If a guy invites you to his house on a first date is that a red flag?

[shani1711]

Sick of having to organise dates with guys so left it up to him and this was his only suggestion because "it's gonna be cold tonight want to go to mine instead" haha

[genericname85]

yeah that's sort of creepy... i mean it may just be him being clumsy. i had a first date at her place before, which i don't mind, cause i'm a man so i don't really fear getting raped xD but man if i was a girl, i'd have a first meeting in a public place for sure.

[DocT1977]

I would prefer to start out a little slower than that. Just keep your eyes open. He could be the use them and lose them type.

[Anonymous]

Yes, that is a big red flag; and is a good way to get raped or murdered.

[sensible27]

He didn't come up with it out of the blue so it seems alright.

[dudeinohio]

My first date with my girlfriend was at my place. At the time, I didn't have a car and it was easier.

[Ad_Quid_Orator]

Not necessarily but if he asks again after you say no, then yeah I would consider that a "red flag".

[bourgeisenafied]

If you want it just go. You can abondon him after that.

[Anonymous]

It suggests hooking up only.

[Sabretooth]

yes.

[Hotboy_booblover]

Yes...