What does it mean when a guy invites you to his house to watch a movie as a first date?

[Anonymous]

He's a friend, we typically hangout with a group

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He knows I'm a virgin. He admitted once to being over his "hoe phase."

[Anonymous]

Since he's a friend, it might be okay, but I personally would never go to a guy's house for the first date. If he really likes you, going out in public shouldn't be a problem. Suggest going to the movie theater instead.

[Asker]

He plays sports with me and my friends in public weekly, so I see him every week. But when he suggests hanging out, its his place

[Opinion Owner]

Hmm, yeah that's a little bit of a red flag to me. Tell him you want to see a newer movie that's currently playing in theaters (name the movie... don't say what I said above lol). Or tell him there's a new restaurant you've been wanting to try. If he really pushes the coming to his house thing, just tell him you'd feel more comfortable going out.

[Asker]

Ok thank you

[Manchild2018]

He is either broke or he wants to turn you into a hoe or both.

[SamFromFL]

Means you turn him down

[Asker]

Darn

[SamFromFL]

Ya, he’s not looking to date.

[Asker]

This is a bit TMI but he knows I'm a virgin, still just looking to smash?

[SamFromFL]

He probably will not try to put his dick inside you but he will try his ‘moves’ to be sexual from kissing to even oral

[Asker]

Interesting

[SamFromFL]

Is it?

[Asker]

In a way that is surprising. More like disappointing

[SamFromFL]

If a guy wants to date you he will plan something in public. If he wants sex then he will want to get you one on one

[Asker]

How about if he knows i'm not vaccinated and can't go anywhere to eat?

[SamFromFL]

Then he plans a picnic at a park or gets takeout and meets you at the beach. Point is he wants to spend time with you out and about, not sitting at home

[Asker]

Got it. Do guys do this with girls they don't think are attractive enough to date?

[SamFromFL]

Guys intentions don’t change much based on appearance. If he’s down for sex he does it no matter what she looks like. Are you not attractive?

[Asker]

Got it. I have a great body, I'm 5'4, and several guys call me cute, but I'm by no means a model

[SamFromFL]

Hmm cute can mean dif things. But if your body is good that’s what counts

[Asker]

What can it mean?

[SamFromFL]

Can mean ok looking, could mean innocent, could be sweet

[Jintendo18]

Clearly you’ve never heard of “Netflix and chill”.

[anylolone]

Probably just movies.

[In_Trance]

It means you're gonna smash