct but affected their health

Aislin9 · Accepted Answer

People with any of these qualities: unique, passionate, intelligent, creative, wise (yet humble) or funny in a kind way (I don't like demeaning mean humor).

I have an insatiable curiosity so often I become intrigued by people, I want to know what they are about. Or something intuitively makes me want to know them. When I get that itch, I can stop until it's scratched and it's usually because there is something for me to learn from that individual (perhaps mutual).

I find you unique by the way, you sort of intrigue me. You're quite unusual. Highly artistic mind I think.

ecfresh · Answer

When they stimulate my mind. I enjoy intelligence and someone who has creativity and a sense of humor and that can banter in conversation ; hooks me every time. When they are one sided are shy, don’t ask me questions, or are not open to laughing at silly topics that’s just boring.

Avicenna · Answer

First of all, she has to be relationship material AND want a serious relationship. Second, she has to share some interests, passions and hobbies with me. Third, she needs to have a friendly and caring personality. I don't care that much about looks, but I've never seen a tall woman I wasn't attracted to, and I'm a sucker for a nice smile.

1828avaava1828 · Answer

If I find them physically attractive, kind and respectful, and if they are funny.

Elliegirl · Answer

I find intelligence sexy. If he can stimulate my mind that’s better than stimulating me physically. I’m fortunate to find a guy who does both!

worldscolide · Answer

It really depends. For my wife it started out as the fact that she is beautiful and shared the same interest in music as me.. And that evolved into the fact that while i was in the hospital she is the only one that visited me..

Jjpayne · Answer

Sharing similar interests, having similar memories as kids, just enjoying having fun with them

Cryptic-Game · Answer

If she tends to be highly of a spiritual choosing for God and if she is feminine and likes art, museums, playing tennis, feminine, humble, God fearing and likes to wear dresses and skirts and full of the Holy host. If so, I'm very interested in her. I'm tired of dominating women in society. Men need to stand up to these women and quit being such a weak man.

serious · Answer

Short and crisp answer is " Nothing can". The actual and detailed answer will be quite long and descriptive and hence I will leave that.

likelyOK · Answer

If I'm attracted to them and our conversation flows easily like it's not hard to find things in common, they seem nonjudgwmental.

BusyLizzie321 · Answer

Honestly, if I can hold a conversation with someone for a long time, I find them attractive, and they seem like a nice person

cth96190 · Answer

She has to have the genetics that I want, have an IQ in the top 5 per cent, be available and be a fellow Deplorable.

TonyMetal_1986 · Answer

Her attitude, the way she looks, the way she moves, acts, speaks and thinks...

LEADFOOTboi · Answer

i'm interested by values, LOOKS... ability to make food... sometimes similar tastes in culture

zagor · Answer

Hard to put in words. Their look, sure, but really their whole persona.

COMMODOREII · Answer

Many factors but what makes want to pursue a relationship is their personality.

Mehzmeh · Answer

It's mostly the eyes. And then the smile. Then the conversation.

Lemia · Answer

Personalty and How nice they are

Sonorous · Answer

They gotta b havin somethin I ain't b havin!

justaboy_ · Answer

When she is very kind to me and is not bitchy

Juxtapose · Answer

How fun they are :)

Anpu23 · Answer

Attitude and poise are my big turn ons

NewZion · Answer

Both societal and biological factors play a role.

Dmitry912 · Answer

Nice artwork ! kindness makes me interested.

chriscdi · Answer

they match my preferences

wallygb · Answer

Her ass and personality

Mellifluous_ · Answer

Commen interests

Kinggot · Answer

values, sex appeal

Azfar8899 · Answer

Eyes

abdel636 · Answer

Their character.

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