Should girls shoot their shot more?

[Justneedtokno]

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+1 y

I think sometimes it makes us feel like we’re desperate and it’s embarrassing. I like a man to come up to me and have confidence what’s all wrong with that?

[Kaneki05]

oh 100% some guys who ain't creeps like myself at least i believe i ain't one lol. we try not to Dm without been asked because were afraid of the girl just thinking were another creep. Or just turning us down anyway. i feel like it's much less awkward for a girl to do it longs if you know the guy's single he ain't gonna complain about a girl talking to him.
We don't really have any reference oh no she's a creep lol

[Bananaman177]

I read this as, "should girls shoot their school more?"

And my answer to that is YES, ABSOLUTELY!

[Kaneki05]

Smh i saw that too

[RandallM]

Worst thing they can say is no, so why no

[Justneedtokno]

I think it’s embarrassing and also I like a man to have confidence to come to me. I think that’s attractive

[RandallM]

Well now you know how some men feel lol, I'm sure everyone has a different opinion, but as an introvert, it would definitely be welcome in my life, that way I don't feel like I may die in the process of confessing

[Liam_Hayden]

You should if you don't want to miss out on a potentially great guy.

[Anonymous]

Women definitely need to make the first move in this day and age. They have ruined the male female dynamic with the false accusations and false victim narrative so men are much less likely to make the first move. The few that do are the douche bags who take a shot with all women because they don’t care.

[Justneedtokno]

Wait what do you mean false accusations explain

[Opinion Owner]

40% of rape claims end up being false.

slate.com/.../...we-pretend-they-never-happen.html

Most of the MeToo nonsense was men getting accused if sexual crimes for shit like “unwanted advancements” for simply showing basic interest.

[Justneedtokno]

We are not about to victim shame here

[Opinion Owner]

Stop with the victim shaming scapegoat.
40% of rape accusations are FALSE... investigating a crime and discovering it was not a crime is NOT “victim shaming” ffs.

[Opinion Owner]

Men getting falsely accused of bullshit for showing basic interest is not victim shaming.
Males showing basic interest is the only way male female relations begin. because women won’t and expect men to approach them. So they can’t then whine when someone does that they don’t like.

[Justneedtokno]

No one is staying that it doesn’t happen. It’s just there are many case goes unreported

[Opinion Owner]

yes and what number is that today? 60%? 80%? it changes depending on who you ask.
But if you look at the bureau of justice statistic rape is less than 1/1000 which INCLUDES the estimated “90%” currently claimed to not come forward. (a number impossible to know since those do NOT come forward)

[mrgspoter]

I have no idea what that even means sorry, you mean guns?

[Justneedtokno]

It means girls asking out guys

[mrgspoter]

Shoot the shot? Wow I'm old I think. Only if you like someone u feel won't ask you from lack of social skills or just quiet. Typically do u self a favour n try n Keep away from men they are mostly bad.

[Nxtawm]

Ngl lotta guys would love that lol

[Justneedtokno]

Huh ngl

[Nxtawm]

Nothing wrong with not messaging first or making the first move. Alotta girls choose to wait for the guy, I do the same.

[abc3643]

What does this even mean?

[magiusX26]

good lord please yessssss

[TadCurious]

I think they should.

[chriscdi]

indeed they should

[Anonymous]

yes please

[TeddyGotT]

Yes... definitely

[Anonymous]

Yes, please.