How do you know if a guy is your boyfriend if he only wants sex?

[Anonymous]

Like for example he’s your boyfriend and you do serious things like meet parents , pics, trips together , all of that but he only is your boyfriend for sex? Or is that not possible?

[Anonymous]

I think one should figure out if they’re on the same page as the person they’re seeing first. I find a lot of young women assume they’re boyfriend and girlfriend with the guy their seeing rather than having the conversation. If there’s no conversation then there’s no title.


Secondly this vetting process should be happening within the first or second date. First dates I think are generally to see if there’s a vibe and if you can be comfortable around them and a second date I think is good for asking and finding out what the other person is looking for. A lot of guys are looking for sex and a lot of guys are looking for relationships and if you want to find out which one a guy is looking for you have to provide space for honesty.

[Orion84]

If he's only interested in sex, and doesn't want to do any of the other things that typically go along with a relationship, then he's not a boyfriend; he's just a fuckbuddy.

A boyfriend would still want sex, but he'd also enjoy spending time with you in other ways, and participating in other activities as a couple.

[RoseySaraah]

Sometimes it's both but often it's more for sex and is so hard to tell a lot of the times he will want it more then a serious relationship.

What does your heart say? Is he always pushing for sex?

[Asker]

I don’t hav a boyfriend, but my only boyfriend I had he waste my time n we never met family. I never experienced how it’s like spend holidays with a boyfriend. And I’ll be 26.

[Asker]

I want a boyfriend that can meet family n do all the normal things a boyfriend does besides dating u.

[Asker]

It’s ok we don’t marry but many have bfs that meet family then break up it’s normal

[RoseySaraah]

Then he only wanted sex

The best want you to meet them and share you with Thier family friends and spend holidays!

If a guy wants sex before you meet his parents then you know where his heart is!

[Asker]

Yea next boyfriend has to meet family first and sex after or else bye.

[Asker]

But I know mostly all bfs meet family. So it gives me peace knowing new guy won’t be same as ex boyfriend.

[RoseySaraah]

Very peaceful knowing that! For me I made them wait 9 months if they pushed hard then byes!

My man waited so long worth ever tortured night waiting

[Asker]

Wen I met ex boyfriend we don’t have sex for 1 year. After first date. We only began dating weekly until I had sex with him so 23-25 I date him. But we never met family so I break up with him finally.

[Asker]

Even wen I was younger 13-22 I never had a boyfriend. I was an ugly duckling I guess lol & i began have my glow up barley til now age 23-25 almost 26. I’m a late bloomer

[Asker]

But if I have a new boyfriend now I need him
Before Christmas this year as I’ll be 26 ocotber & I want finally experience for first time how it’s like have a serious boyfriend happy.

[Asker]

If I had other boyfriend instead of ex boyfriend I would of even been married by now or have a kid. And he wasted my time now next boyfriend can’t waste my time as I’ll be 26-30 now.

[Asker]

I even want meet family fast like 1-2 months I won’t wait years or 6 months to meet family either.

[Asker]

I also thought a serious boyfriend was a guy that date u many years and I now learned that’s red flag. It’s not good hav boyfriend for many years. It’s ok to marry fast then together 5-10 years but to date as boyfriend 10 years it’s not serious.

[RoseySaraah]

The good range is 2 to 3.5 before engaged!
5 is to much for most!

[sheikalana]

A man who's only interested in sex could never be my boyfriend.