A report by the Independent states black women have complained of racism in online dating applications.
This is even as research carried out by online American magazine As/Is revealed that black women are the least desirable group of people in terms of race.
Asian, and Caucasian women ranked the highest as the most desirable women on earth followed closely by Latin women.
Is this a case of blatant racism targetting black women or should people be entitled to their preferences even if it means one group is considered unwanted?
Yes i would
No i would not, not my preference
I would, it depends.
Yes, perhaps if she is light skinned
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What do you think is the reason why black women are the least desirable group? would you date a black girl or woman?
I wonder how many "Black" women are going to respond to this question given that most "Black" women here are seeking relationships with "White" men.
Racism is such an odd belief system. It claims to be fair and want fairness for everyone. But at the same time it claims to objectively create these fake human groupings. So we all know that "Black" women are stereotyped such that they become the least desirable female. We all know that. We see that reflected in stats on marriage and dating. The funny thing is that even when it comes to physical attractiveness "Black" women are not even seen as attractive. They are not the Western standard of beauty. But then racism heaps all these negative things about attitude, behavior and personality on top of that.
But the most hypocritical and troubling thing is, that after all of this. . ."Black" men who express love for "Black" women and only "Black" women are called. . .
racist.
Its like a sick joke.
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Anonymous
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You sure it’s not just a USA thing? They do fine everywhere else.
Sexual preferences are never bigotry. What do these people want - For people who don't actually feel sexually interested in them to pretend to be interested? Any person can be uninterested in any other people for whatever reason they feel, they're all valid.
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Yes, even if you're preference isn't for you are racist it would seem lol
next they are gonna call us homophobic for not wanting to have gay sex just like they are calling us racist for not wanting to have sex with a black girl just because she is black
Again, it is a lie. You don't date "Black" women because you think they stick their finger in the air and say "they don't need no man".
That's the image you have of "Black" women. It has nothing to do with sexual preference. Remember when John Mayer said his penis was racist and some folks jumped down his throat? He was only telling the truth. He was not sexually attracted to "Black" women. People should have supported him. That's not what you or most men at GaG say. You know "Black" women through negative racial stereotypes.
In what world is trying to avoid a stereotype not also a preference. These things aren't mutually exclusive. While I know not everyone conforms to a stereotype, if meeting someone who does conform to said stereotype is a concern, the individual is well within their right to avoid those potential relationships.
@RolandCuthbert You make no sense. It is not mutually exclusive to not like someone for both a stereotype of their character, AND regular sexual preference.
But I'm not wasting any more time playing devils advocate here.
It is funny talking to the GaG faithful. Supposedly, I don't know what I am talking about, yet no one can state any objective fact or truth that proves me wrong.
It is though whining somehow wins the argument.
You don't like "Black" women because of nonsensical racist stereotypes. Just admit that and live your freaking life. Stop whining like a little puppy. Own your beliefs.
But he is not arguing subjectivity. It is supposed objective fact that "Black" women point their fingers in the air and say "i don't need no man".
It is not about his subjective preference for blonde hair, green eyes or "White" skin.
You see, that isn't reflective of any "Black" woman I know. Or even have heard of. And if anything, the women who claim they don't need no man in my experience. . . have been "White". I was married to a "Black" woman for 13 years. She had no want or need to be the weird stereotype of. . . strong "Black" woman.
But then again. . . who I am talking to?
It isn't like you guys will replace your ignorance about something with knowledge.
@RolandCuthbert Oh, I'm so ignorant for thinking people should be free to decide who they're romantically interested in. I'm just the worst kind of person. Fuck me, right.
like cut it out , we know you are black. Have something else to your personality as well instead of making your whole personality as someone who is "black"
And I am not trying to generalize here. Not all black women are like that , but most of the ones I have met were like that
Yeah i think its more the black women in the US that are dealing with this. Cos women from the UK or Canada and rest of the world are not lol.. makes you wonder
I could date a black woman and I have. Far from a fetish of mine, Unattractive people will always complain, blaming racism when the whole genepole lean that way is just pointless. If you rank something there must be something at the bottom of the list. And if the black men doesn't want them there must be something wrong. Maybe they need to blame their female culture?
I do not have a preference because it depends on the personality, but as a whole, black women tend to have a lot more drama. I cannot stand someone with an attitude problem, has no basic manners and acts like a hooligan when things do not go her way. I realize not all black women are like that as I've dated a few, but as a whole they seem to cause more trouble than other women.
From what I've read, the main complaint is that black women are loud, aggressive, entitled, and generally difficult to deal with. Would I date a black woman? Yes, but one only for whom the above is not true. In the end, race doesn't matter to me; compatibility and character do.
I personally wouldn't My family wouldn't accept the woman. Not gonna trade my family for a girl. I can easily be with a mexican woman and have 0 problems and make 0 compromises
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Anonymous
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I have dated one and I would do it again; I don't take race into consideration for dating. I look at attractiveness and personality; if they meet my criteria I will date any race.
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So you wouldn't date a not attractive black woman then? so its not that you just like black women, you only do when they are hot?
My threshold for dating someone is a 6/10; or a 5/10 with a great personality. As far as attractiveness goes; so they don't have to be out right hot. They just need to be somewhat pretty.
As long as you are soft and sweet, you can come my way. And I’m not one of those weirdos who have skin preference. Everyone’s the same shade in a dark bedroom ;)
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