What do you all think about your significant other liking/ hearting half-naked pics of random people?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend recently hearted pictures of this girl on facebook/ instagram, and he knows full well how I feel about that.. which is just my boundaries, and it honestly made me really upset.. Girls/ Guys, how does this make you feel?

[Anonymous]

He knows you don’t like it and still does it, so now what? If you respect your boundaries and yourself then you wouldn’t be in that relationship anymore.

[In_Trance]

Don't give a shit. If they don't do it online, they'll find another way to do it.
Point being, calling someone for this won't make it stop. You'll make them a better liar.
People are people.

[BarryLiverstone]

If my girlfriend wanted to do that she can, just means she likes how someone else looks. How do you feel when he does that?

[Asker]

Not very good.-. Because I already am insecure as it is..
Now just imagine how that makes me feel when I see him liking other photos of girls because its obvious what he's looking at...

[BarryLiverstone]

Oh ok. So because you are already feeling insecure then he knows that but you probably worry he likes how she looks more than you. But then how could he make you feel more secure and desired?

[Asker]

Probably by not doing dumb stuff like this :c because he knows my boundaries but literally shows he ignores them.. I just kinda wish he respected my boundaries and maybe hyped me up a bit instead of not... also I dont really understand how he can go off doing this himself but if I were to do that... (Likings guys half-naked pics) he would throw a FIT!

[BarryLiverstone]

That’s not fair. He shouldn’t criticize your actions. He’s a hypocrite. But sorry he’s not understanding.

[BarryLiverstone]

Maybe you could remind him how if he bragged on you a bit or complimented you online that so many others would see it and know he cares about you. Let him know how you feel judged and some pressure from others and how that’s hurtful when he does that

[Asker]

Also when I get mad and he knows he did something wrong and I call him out he just reacts like "I deleted her"

[BarryLiverstone]

I see. So it’s like he doesn’t validate your feelings and blows them off like it’s nothing. That probably isn’t the right response?

[Anemone978]

I would hate that but luckily my man respects me and doesn't do dumb shit like that..

[Smashingdoozy]

I don't mind it as long as I'm with him approving the likes

[itsalyssaagain]

If he knows and he still does it I wouldn’t speak to him

[MementoMori777]

That would suck I guess