Why are women so insecure about when their partners dm other girls?

[Vegasrunner]

[Summeroflove]

Well if someone’s engaging with someone questionably I understand. But people who get mad at their partner when they get unsolicitedly hit on are…. Let’s say don’t trust their partner.

Someone whose going to cheat will cheat. Someone who wouldn’t isn’t going to jump at the opportunity…

[Vegasrunner]

@summeroflove What does this have to do with the question?

[Summeroflove]

Everything

[Vegasrunner]

@summeroflove Why does this make women insecure?

[Summeroflove]

If someone’s attacking someone for attention they didn’t solicit. It’s insecure.

If someone’s soliciting or engaging in that attention. That’s valid

[Summeroflove]

They should be mad at someone hitting on someone in a relationship. If they truth their partner they wouldn’t be mad.

[Vegasrunner]

@summeroflove TY for sharing, I think I understand you. You're saying women shouldn't post sexy photos of themselves when they are in relationships?

[Summeroflove]

Well if they’re soliciting sexual atttentio. What’s that say about them?

[Vegasrunner]

@summeroflove I agree with you it says that women who do that are insecure

[Summeroflove]

Absolutely

[Anonymous]

Because MOST of those women have good reason to be paranoid. Most of those women have chosen very bad partners to begin with. Most of those women are attracted to toxicity and to cheaters. They just don't ever want to own that fact. That is why they repeat one unhealthy relationship after the other.

RESPECT is PARAMOUNT in a relationship. And a partner (be it man or woman) will respect your feelings if you say that talking to the other gender makes you feel insecure and will make great effort to NOT do it however possible. Likewise that person will make great effort to TRUST their partner you have grow, you have to work on YOUR issues in a relationship it's not entirely your partners job to fix YOUR past wounds.

Because this is relationships in a nutshell. You're either building bonds and trust or you're eroding it. And that is a 2 person job

[Amy10223]

I suppose it's because they don't want to lose them to whoever they're texting. Some women, believe or not, will try to steal your man. It's not about insecurity, it's reality.

[Vegasrunner]

@amy10223 I think what's difficult for women to understand is that if they have a man most likely other women are going to want him because women are all attracted to the same type of man. A man can easily have sex with another woman and lobe his main girl just the same.

[Amy10223]

Women are all attracted to the same type of man? I disagree. We are not.

[Vegasrunner]

@amy10223 You can disagree but biology abd historical evidence make it a fact. Are you aware that only about 30% of men in the history of the world have procreated?

[Chocolatetwopoint3]

Because that means he’s interested in them? how would u feel if multiple men were in ur gfs dms?

[Vegasrunner]

@imjustagirl15 All of my women are hot so they always have guys in their DMs. As long as they don't respond I don't worry about it. It they ever did I would just let them go.

[Chocolatetwopoint3]

So you would be insecure if ur girlfriend was dming other guys?

[Vegasrunner]

@imjustagirl15 No I would be extremely secure and just replace her.

[Chocolatetwopoint3]

right.

[Vegasrunner]

@imjustagirl15 Glad I could educate you.

[Chocolatetwopoint3]

No woman will ever marry u, just letting you know…

[Vegasrunner]

@imjustagirl15 Marriage is a huge mistake for men. As long as I can bang a different girl every night thats all that really matters.

[Chocolatetwopoint3]

okay… dont come crying when you got child support to pay and have multiple STDS lol

[Vegasrunner]

@imjustagirl15 Im not sure why I would come crying to a random person on a social media site about anything but what you're sharing is the typical scare tactics women use to trap men into a bad deal like marriage. Child support and STD's can all easily be avoided and neither justify why a man should take the risk of getting married.

[Chocolatetwopoint3]

its a saying dude🤦‍♀️

Im not telling u to get married. We both know you won't be wearing any condoms dude.

[Vegasrunner]

@imjustagirl15 OK thank you for sharing. Im not sure what any of this has to do with the original question, but Im glad you learned something.

[Chocolatetwopoint3]

i didn't tho…

[Vegasrunner]

@imjustagirl15 Thats unfortunate. We'll dont be embarrassed, keep trying and im sure you'll learn more about this subject.

[Chocolatetwopoint3]

ah yes the subject of man whores

[Vegasrunner]

@imjustagirl15 Men are the whore makers. Calling a man a whore is one of the best compliments you could give him because it means he's able to attract a lot of women which isn't easy for men to do.

[Chocolatetwopoint3]

its easy for men to get women even if he’s ugly. just say you’re ran through.

[Vegasrunner]

@imjustagirl15 My apologies I didn't see thst you're only 15. No its extremely difficult for most men to pull women, but I dont think this is an appropriate subject to discuss with a child. GL to you.

[WonderingManII]

I guess they don't want to lose the man. Or they want to be in charge of when she wants to get rid of him. Not because He found someone better.