My girlfriend many say is "average" looking and slightly overweight. We will be married by the end of this year (looks great to me). As far as myself, I've been told that I'm "handsome" by a lot of women, have also been in a lot of relationships, on a lot of dates, and have had a lot of intimate/casual partners. I guess that validates that women haven't been lying about my looks? I don't know. Anyway even with all of that, I have never been approached, nor does anyone flirt with me, nor do I receive messages or texts like other guys might believe I do. I can go to a bar or store and feel invisible (oddly). When women hear me say this is my experience, they are absolutely shocked. All that dating action I mentioned above, came from dating apps ONLY and not public organic exchanges or meetings where I've ran into a woman while out and about. Anyway, I say all of that to mention that my girlfriend (soon to be fiance) has anxiety with us living 3 hours from each other because she is afraid I might cheat or another woman will take me away from her? But my girlfriend is the one who gets messages, DMs, and guys after meanwhile it's bare bones for me as far as women after me even though I'm younger than my girlfriend and work out regularly. I don't receive any inquiries from any women nor any indication that any would try to get me to cheat, etc. So ladies, why does she feel the way she does and exactly who is going to try and take me away from her 🤔 when obviously SHE is the one pursued.
As far as why she gets more male attention than you get female attention, it's because she's average looking and chubby like you noted. Girls like that tend to be highly sexually attractive to men, and chubby, average girls - in my view - probably have more sex than so-called gorgeous girls. The guys who are DMing her want sex with her. It's actually quite normal for guys to be into girls like this.
As for why she's insecure and worried about you cheating or being stolen by another woman, I would assume it's because she knows you've had a lot of partners and dates. It concerns her, or maybe even makes her somewhat jealous. It's not entirely good for her to be insecure like that, but what I can say is, take it as a little bit of a power move. It means she likes and wants you enough to keep her in her life. That's better than most other women who see their male partners as expendable or someone to compete with about how much sex she can have compared to him.
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Ugh! I hate that she’s marrying you. She deserves soo much better.
I am not sure if she is the insecure one here.
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You tell me you know her face-to-face
Because she doesn't believe in herself
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