Boyfriend doesn’t seem compatible? HELP?

[Anonymous]

I’m starting to see incompatibility and I’m scared that I’m signing up to a future which might not be happy with him. Is it best to leave now?

[EmilyGreen99]

don't leave

discuss the issue with him and see if it's fixable. If there is something on his part he can fix.
if it's an unfixable issue that can't be changed at all then yeah you should leave him

also , see if it's something you can give up because relationships are all about compromises. He has to compromise on certain things and so do you
the next partner you will have will lack something as well because no one can be perfect. So just see how serious the incompatibility is and whether it can be fixed by him or compromised by you or not

I wrote the above based on a generic question you asked and since you didn't go much in the details of what the incompatibility is. If you wanna discuss , I would be happy to hear

[EmilyGreen99]

but I think you should leave him , because you are unhappy

[Asker]

Generally we are compatible, but it seems that he prefers a different life style to me. He’s more of a chill person and wants to do chill things. Sometimes he doesn’t validate my feelings. When I want to sort out problems and discuss it with him, he would rather ignore the issue.

[EmilyGreen99]

it seems like it is a serious issue

you should leave him if it's not a very long relationship

[bigmisssunshine]

Yeah, it’s best to leave now. Especially because you’re doubting him already. I don’t know in what ways he is incompatible with you, so I can’t say whether it’s okay to not match on that

[Jack-mayhoff]

Ummm. Well what does your brain tell you to do. Because I will be honest. I wouldn’t leave or stay in a relationship because of the advice of people on gag. But I think deep inside you know that.

[RasmusAiken]

Be fair to him and true to yourself. Call it quits.

[Wise4myage]

If you've been dating him for some time, then yes, its probably wise to move on.

[devil_8888]

Yes it’s better to leave now than prolonging it

[In_Trance]

dump him

[Anonymous]

yes if you're sure