Why do girls I date get insecure when I mention my female friends?

[chicosuave]

Like they stop talking to me and I can see In their face it bothers them when I tell them. They also see my fb with all the girls so what am I suppose to do? Lie to them?

[Zabuza]

It just depends on the female. Some girls are okay with female friends, some just aren’t. There have been a ton of stories where the girls find out their man has been cheating on them with a female friend, so they probably hear that and get turned off by it. It’s kinda like this: Why need all female friends when you got your girl? You guys should be a little duo. You also must have a lot of pictures with you and your female friends together which could also be why.


Always be honest with them though that’s the main thing.

[chicosuave]

sooner or later they will find out. Especially when the girls are calling my phone. But it does make me sad tho cuz then my dates will either stop talking to me or friendzone me cuz some girls don't like me having other female friends. It's a bummer.

[Anemone978]

If majority of your friends are girls.. it kinda shows you are not a good man... the same as if a woman had majority of male friends... it just doesn't look or feel right..

[chicosuave]

I'm kind of sad tho. But why?

[Anemone978]

Well I understand it would make you sad..
But I personally would not want someone I liked and was dating to be hanging out with other girls...
I trust girls less then guys lol

[chicosuave]

That make sense.

[Guy13]

You basically are threatening them. Do you not have better sense than this? If you don't want her around then you are doing exactly the right thing.

[chicosuave]

How am I threatening them? What message am I conveying to them?

[In_Trance]

no guy wants to hear about other guys

[chicosuave]

That is so true. I thought girls saw it in a different way