Should you stay friends after rejection?

[Anonymous]

[scott04sa22]

When I get rejected they also rejected the friendship too at the same time.

[Asker]

Yea they usually don’t outright reject you, they slowly fade away. She did this to me but she kept texting me. She said one night that she was thinking about me

[scott04sa22]

That's how things are where I live. If they reject you they will also reject the friendship with you too. That's how things are. Also if your too open, too adventurous or like too many things then they'll will rejected you. Some of them do slowly let you go but most of the time it's an instant let go like a snap of a finger.

[ScootaBootaBee]

Yeah. If you can't your not nature enough to handle the relationship to begin with.

[Asker]

I did stay friends because I felt like if I left it would come across as if I was pretending to be a friend the whole time. However it became annoying after a while because the situation didn’t add any value to my life. I was a text buddy and I had no interest In that

[ChloeStarlight]

In my case if my crushes rejected me, I would still have to be friends with them

[Asker]

Why?

[ChloeStarlight]

I’m attracted to guys who are speed cubers which are guys who solve the Rubik’s cube as quickly as possible so I’m gonna see them at competitions and it would just be strange to see them at comps and not be their friend because cubing is a ticket to everlasting friendship and I’m not gonna quit cubing just because they rejected me.

[In_Trance]

No why?

[Asker]

Because if you cut her off and move on it shows you was pretending to be a friend and that is lying and being deceitful

[In_Trance]

I disagree, but whatever works for ya

[Asker]

But why you disagree?

[In_Trance]

You didn't get together to be friends that was never the point. What could you possibly offer one another now in terms of friendship? She doesn't need anymore friends and neither do you. With respect people do this all the time and it's a ludicrous. You really have no interest in being friends you just want validation. Both of you just need to know that you'll be liked and that you're a nice person.
Save yourself the time and move on. The more time you spend with the wrong person is less time you spend looking for the right one

[Asker]

Honestly I’m not interested in being friends with girls because it serves no purpose for me. I just ended up being trapped in a bad situation and the only way out is to move on. I get no validation from this because this situation makes me feel bad and shows me I’m worth basically nothing to her. It adds no value to my life. I’m unhappy and I’m not getting what I want and express this to her but she doesn’t get. She is satisfied just using me for attention. She keeps texting me and it gets annoying. It’s like what are you doing? I don’t block woman because men don’t do that