I often hear that young women consider men who are significantly older than themselves to be attractive. For example, 20 year olds are attracted to 35 year old men. Does that apply to you?
If so, could you imagine to have a one night stand / fuckboy relationship or even a long term relationship with a man who is about 15 years older than you and provided that he is very good looking (unlike the man in the picture)?
Could you imagine having a serious relationship or a one night stand / fuckboy relationship with a man who is about 15 years older than you?
guys in there 30s typically are more mature and have a bit of wealth earned. or at least are in a decent job field to support themselves and a partner.
girls in their early/mid 20s still have young and are in prime age to have multiple children.
Not in this stage of life. I'm 18 and 33 is too old for me at the moment. In my thinking process someone who's 33 is fully adult and probably have life figured out. They have work, they have their own home and might want kids soon. I'm just starting to figure things out. I just started studying, I'm very impulsive, not that responsible and I don't want kids for at least 10 years. When you're 30 and dating 45 year old I think it would work better because your probably in the same stage of life.
I couldn't do neither of these things with a man who is 15 years older than me. It's too much. I'm not mature enough for that, it would be awkward and we probably wouldn't look good together. Plus, I'm usually attracted to white men. Since I'm black and I would be 15 years younger than him some people would assume that I was a prostitute or a gold digger.
No, but that's because I'm a straight guy. I'll say that dating a gal that's 14 years younger than me is probably my limit as of right now. I don't want to all of a sudden think "I was learning how to drive when you were born" (I was 15 when I started). @menina has an interesting take on it. I look young. People still think I'm in my 20s.
@Angelacandy1 does bring up a good point. It's more about how you connect with a person
Even if they were good looking, healthy, and more mature while them being much much older than me I don't think I'd be in a long term relationship with them. I mean, for me that'd be like dating my older cousins. I'd much rather date someone who is around my age. A bit older than me but not older than my closest sister.
I've had many of these... some even bigger age gap. My current fuckbuddy turned 20 last March n weve been lovers about a year. My last girlfriend was 29 years younger and we lived together for four years. I've also datrd a lot older too... eg... Me 33 girlfriend 57.
Its about a connection. Once two people are happy then i dont give a fuck what people think.
“My current fuckbuddy turned 20 last March n weve been lovers about a year. My last girlfriend was 29 years younger” You will be my role model when I turn 50 😎
My current boyfriend is 10 years older than me and i dont think its a huge age diffrence. The pic you put there isn't a very accurate representation of an age gap relationship because it looks as the older one, typically a man is unattractive. Thats not true.
Probably not. My last partner was 9 years older than me. He would always throw my age in my face and say I was a kid. Plus I would wonder if he was attracted to me or if its just a sexual thing for him. So yeah I'd probably not do it again but I can't help the way I feel so if I like someone their age won't matter much.
Seems like He had security issues. Generally when men age that sort of bullshit ends. I for one would sure as hell not throw that in Your face because I'd enjoy having sex with a younger women because it would make Me feel younger.
I don’t mind being with a guy who is older than me by a couple of years. I’ve spoken to 3 guys in my life who were older and 1 out of the 3 ended up being a serious situation. I don’t get approached by older me often. I have a babyface so when the men glance at me I see they’re observing but they would never approach.
I don’t mind but I wonder if the guy I’m involved with mind and is that something they’re into.
Chances are they prob assume you wouldn't be interested. Id be the same. I wouldn't go out of my way to find out but if the situation arose where we were close in proximity id say hello and take it from there
Yes, older men are more turn-on for me. I also have daddy fetish. But actually he has to be really good-looking cause excessive weight is really disgusting to me.
The daddy fetish is a lot of fun. Lived that lifestyle with last girlfriend for 4 years. she was 29yrs younger and not only were we in love deeply but our sex life was outstandingly amazing.
I honestly feel that age is just a number. If one gels well and there is love and / or ohysical attraction, why not. I have been in such relationships, and most have worked well.
i had a sugar daddy for a little that was 35 when i was 19 - had a lot of dirty looks in public, had people ask me if i was okay, etc money was nice and honestly older guys seem to have some experience so no complaints tbh
I find older men attractive, like 30's to 60's but I would never actaully do anything with them. Because I'm still a kid and giving people cases isn't very cash money, also their way older than me so we wouldn't have much in common.
It would probably be a relationship. Fuckbuddy and the like I would not. But for a real boyfriend and partner it would be possible. My current boyfriend is older than me, not 15 years thou, and I'm pretty happy with him and would not replace him
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for a hookup yea, done that before anyways. but not for a serious relationshop. i'm only into older guys for sex bc i'm a huge sub and they just fit that kink better, but for dating i'd only date guys my age
I don't do one night stand nor will I have a fuckboi relationship with a guy who's 15 years older than me. Even 10 years older is too much for me. No offense to people in relationships with such a big age difference but eewww. Those who might get offended, it's your choice to date whoever you want. I ain't judging. But to me that is like a different generation and I consider them to be old uncles.
I know girls are more mature than men but it would really have to depend on a few factors. Is the woman mature enough and do they have the same values in life. I am dating a guy who is 10 years older than me and I’ve never been more happy cause we want the same things and have the same goals. When I dated guys my age I felt like I was always their mom taking care of them.
I dont do one night stands, but yes if the chemistry was right, I would consider a long term relationship with a man 15-20 years older than me. Good people who you connect to are so difficult to find, so I wouldn't let something like age be an issue.
I dont do one might stands, but as for relationships I dont like the idea of dating someone masses older than I... I like the idea of meeting, falling in love and growing old together... can't do that if the person dies of old age before I get old
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