Guys, would you rather date a traditional or modern girl?

Question

Just wondering what guys prefer

ThomasTKay · Accepted Answer

Traditional. In all ways, please. I like the natural untouched beauty of a woman. I hate fake and I hate the fashion/aesthetics industry. I'd be with a normal girl without makeup, and all the fake eyelashes, fake boobs, shaved/waxed pubic hair, excessive hair styles, and clothing any day. Give me someone not into fads and pop culture who is down to earth, kind, intelligent, who thinks for herself, is self confident, and real. Someone who I can carry on conversations with, be best friends and equals with, someone who is into motherhood, traditional gender specific roles, and is in general a good God fearing woman.

Grond21 · Accepted Answer

If I had to choose between the two, traditional. But what I would really like is a more traditional relationship but with a woman who is ambitious and very involved in the world

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Give me a traditional woman with intelligence and a bit of cuteness!

Lliam · Answer

I found the extreme examples depicted in the photos disgusting.
I like a girl next door type. Healthy, wholesome, fit/athletic, cute, feminine, fun loving, a little bit shy and demure, yet also bold and adventurous. She's smart, witty, funny, tender, caring, open minded, inquisitive, independent, and knows her own mind. She is no door mat or slave and will not put up with disrespect. She can be elegant or casual. She might enjoy backpacking or gardening but can also look outstanding in a swim suit or a dinner gown.

So, no June Cleaver/Stepford wives for me. But no tattooed, pierced, weird haired, edgy, ultra-femininist, neoliberals.

Jjpayne · Answer

A modern girl because it's simply fun to just relax... I think traditional girls have way too much standards to meet and untold. Modern girls are chill and just plain honest with themselves and with you.

Traditional girls I feel are ready with makeup on in the early morning, modern girls sleep in a t-shirt and underwear, sleep in, enjoy a sloppy bowl of cereal and even fart in front of you. They are just more comfortable and honest rather than tense with rules to follow. That's how I view it anyway 🤔

jgokgotit · Answer

Definitely a traditional woman, no competition there. However, I want her to have the ability to work should I need a helping hand. Also, my definition of a traditional woman is slightly different. To me a traditional woman is primarily a housewife but does have the skills and ability to work a job when I am struggling. Also, whether she is at home or a job, she is my equal. I view her with respect and appreciation, no matter what role she is in. When most people think of a traditional woman, they think of a woman who never leaves the house and just does everything the man tells her. I do not take that view.

Reaperbot666 · Answer

ideally a woman who is a blend but with more traditional values. for relationships and family. while dressing in a more traditional female manner. so roughly 70-80% traditional vs 20-30% modern as a blend. asked something similar in the past "would you rather date/marry a modern feminist woman or a traditional woman" link below

COMMODOREII · Answer

I like my modern girl better.  Evidence that proves that women were a part of the warriors as well as free themselves and not a slave to "traditional" living.

ronny212 · Answer

I choose traditional because all she looking for is her right man and mostly go by personality and not by if he is rich or not and if it doesn't work out she would leave without taking half his stuff and break him down she stays there with him no matter what they go though and mordern i would pick if there where less of y'all trying to get in the man pockets and break up with him over the smallest thing and take away everything he owns

Bananaman177 · Answer

Tomboys.

NutzBoltz · Answer

i've been married 8 years now to a traditional woman. she's really reserved. doesn't like me to see her naked.. won't have sex with the lights on.. won't wear a sundress with no panties. always got to have a bra on won't talk dirty or have group sex, thank god I've grown out of all that boyish behavior.. but if i was 28 instead of 48 modern for sure

ShortCircuit · Answer

It depends on what you mean by "traditional" and what you mean by "modern". I really can't answer the question without more clarification.

Daniel3035 · Answer

You should've just asked "would you date a traditional girl" because there's no chance in dating modern girls they just like to play games.

convo_king89 · Answer

A little bit of both would be nice shy and modest, but modern enough to how how to look cute..

so like shy and modest meaning she wears regular cotton panties because dirty and slutty wear a skimpy thong but modern she can do her hair and wear an outfit that looks good.

I guess it sounds like the girl next door. I’d be happy with jeans and a t shirt.

motownplayer2000 · Answer

A mix as far as characteristics. But modern in the way of ideal. I like a woman that works for hers, isn’t dependent on a man for everything. Is actually a go getter. I like a woman that’s not afraid to chase and go after a man. And likes to have sex for herself and not just because her partner likes it... so more modern but traditional in the sense that she is wants a man and she wants to be with her man!

Yads_Is_Back · Answer

A lot of men prefer us traditional women, but the issue is when they want to treat us like we are feminazis. We’re traditional and I can see why they like it but we aren’t doormats or people who will tolerate disrespect.

ohshee · Answer

Someone with out a label if there has to be one it would be Happy

Definitely · Answer

I'd rather date someone that can make the difference between social conventions and important things. Trends and traditions are nothing more than things to entertain yourself with. Anything less than that, and we're not a good fit

BeenThereLovedIt · Answer

Modern in the sense of having her own mind, freewill, and hopefully a college degree. I personally  HATE  when women become dependent on me, it's responsibility I'd rather not have. I'm not her parents or her caretaker.

