How to know if a guy only wants to sleep with you?

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I've told him from the very first day we met (at the club) that I dont do hookups. And he would say something like "yea i wouldve gone with another girl if I wanted to hookup".

We've gone on two dates which both ended up being late at night. (A part of it is my fault since we keep waiting for each other's text). The first date, we just talked and he didn't really try to make a move aside from hugging me for a few seconds. The second date, we ended up making out and he tried to unbutton my pants. So i said something like "i thought no hookups?" And he said that he wasn't thinking of it but now he's in the mood (because we were making out).

I firmly said no and we just went back to making out. Then he asked me if i would be open to sex if we were to be in a relationship and i told him maybe in 5-10 years. (Which i didn't mean i was just testing him). He laughed and asked me if i was serious and i said yes. Then he told me "guess my left hand's gonna suffer" something like that and i laughed and said "yeah it would suffer for a while"

He told me he was really having a hard time (from holding it in) and i began teasing him saying i would stay with him for another half an hour to see how far his patience can go and yea nothing happened aside from making out.

He brought me home and we kissed for a few secs and then he said he was going on a holiday for a week and wanted me to come with him. He suggested i can ask my friends to come and that accommodation was taken care of. He said if i dont end up coming, he'll just see me before he leaves.

What confuses me is he never really texted me unless we were making plans on meeting. He replies fast, yes. But thats the only time we'd text. We both agreed we're not into texting but i feel like he should at least text me once in a while to know what im up to if im alive or what lol.

So he's not texting, tried once to have sex with me. Is he interested in dating or just wanna sleep with me?
How to know if a guy only wants to sleep with you?
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