I haven't met too many women who were actually unfeminine. They may express their femininity differently or not look the same as what is considered the feminine ideal in the cultural norms of the time but not unfeminine
It depends on how. She can be a grease monkey and have as many male hobbies or interests as she wants but I wouldn't want one that become masculine as a person.
@Ciel66 I just noticed you commented on the other post, have you been following me? ;) Lol Just kidding, it was probably just a coincidence I'm guessing lol
So what makes a girl not feminine? is it the hairy armpits? In some areas women do not shave under their arms. That does not mean they are not feminine, it means others judge them on what they do not know about them. I mean I am not looking for Butch as a girlfriend but a little hair doesn't bother me.
I prefer her to be feminine but also can have a so called tomboy side that likes to ride dirtbikes for example. Now if she was one that was mainly tomboy whose main foot wear are boots like this similar to this then that is too tomboy for me.
I can handle one that likes to camp and hike for example but still would need a feminine style moresssthan not even if uts an alternative style.
I'm bisexual and to me it depends on how masculine she is. I like a woman who is kind of masculine.
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I'm extremely masculine but I'm not gay or bi... so if boys don't like me or if no one lets me be myself in general, then I might as well just be nonbinary or be aromantic cuz fk people let me be myself damnit
@Zach1457 Im just sick of people in real life telling me that I can't do something or act a certain way cause Im girl and they keep trying to tell me im bi for acting a certain way and Im just mad.
Like the other day my friends were comparing nail lengths and mine are short and bitten due to anxiety not because I like other girls... god damn stereotypes
@Zach1457 thats fine lol. I have a shy side to me as well so by masculine, I just mean hobbies and how I don't like feminine activities at all. But my personality is still pretty sensitive and sort of emotional
The underarm hair is disgusting. If she expects a man to do anything manly like open doors or pay for dates or whatever, then she needs to at least shave her body hair.
Sorry but no, I like feminine women. If you dont want to be feminine, that's fine thats your right. Just dont complain if not as many guys are attracted to you. Just like women are attracted to masculine men, us guys like feminine women.
I used to get in my head about this until I started seeing some of my ugly friends get married. Then I looked at couples in public. There’s plenty of hot guys with girls who have short hair or wear sweats or who never do their makeup.
Any Woman is not unfeminine! Femininity comes with being a woman; some chose not to show it, but deep down there's no escaping it! I'd rather have a tougher woman than a total pristine Woman!
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As a woman myself I believe it doesn't matter if your feminine or unfeminine. What matters is how you see yourself and the person you date see you.
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I haven't met too many women who were actually unfeminine. They may express their femininity differently or not look the same as what is considered the feminine ideal in the cultural norms of the time but not unfeminine
It depends on how. She can be a grease monkey and have as many male hobbies or interests as she wants but I wouldn't want one that become masculine as a person.
"Masculine as a person" What does that even mean?
Okay might be the wrong term. But there is simply some male attitudes that I don't have that I certainly wouldn't want her to have.
What's a male attitude?
Yes absolutely, but the armpit hair is a dealbreaker for me. The girl in the top picture I would date if she didn't have armpit hair.
Armpit hair: The final measure of character.
@Dargil No, it's not like that
It is good for sensitive skin and many girls can't take it off still they are féminine
@Ciel66 Yeah exactly, I misspoke with what I said, if they have to have armpit hair that would be fine I would still date them.
I'm tired so I'm not really thinking clearly lol
It's okay 👍
@Ciel66 I just noticed you commented on the other post, have you been following me? ;) Lol Just kidding, it was probably just a coincidence I'm guessing lol
No it's by chance, I didn't read the name cuz i am very short sighted. Sorry didn't mean anything
@Ciel66 Oh I see lol Well good to see you in any case. No no it's alright don't worry about it I just noticed and was curious lol
Ok👍
I am not a lesbian so neither way i would. But girls with rude behaviour and use curse words a lot is pretty evident that they are just unattractive
What would be the point of that? Literally the defining attractive attribute of the opposite sex and she doesn't have it? Why date then?
Yes yes yes, my wife is just like a guy but has tits and a twat.
I'm more feminine then she is. At least that what she says
hahaha
unfeminin how? like she has a dick? what does unfeminine even mean cause both pictures look feminine to me
the top one looks feminine?
to me and anyone i know. . femininity doesn't have anything to do with pink and flowers.
I would consider her masculine from her pose, facial expression, hairy arm pits lol but fair enough
so which r u?
Of those? Neither just inbetween
what i find unfeminine has more to do with the dislike of masculinity, a rejection of a mans rights to apreciate beauty or just vilifying men
So what makes a girl not feminine? is it the hairy armpits? In some areas women do not shave under their arms. That does not mean they are not feminine, it means others judge them on what they do not know about them.
I mean I am not looking for Butch as a girlfriend but a little hair doesn't bother me.
I prefer her to be feminine but also can have a so called tomboy side that likes to ride dirtbikes for example. Now if she was one that was mainly tomboy whose main foot wear are boots like this similar to this then that is too tomboy for me.
I can handle one that likes to camp and hike for example but still would need a feminine style moresssthan not even if uts an alternative style.
I'm bisexual and to me it depends on how masculine she is. I like a woman who is kind of masculine.
I'm extremely masculine but I'm not gay or bi... so if boys don't like me or if no one lets me be myself in general, then I might as well just be nonbinary or be aromantic cuz fk people let me be myself damnit
You seem confused
@Zach1457 Im just sick of people in real life telling me that I can't do something or act a certain way cause Im girl and they keep trying to tell me im bi for acting a certain way and Im just mad.
Like the other day my friends were comparing nail lengths and mine are short and bitten due to anxiety not because I like other girls... god damn stereotypes
Yeah dont let others have a control over you. But.. honestly masculine girls are not preferred by most guys i'm just saying..
@Zach1457 thats fine lol. I have a shy side to me as well so by masculine, I just mean hobbies and how I don't like feminine activities at all. But my personality is still pretty sensitive and sort of emotional
Do you look like a woman at first the pic?
Most girls don’t dress up or do makeup on a daily basis. I think as long as you don’t act walk or talk like a man , you should be fine
The underarm hair is disgusting. If she expects a man to do anything manly like open doors or pay for dates or whatever, then she needs to at least shave her body hair.
I find that even a lot of the "tough" ones are still feminine in some ways. They can be fun to hang out with.
Sorry but no, I like feminine women. If you dont want to be feminine, that's fine thats your right. Just dont complain if not as many guys are attracted to you. Just like women are attracted to masculine men, us guys like feminine women.
I prefer a girly girl but I don’t mind if she has a little tomboy in her , I just don’t want her dressing like a dude lol
I am open to the ideal of dating either or. however I prefer a woman in the middle. nice 50/50 or 60/40 blend
I used to get in my head about this until I started seeing some of my ugly friends get married. Then I looked at couples in public. There’s plenty of hot guys with girls who have short hair or wear sweats or who never do their makeup.
Any Woman is not unfeminine! Femininity comes with being a woman; some chose not to show it, but deep down there's no escaping it! I'd rather have a tougher woman than a total pristine Woman!
As a woman myself I believe it doesn't matter if your feminine or unfeminine. What matters is how you see yourself and the person you date see you.