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What is more important, looks or personality?

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  • Regmorus
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    Yoda Age: 41 , mho 45%
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    Looks f course.

    Can you see their personality? No you can't. Can you touch it? No you can't. What good is it? It can't be monetized in any way. But if they have looks they can go on this fan-something-website and make money.

    The personality is a thing of the past. Seriously it was a fashion to have good personality in 18-th or 19-th century. But now it is completely outdated. We are progressive people, mind you. All intelligent and justly entitled to being trash because we want to be trash. It is our freedom and no one must ever try to take it away from us! Freedom of self-identification, of speech and of choosing own morals.

    This is a great accomplishment of our civilization! F. God, F. ancestors. Religion and common sense try to impose on us this "personality-thing", but we we are better than that! We are wise and intelligent enough to see right through their scheme meant to take away our freedom of living life and dealing with people how we want and in a way that is fun for us.

    Personality is really worth nothing, it's a tale of these dumb religious people and survivors from times when dinosaurs roamed the Earth that actually don't have a place anymore on in our society. You know, right, the planet is overpopulated, so we have to kill some. They are good candidates, these people who don't support the modern views like Flexibility Of Morals, Simplistic Culture (Hah? Why think about something that is meant for entertainment, enjoy!, we are progressive people, who know what is good for us).

    Sorry I got carried away a bit 😅 So, looks is the indicator of worth of the person. For we live to have fun, and the best fun and the most rewarding experience in life is sex! So worth of people ought to be measured by their looks, because looks indicate how good they are at sex. Simple, ha? You get the logic, right?

    And these morons who think otherwise, heh. They are just underdeveloped neanderthals. We are progressive people who know their worth too well! Ingnorance is strength! War is peace! Freedom is slavery! Love is sex! As one taught us.

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    • Regmorus
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      *correction: "we are progressive people who know their own worth too well" should be replaced by "We are progressive people who know their own worth too well"

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    • Regmorus
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      Oh my God that was chosen as SO 🤦‍♂️🤦‍♀️ I don't really think the Bot got it..

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  • MrCommodore
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    Guru Age: 43 , mho 45%
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    849 opinions shared on Dating topic.

    Both are important.

    Initially looks are important in developing a physical attraction, and some physical attraction is necessary for a healthy long-term sex life.

    Personality attraction is important for maintaining a lifelong relationship, as it creates a special bond.

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  • jennifer_bloom
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    Personality is more important - looks is just to make somebody kissable and entertaining while a good personality means they won’t hit you or cheat on you or divorce you if you get a terminal illness or yell at you 90 times a day during dinner

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  • roody
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    Personality!
    only liking someone’s looks is essentially just lust. Once you’ve slept with them, there’s no where else for your relationship to go. but if you like their personality you’ll enjoy time together and often stay together longer.

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  • novembersierra
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    Xper 2 Age: 34 , mho 52%
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    Let's accept that we look for the appearance at the first sight but after that if someone has not a good personality, his/her beauty will be more repulsive day by day.

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  • girlinher20s
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    Xper 4 Age: 29 , mho 54%
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    Both but personality is much more important. As long as the person is groomed and has good hygeine that is lol you want to look like you take care of yourself

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  • BCA6010
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    976 opinions shared on Dating topic.

    Can't be completely lacking in either case. Looks are more important for getting started, but personality is more important for making it last, especially since looks will inevitably diminish later in life.

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  • jenna92
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    Xper 5 Age: 33 , mho 33%
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    Looks attract you, personality keeps you around 😁😁😁

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    • OutdoorsForLife
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      Truth

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  • SelflessMe
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    Equally important to have someone you're
    attracted to as well as being able to stand
    their presence.

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  • On_the_other_hand
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    Yoda Age: 66 , mho 41%
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    591 opinions shared on Dating topic.

    I don't think the guys on dating apps with great personalities are the ones getting all the gals.

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  • Creamernick1
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    Personality. I've seen so many people who get so much less attractive as soon as their open their mouths haha

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  • Koalamate
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    Looks are the attraction personality is the reason you stay.

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  • Wise4myage
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    12K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    For me, Its a combination of the two. Looks attract two people to each other, their personalities bond them together.

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  • Bhavin2184
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    Yoda Age: 28
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    Looks matters more than personality
    Because initial attraction is first step.
    Without looks you won't reach the first step.

