Why do men act like they don’t understand why women are insecure?

[Anonymous]

A lot of men in real life or on this site act like they can’t understand why women are so insecure about every single part of their bodies from head to to toe. But those same men talk crap about women’s bodies all day. On the internet, in groups, at schools, at bars, in front of women, even directly to women. They go on and on about how visual they are and describe how they expect every woman to look airbrushed in real life or they should just stay fully clothed. They talk about the bodies of women who have nothing to do with them or any interest in them at all for whatever reason. All of this on top of women tearing down women everyday. But let a woman say a single thing about his penis size or his height and they go “why are women so mean/judgmental”. I don’t get it.

men do you or have you ever bad-mouthed a woman’s body in public and have you ever wondered why women are so insecure? Women don’t really do this, so how would you feel if the same happened to you?

[Guy13]

The issue for men with women is we can label the Problem but have no grasp of the underlying "things" that define the Problem. INSECURITY being one... --past betrayal.. infidelity.. they don't tell us that crap for fun... --He looks better than me, any woman.. never can trust him... --Our reputation...--Man's Critical Spirit, --Flirt in front or gets back to her, --She compromises, gives/neglected and he still will not commit.

If an adult male can't get this then enjoy your Time in the F-U Zone... friendzone, really, stop lying to yourselves

[Jackblue]

I am disappointed, but I have never said a woman doesn't have the right to judge a man as a romantic partner based on his dick size or height. Men have emotional problems too, but we are afraid of showing them because of being lectured on the idea that we don't have the right to be upset because of male privilege. Nevertheless, you are right; men shouldn't tear women down either, so I try not to do that anymore.

[Jackblue]

This is the kind of stuff white males need to read about on a pretty much daily basis.
www.nytimes.com/.../white-men-privilege.html
https://ips-dc.org/surplus-white-men/
www.cnn.com/.../index.html

[Anonymous]

Men have trouble seeing the big picture. Most of that stuff flies right over their heads.

[MrOracle]

I don't badmouth anyone about anything except sometimes their behavior.

[In_Trance]

they're not acting