Guys, would you rather date a traditional or modern girl?

[Apple1996]

Just wondering what guys prefer

Traditional

Modern

[ThomasTKay]

Traditional. In all ways, please. I like the natural untouched beauty of a woman. I hate fake and I hate the fashion/aesthetics industry. I'd be with a normal girl without makeup, and all the fake eyelashes, fake boobs, shaved/waxed pubic hair, excessive hair styles, and clothing any day. Give me someone not into fads and pop culture who is down to earth, kind, intelligent, who thinks for herself, is self confident, and real. Someone who I can carry on conversations with, be best friends and equals with, someone who is into motherhood, traditional gender specific roles, and is in general a good God fearing woman.

[Apple1996]

I do hate those girls that are super high mantience and feel the need to change everything about themselves. Much better to be with someone that is confident with their natural body

[ThomasTKay]

Amen sister. You hit the nail right on the head. I wish there were more of you. Traditional men and women are seemingly extinct. As this mentality goes extinct, so may our very existence some day as no one is willing to parent, have kids, teach kids, contribute to society, etc. It's all a party. That is not sustainable nor is it a recipe for true wholesome happiness.

[Apple1996]

So true! I'm super interested to see how the current generation of kids will turn out considering they are basically being raised by daycares and their grandparents cause their parents are too busy living it up instead of properly raising them

[Grond21]

Thanks for the MHO! And yeah, I'm sure that most of them will have trauma because they were raised like that

[Grond21]

If I had to choose between the two, traditional. But what I would really like is a more traditional relationship but with a woman who is ambitious and very involved in the world

[Grond21]

While still being a homemaker and focusing on that first

[Apple1996]

Yeah that makes sense. Most traditional women now a days are pretty ambitious in life

[OlderAndWiser]

Give me a traditional woman with intelligence and a bit of cuteness!

[Lliam]

I found the extreme examples depicted in the photos disgusting.
I like a girl next door type. Healthy, wholesome, fit/athletic, cute, feminine, fun loving, a little bit shy and demure, yet also bold and adventurous. She's smart, witty, funny, tender, caring, open minded, inquisitive, independent, and knows her own mind. She is no door mat or slave and will not put up with disrespect. She can be elegant or casual. She might enjoy backpacking or gardening but can also look outstanding in a swim suit or a dinner gown.

So, no June Cleaver/Stepford wives for me. But no tattooed, pierced, weird haired, edgy, ultra-femininist, neoliberals.

[Apple1996]

The photos is just what came up when I googled traditional and modern women.

[Lliam]

I hear you, Apple.
Isn't it weird what they showed you when you googled? The "traditional" woman looks like she's from the 1950s. And the "modern" woman looks like a girl, not a woman. But at least they didn't portray the modern woman the way some female performers and much of media does.

[Jjpayne]

A modern girl because it's simply fun to just relax... I think traditional girls have way too much standards to meet and untold. Modern girls are chill and just plain honest with themselves and with you.

Traditional girls I feel are ready with makeup on in the early morning, modern girls sleep in a t-shirt and underwear, sleep in, enjoy a sloppy bowl of cereal and even fart in front of you. They are just more comfortable and honest rather than tense with rules to follow. That's how I view it anyway 🤔

[jgokgotit]

Definitely a traditional woman, no competition there. However, I want her to have the ability to work should I need a helping hand. Also, my definition of a traditional woman is slightly different. To me a traditional woman is primarily a housewife but does have the skills and ability to work a job when I am struggling. Also, whether she is at home or a job, she is my equal. I view her with respect and appreciation, no matter what role she is in. When most people think of a traditional woman, they think of a woman who never leaves the house and just does everything the man tells her. I do not take that view.

[Reaperbot666]

• ideally a woman who is a blend but with more traditional values. for relationships and family. while dressing in a more traditional female manner.
• so roughly 70-80% traditional vs 20-30% modern as a blend.
• asked something similar in the past "would you rather date/marry a modern feminist woman or a traditional woman" link below
• Guys, would you rather date/marry a modern feminist woman or a traditional woman?

