Girls, Why don't people empathize with how complicated the standards of male beauty are, or how men have it harder?

Wolkmi
In principle I speak in general not personally.
The worst thing of all is that reading online comments, from women not from weird pages, creates more insecurities than the other way around, then people are surprised that there are disturbed people or so many problems. Women receive better support: for example if a woman makes a post asking "if it's okay for a woman to have vaginismus"? 90% of men will say yes, they would accept not having piv sex, or with height, its OK for women to be tall, short, etc.

Whenever people talk about this, they call incel and terrible things, being a man is horrible, it is not enough to be handsome, there is the height, penis size, dominant personality, do the approaching... I don't think women will stand the pressure of being a man, for example a man can't have thousands of suitors or easy matches or date up, or hookup with a celebrity, any average teen girl can be a groupie, look at any band or singer... it is very sad to be a man, the amount of standards women have is brutal and growing
Girls, Why dont people empathize with how complicated the standards of male beauty are, or how men have it harder?
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5 mo
I understand some of the answers but also women are also obsessed with height and the man who is taller, so why should a man spend money and time if he is going to be rejected because of his height? Women don't suffer from that, if a woman is hot, she is hot, men are not insecure about dating women taller than them. Male celebrities, and not only short ones but very tall like David Bowie or Mick Jagger, have dated women even taller than them.

Girls, Why don't people empathize with how complicated the standards of male beauty are, or how men have it harder?
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