Anonymous · Answer

Maybe an amalgamation of the two. I don't care if she's modern so long as she has traditional roots, if that makes any sense. I mean think of it along these lines. You women might be ok to make concessions when you like a guy but at the end of the day you still want to know he's a man. I guess it's the same thing. I still want to know she has a heart, can nurture.

StephenCF · Answer

Traditional, but not in every way. To mostly be an elegant lady in terms of dress and manners, but not avoid doing fun things or laughing at dark humour for being “unladylike” 💃🏻💄

Shamalien · Answer

The men who say modern r str8 up simps looking to be validated

0112358 · Answer

I’m actually okay with either as long as they pull their own weight. What I’m not okay with is lazy partners who pick and choose the privileges but bit responsibilities of each.

Slim57 · Answer

Traditional for sure, who wants someone who doesn't feel like they need someone else? Not that anyone NEEDS anyone but it's good to be wanted mutually between each other and have a little bit of dependability between each other as well in my opinion

chriscdi · Answer

modern but its hard to find a good modern girl worth your time nowadays

ThiccBoai · Answer

Modern. A strong girl who can take care of herself. That way we can both take care of each other. I also like equality so like to keep things balanced

MissDawn7961 · Answer

I voted this way for I am a traditional woman and have no problems getting asked out by men or having men show an interest in me either

blank_expression · Answer

I seem to get modern girls easily for the short term and I would possibly settle with a traditional one long term.

MysteriousDarkness · Answer

What do you me by a traditional woman?  What do you mean by a modern woman?

On_the_other_hand · Answer

A modern girl that likes the male/female roles in our relationship.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

I'm not sure what you mean about traditional in what context? As long she is a Godly Christian woman, submissive, sweet, smart, honest and a cool person then I'm all in.

Steve37 · Answer

I like some aspects of both. I really like a girl who isn't threatened by traditional roles but that doesn't mean I want her to strictly adhere to traditional roles. But, a woman who enjoys cooking for us will win my heart every time.

SjE78 · Answer

whoever has a good personality and whether we both click

JackSmy · Answer

How about a Modern, EQUAL lady, that sometimes likes some of the Old, Traditional things?

Oram52 · Answer

Definitely modern, independent ambitious. No feminists or woke women though, depending on what exactly is meant by modern here.

sensible27 · Answer

I like unpredictability and that doesn't seem traditional.

rudramishra · Answer

I would prefer to date a traditional girl (moreover Indian) as girls here waer lenga or Saare and it very good to strip their traditional dress

Guanfei · Answer

I'd say more traditional but with some modern. BY traditional I don't mean a submissive girl, or a servant. Just with traditional values.

Don-_-Don · Answer

If modern is anything that I'm thinking right now then I will take traditional in a heartbeat.

SeanshterMonster · Answer

I like a mix. Traditional as in doing thing like dating and stuff like that but modern too. Someone who is at least kind and sweet and a nerd. Lol

bamesjond0069 · Answer

Traditional only. I dont understand what a modern woman is good for except for having a pussy. No need to be in a relationship with them.

Schizoaffective · Answer

It is a preference and like everything else relative. I don't think one is better than the other or has more value in general.

007kingifrit · Answer

traditional girls are easier to get along with. these sjw women have so many hangups, neuroses and get offended so easily

Surely · Answer

Put the two in a blender and throw in a little Tom Boy!

AlwaysBelieving · Answer

I'd say more traditional than modern. Unless you want to get into specifics.

GreenGold1992 · Answer

I could go for either, but mostly the traditional girl

nousername26 · Answer

Modern, with touches of class about her. No self-respecting man wants a tramp.

imfreeze95 · Answer

I would prefer traditional VALUES but modern in terms of being self reliant and self sufficient. Not to mention being able to have her own career

Anonymous · Answer

Traditional all the way, but not afraid to speak her mind.

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

Modernized traditional girl. Like she maybe traditional but understands modern society. I mean't she's less judgmental about modern stuff.

DatKidWood · Answer

A modern girl is more apt to jave a three- some however she probably won't cook as often. ... idunno thats a great question I wonder how the poll ends up being on this.

JamesBlackDragon · Answer

A mixture of both don't want to date a woman that's a doormat and will let me get away with anything

jshm2 · Answer

That is rather sexist and small minded of you to assume those female tropes.  Just as men need to a lot of things these days, so do women.

ThreeSheetsToTheWind · Answer

Modern, but I wouldn't rule out dating a traditional girl.

bigdaddyupnorth · Answer

She would more than likely help me get things done, like cleaning, cooking and yard work - modern women want to do nothing but their own thing

Anonymous · Answer

Traditional for sure. I love a classy lady in a dress. I prefer women to wear traditional full coverage panties too. No thongs or boy shorts

beefy40 · Answer

A traditional woman, life is way easier without the guessing games.

Gokutifu · Answer

I'd rather date a traditional women with class and dosent involve herself in the media

Yellovv · Answer

Doesn't really matter for me both, if she is beautiful and attractive that's enough for me..

larry69 · Answer

Give me the modern girl who loves sex.

FearlessGoat · Answer

Traditional. Modern women are getting outta hand

ItsTheNephilim · Answer

Somewhere in between; a balance of the two.

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