[COMMODOREII]

I like my modern girl better.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.themarysue.com/science-women-viking-warriors/amp/
Evidence that proves that women were a part of the warriors as well as free themselves and not a slave to "traditional" living.

[ronny212]

I choose traditional because all she looking for is her right man and mostly go by personality and not by if he is rich or not and if it doesn't work out she would leave without taking half his stuff and break him down she stays there with him no matter what they go though and mordern i would pick if there where less of y'all trying to get in the man pockets and break up with him over the smallest thing and take away everything he owns

[Bananaman177]

Tomboys.

[NutzBoltz]

i've been married 8 years now to a traditional woman. she's really reserved. doesn't like me to see her naked.. won't have sex with the lights on.. won't wear a sundress with no panties. always got to have a bra on won't talk dirty or have group sex, thank god I've grown out of all that boyish behavior.. but if i was 28 instead of 48 modern for sure

[Apple1996]

Interesting I would say I'm traditional but definitely not reserved like that

[ShortCircuit]

It depends on what you mean by "traditional" and what you mean by "modern". I really can't answer the question without more clarification.

[Apple1996]

Traditional like expects guys to pay for dates, wants kids and to be married.
Modern like feminist, has a career, doesn't want kids or marriage

[ShortCircuit]

Then I guess I want neither.

Your definition of "traditional" is a deal-breaker because it's sexist to expect men to pay for dates purely because they have penises, and I don't want kids.

Your definition of "modern" is a deal-breaker because I would rather kick a wall with a toothpick under my toenail than date a feminist, and I do want to get married.

[Daniel3035]

You should've just asked "would you date a traditional girl" because there's no chance in dating modern girls they just like to play games.
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9ctsJZ2aD1nCexfqj342NQ

[convo_king89]

A little bit of both would be nice shy and modest, but modern enough to how how to look cute..

so like shy and modest meaning she wears regular cotton panties because dirty and slutty wear a skimpy thong but modern she can do her hair and wear an outfit that looks good.

I guess it sounds like the girl next door. I’d be happy with jeans and a t shirt.

[motownplayer2000]

A mix as far as characteristics. But modern in the way of ideal. I like a woman that works for hers, isn’t dependent on a man for everything. Is actually a go getter. I like a woman that’s not afraid to chase and go after a man. And likes to have sex for herself and not just because her partner likes it... so more modern but traditional in the sense that she is wants a man and she wants to be with her man!

[Yads_Is_Back]

A lot of men prefer us traditional women, but the issue is when they want to treat us like we are feminazis. We’re traditional and I can see why they like it but we aren’t doormats or people who will tolerate disrespect.

[Paint4blood]

It's not about men wanting to dominate women in traditional marriages, it's not wanting her to go out and create her own burdens but instead share in carrying, and sharing in the benefits, of mine.

[Yads_Is_Back]

@Paint4blood Yes 👍🏼

[ohshee]

Someone with out a label if there has to be one it would be Happy

[Apple1996]

I dont think anyone labels themselves these things but it just happens that they'll fall into one of these categories

[Apple1996]

But I get what you mean. Being happy is the best thing someone can be

[ohshee]

Yes for sure it's the only way to be then you can be anything you at any given moment

[Definitely]

I'd rather date someone that can make the difference between social conventions and important things. Trends and traditions are nothing more than things to entertain yourself with. Anything less than that, and we're not a good fit

[BeenThereLovedIt]

Modern in the sense of having her own mind, freewill, and hopefully a college degree. I personally HATE when women become dependent on me, it's responsibility I'd rather not have. I'm not her parents or her caretaker.

[Anonymous]

Maybe an amalgamation of the two. I don't care if she's modern so long as she has traditional roots, if that makes any sense. I mean think of it along these lines. You women might be ok to make concessions when you like a guy but at the end of the day you still want to know he's a man. I guess it's the same thing. I still want to know she has a heart, can nurture.

[0112358]

I’m actually okay with either as long as they pull their own weight. What I’m not okay with is lazy partners who pick and choose the privileges but bit responsibilities of each.

[StephenCF]

Traditional, but not in every way. To mostly be an elegant lady in terms of dress and manners, but not avoid doing fun things or laughing at dark humour for being “unladylike” 💃🏻💄