What are your thoughts about dating someone who regularly posts naked photos on the internet?

[Anonymous]

Not for compensation just sexual gratification, and they never show their face, but you discovered that they regularly post photos online.

[dantheman1118]

Wow. I had no idea there was so much negative thoughts on that. The OP never said anything about any sort of communication of any kind and still that much negativity. If that's how someone gets their rocks off, go for it. The right thing would definitely be share it with your partner but big picture is no harm done.

Everyone who said nope, let me ask you all this and honestly, I don't want to hear your answer. Just really think about it for yourself. Does none of you have some borderline kink/fantasy. Something you don't share with others just because their is no real way to share it. It's almost awkward thinking about telling someone. Nothing fuckin crazy or illegal. Something that kinda surprised you a little when you realized it. It doesn't hurt anyone. It doesn't do any harm in any sense... I'll give you a second to think about that...

Now if you said "no" you are a fucking liar and go take a timeout. If you said "yes", "I guess" or "Maybe" would that suck for getting unnecessary shit for it. She shouldn't be shamed for it but rather she should be appreciated for it. I think the only place she was possibly in the wrong was not telling her partner somehow.

[ChaoticVortex]

In this day and age the idea of the guy being the only one to see the women's body is sadly dead. You say she should be appreciated for it but qhat you dont realize is it takes one wrong move. One miss step or irritated ex or local perv to ruin her. Thats why its bad. I would date an only fans chick or porn hub chick cause I mean really... if you like the kink share it and let's enjoy it. But to show off just for kicks? Again one bad situation to cause a tidal wave of regret. And besides. YOU may think nothing is wrong with, cool cool. So guys jacking off to your girl doesn't bother you? Are you a fucking pornstar? If my girl had thing like that... either she dropping it or im dropping her. Really talk. Im not for that. Thats like you take your girl to the club and she goes off and dances with some random dude all sexual like and you say well she's having fun. Really? Naw fam fuck that! Not while I'm with her she not. Thats why i hate clubs. I dont care how you think to respond. If you do. Simple fact is you are open to that. Relationships don't mean security to you. But for us guys that remember the days of commitment and she is mine and I am hers, that type of life style is a huge turn off.

[dantheman1118]

Well that's cool. I definitely remember writing that all of that needs to be discussed before hand. But I guess your right? You think some one who hasn't spoke to someone else in any manner and saw a nude photo of this person that has never met one another is the same as two people grinding in the club? But I guess you're right about that too? You said "guys jacking off to your girl doesn't bother you?" Why the fuck would I care about what any dude jerks off to? I couldn't care less. Dudes jerk it to weird shit and that's not my business. Weird thing to say but I guess your right? You sound like a pretty possessive dude. I'm not that way at all. You gotta have respect for one another. If one doesn't respect the other, you're doomed. I don't know what happened in your past but you can tell it's still with you and it's surface level. I'm sorry for whatever that was. I think it's sad the days of commitment is over as well. To this day I have never once cheated on anyone but due to the changing of times I have evolved. I no longer put myself in a position to get fucked up over a female. As long as there is respect I can live with it.

[ChaoticVortex]

Hell yeah im possessive. She is mine. If my wife thinks that putting nudes of herself up is cool then we ain't. You may think that's wrong but imma tell you. There was a time when women respected themselves enough to keep their bodies to themselves and their partner. Now we got wives making pornos with other men infront of their husband's. Kinks are one thing but fuck that noise if you think that shit is okay. I dont know whats wrong with wanting by wife to myself. I respect her but ahit man she needs to respect me too. And naked photos I dont allow. Thats why i got one that thinks that shit is nasty. She dont like that. Nor do I. And thats okay just like its okay for you crazy people to do what y'all do. We don't watch porn or any erotica. That shit is for the birds. We love each other like a good couple would. And its gonna last. Why? Because we respect each other. So yeah I THINK its wrong. But shit live how you want. Commitment is key. We commit to each other. Besides. I prefer her sending ME some nudes instead of the fucking internet where it lives for ever? In any case, I dont care what you think or how my opinion makes you feel. I do what I do, you do what you do. But dont expect me to be okay with it or follow that thought process. Not happing.

[Jamie05rhs]

I'd rather not. Though it isn't technically a deal-breaker. There are a lot worse things that someone could do. Unless she was showing them to people directly, because that's an intimate act. But even then, at least they didn't touch one another. When it comes down to it, that's what really matters to me. I just want someone who has kept their hands (and other body parts) to themself. It's about dignity and self-respect, and having class. It's the principle of the matter. So, while posting nude photos isn't exactly great, like I said, there are worse things. Of course, she would have to stop doing that.

[Anonymous]

I would never do it. Most guys dont want their girlfriends to post naked pictures online (because its trashy and slutty and disgraceful!)- but will watch porn behind their back lmao.

[Sparda20xx]

Facts but he's not dating porn stars. So it becomes, different

[Sparda20xx]

Remove the word "becomes" in my reply

[Opinion Owner]

Whats the difference if they stay anonymous? They do it for sexual gratification and so do you.

[CubsterShura]

Pretty stupid of them to choose Instagram when we have Onlyfans😂

[CubsterShura]

I wouldn't wanna be with someone like that.

[Bellaco]

I don't date people like that. They grave attention and to me they are probably narcissus

[Kaneki05]

If it was before i was with them it matters not so yes i would. If it was during been together nope unless if there making money from it.

[DCooper]

I would be disappointed. If she was gonna post nudes, I would hope she would at least be smart enough to make some money off them.

[LovingLover]

Boyfriend is speechless.. he would be ashamed, disappointed...

[vexaknull]

Personally I wouldn't dig it.
I'm a jealous person, I don't respect cucks.
Just my opinion.

[DaneSudekis]

I've done it so I guess I'd be a hypocrite if I had a problem with her online nudes.

[billmunch]

I once dated a working prostitute, so this wouldn't bother me a bit

[VOCWIC]

Would not date her then.
The relationship is in danger then and for me personally it would already have failed.

[Guardian45]

No different than a stripper, camgirl or a prostitute. Does it bother you? Talk to her. Otherwise, put up with it or leave her.

[Anonymous]

My Wife Loves That I Am Naked Online, Unlike Our Hypocritical Society, She Loves Nudity… My Photos Are Head To Toes Completely Naked With Face…

[Nanu_]

you can date all you want but don't settle down with them.

[Anonymous]

Just bend them over... and send them home. Nothing more...

[Anti-Matter]

Couldn’t knowingly do it. She can find another. 😌

[Anonymous]

get nudes or talk shitiest things you can imagine. Fulfill your fantasies and dump that slut

[Sharonclaire]

Isn’t looking for a long lasting relationship

[Don-_-Don]

That's not someone I would date.

[COMMODOREII]

Id like to know the website for that lol

[Rexos]

I'd have no problems with that.

[Thatsamazing]

Depends-- is she hot?

[hellish-kitty]

Good for them? They should be careful though.