Why am I so self conscious around women?

[Anonymous]

[Brykuenzel]

Because you care too much. Stop giving a damn. Focus on what you want out of life. If a woman crosses paths and likes you. Cool, if not. Oh well. Women can sense confidence, lack of confidence and men that try too hard. Dude women are the easiest creatures in the world to be around. All you gotta do is be yourself. Be carefree, light hearted, fun, have enough intelligence to hold a conversation. Be playful. They eat that stuff up. Every man on the planet and their brother is trying to get digits, get into their pants. Trying to prove that they are worthy. Then you come along. Act completely different. Aren’t trying at all. Giving her grief, making her laugh. You haven’t told her that she’s beautiful or hot once. Even if you are thinking that don’t say it. Why guys feel the need to tell a woman how they feel up front or early on is completely beyond me. Let her own curiosity get the best of her. She’s gonna wonder what your intent is, and just won’t be able to help herself. And why she’s trying to figure you out she’s flirting, testing you. And you are building attraction with her. Most guys blow themselves out of the water with a hard approach before they even get the opportunity to showcase their personality. So why even do it? Trust me a woman that you just met doesn’t need your compliments. She gets hit on 100 times a day. No need to be self conscious around women. Just walk up to one. Crack a few jokes, get her giggling and have a convo with her. You’d be surprised just how many gorgeous women will vibe with you.

[ZELLxoxo]

Maybe you are a shy person.