Why are woman insecure in a relationship?

[Anonymous]

[dtweed1996]

My girl has been insecure ever sense we met because she wanted true love not to be played again

[Asker]

Me too

[dtweed1996]

Don’t worry you’ll find them eventually

[Yourfriend2021]

Maybe they were hurt in the past.

[caring__1]

Men are just as likely to feel insecure in a relationship. They're just taught from early age to hide their feelings and pretend they are strong and have it all together. Unfortunately, people tend to be too self-serving to be healthy partners. Prioritizing self over partner raises the likelihood of the partner not feeling safe, and that lack of safety leads to doubts and insecurity.

[ChrisMaster69]

A lot comes down to trust

they have had it broken in previous relationships and or the person they are with is too similar to previous partners and that trust is not 100% there.

Also it can be either partner.

[ShadezMcgee]

Because they either have past trauma from past relationships or the man she is currently with isn't acting in a way that is giving her the feeling of assurance and security.

[dustybiker]

That sounds like they have trust issues with themselves and or their partner.

[Sasha_Gee]

Usually it means there is something they were insecure about before the relationship happened

[GoodManDave]

Insecure DURING a relationship or insecure ABOUT the relationship?


I think a lot of people (not just women) are a bit of both.

[FýrdracaDócincel]

Because they didn't choose the people they were actually attracted to.

[Iron_Man]

I think most are nowadays because of social media and not trusting the boyfriend

[Cubus]

Because they were used before and lost hope they will ever meet a good man.

[jahaims]

People are insecure in relationships because they are insecure as people.

[EaterPeter]

Baggage from past or most men are not good at reassurance.

[EaterPeter]

Thanks for like!

[Hangry06]

Not all. Personal issues

[Anonymous]

I'm very secure in my relationship

[MountAverage]

Why would think it's different than with men?

[driven159]

both can be insecure about them selves

[howhigh420]

Thats not nesiserly true theyve either been hurt by to many men or they are feeling weird or nervous that something they say may trouble or annoy u or they maybe be pregnant andvnot ready to say or scared incase you leave because of it or maybe the man has done things to make her insecure in a way not about them selves

[CherryFlair]

Because they haven’t worked on themselves