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  • Dchrls78104
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    Personality! When looks fade, personality is all you have left to deal with.

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  • anirrelevantgirl
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    Xper 3 Age: 21
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    looks is what gets you interested. personality what keeps that interest going

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    • anirrelevantgirl
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      lets say there's two people. one is very attractive, has an amazing personality that you like. the other isn't so much attractive to u, but has a great personality just like the other. you will more than likely pick the one that has the good looks

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  • Anonymous
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    Personality. Looks fade with time. Though saying that, in my honest opinion, my man seems to have gotten more handsome and sexy with age. He was gorgeous when we first met but it seems like lately he's gotten PHWOAR. I am one lucky lady.

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  • TacosRAwesome
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    Personality. As long as you look presentable personality is what gets you places.

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  • Gedaria
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    Personality. Looks are ok for the meet but it's personality that keeps it going...

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  • Shyguy206
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    Personality. If she's attractive but is a bitch then I'm out

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  • Dazed0N0Confused
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    Yoda Age: 30 , mho 40%
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    480 opinions shared on Dating topic.

    Personality, I've met plenty of people who get less attractive once they start talking.

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  • iambae
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    Xper 5 Age: 34 , mho 33%
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    Looks of course. You can't make love to someone's personality.

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  • TheAfrikan
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    Yoda Age: 34
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    837 opinions shared on Dating topic.

    Personally personality makes a person look good.

    And looks won't bring in good personality.

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  • lucky-guy
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    Xper 5 Age: 34
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    Well there has to be a physical attraction to make you fancy them, but personality keeps me in love with someone

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  • mrgspoter
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    Yoda Age: 42
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    Both are one can make up for the outher but both it's awesome

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  • AlwaysBelieving
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    2.2K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    "Looks get you in the front door, personality gets you to stay awhile."

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  • ItsTheNephilim
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    They both are very important.

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  • Anonymous
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    Obviously main thing is personality but looks do matter as well. How about you?

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  • es20490446e
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    Master Age: 38
    +1 y
    5K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    Looks attracts, personality keeps.

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  • Barry88
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    Yoda Age: 38
    +1 y

    Personality is more important than looks.

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  • 8lutty
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    Xper 5 Age: 29
    +1 y

    look if u are looking for job, dating.., personality for AFTER u married

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  • zagor
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    10.9K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    Personality, in the end. Looks, in the beginning.

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  • Siavash_1990
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    Explorer Age: 35
    +1 y

    Looks at first then personality

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  • asshole_
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    Yoda Age: 37
    +1 y

    you ever seen the movie "shallow hal"?

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    • ChiTown33
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      A Farrelly brothers movie. And one of their few flop. Ever wonder why? Humans don't like a mirror being held up to them and showing them how shallow the actually are.
      Case in point watch this questions outcome. You'll hear person after person proudly state that personality is what matters most even though the data clearly suggests otherwise.

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    • asshole_
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      that's what's supposed to not happen

      thats why shallow hal was made. looks, shouldn't matter

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  • Anonymous
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    Clearly it's looks. Lol

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  • Thebeastsbeauty
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    Xper 4 Age: 29
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    Personality but looks are a factor

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  • hopegirly
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    Xper 7 Age: 25 , mho 33%
    +1 y

    personality for sure

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  • Cryptic-Game
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    +1 y
    1.4K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    Her personality is far more important.

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  • pocketman
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    Xper 6 Age: 31
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    Looks

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  • Hispanic-Cool-Guy
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    5.4K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    Definitely both.

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  • GreenGold1992
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    3.7K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    both equally

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  • crmoore
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    Guru Age: 31
    +1 y
    960 opinions shared on Dating topic.

    Personality

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  • dudeinohio
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    Master Age: 61
    +1 y
    6K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    Personality

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  • bravehheartt
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    Xper 2 Age: 28
    +1 y

    Both are important.

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  • _DARKNESS_
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    Xper 6 Age: 27
    +1 y

    Personality~

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  • Anonymous
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    Looks.

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  • Lomond
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    Xper 2 Age: 46
    +1 y

    Tits.

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  • gandolph3
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    Yoda Age: 74
    +1 y

    personality

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  • Unstoppable20
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    Xper 6 Age: 38
    +1 y

    Personality for me.

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