Will you marry to the person who slept with her ex boyfriend?

[waytorohit]

I am in love with a person and she loves me too but she slept with her ex just 2 days ago even after telling that please don't sleep with him. First she said that I won't give my body to him but she slept. Now I am feeling weird knowing that she slept with someone else. it's just in my mind all the time I don't know what to do. Please give some suggestions?

[ScottSummers]

Man she have zero respect for you or what you think. Actions speak louder than the words, she says she loves you but she sleeps with her ex? No lol she doesn't loves you at all. Ditch her. And iam sorry but i have to leave this here. Find another girl who at least respects you.

[waytorohit]

Don't know what to do I am totally feeling fucked up

[sensible27]

Did she actually care about how you felt? I sort of doubt it.

[sensible27]

And if she doesn't and you still stay with her, you might be desperate.

[waytorohit]

She is telling me she loves me and just crying in emojis. I told her many times just don't do sex but she didn't cared and didn't used any precautions

[waytorohit]

It's just stucked in my mind that she fucked

[Marilynjuana]

@waytorohit Mate, hell to the no. Like another poster stated, ditch her. She is no good for you.

[sensible27]

Caring only makes you weak, if you give other people 'power' they're gonna abuse it I guess...

[waytorohit]

@sensible27 yes you are right

[sensible27]

And if you aren't gonna listen to this, at least hold her accountable. I doubt I have much more to add to this.

[waytorohit]

She told me I never have fun in my life so I did lol

[sensible27]

By doing what lol?

[waytorohit]

She never had sex in life so she did

[sensible27]

I'm not getting what you're saying but okay, she was your girl friend right? Secondly, maybe, just maybe you need to move on.

[waytorohit]

We just love each other and planning for living in future

[sensible27]

Sure dude, whatever you say. But I doubt these sort of things just happen to happen out of the blue, these are signs for maybe something bigger, she doesn't actually care about how you feel. She didn't consider how you'd feel, secondly did she tell you herself or did you find out?

[waytorohit]

She told herself when I asked

[sensible27]

You need to say more, what did you ask?

[waytorohit]

I asked her did you fucked with him she said yes and I some other questions too like did you used precautions she said no

[sensible27]

But how did you figure she did? If she told you herself maybe but if you 'forced it' out of her maybe not.

[waytorohit]

I knew she will do this and she can't hide this herself because I already told her please don't do sex because this was the 2nd time she did

[waytorohit]

She has answer of everything like my past was not good, cuz I am human blah blah to prove that it was not bad at all

[sensible27]

People care or they don't, I doubt the 'past' has much to do with it and I'm not really sure you should be her rehab.

[waytorohit]

Should I give her one last chance?

[sensible27]

Dude, why can't you just find someone else if you even have to?

[waytorohit]

Bro finding someone spending time with her it's so hard bro I spent 3 years with her and the result is zero its just totally a waste of time better i should focus on my goals.

[sensible27]

And that is why people are selective with who they date and... trust... Ok? Maybe learn and move on.

[Alivegirlll]

She doesn't care about your thoughts and feelings. You're in a toxic relationship that makes you trust a random gag member more than you trust the person who 'loves you'. Now, It shouldn't be hard to decide what to do.

[MrMilti]

You told her, not to do it and she did it anyways. So in the end, she does not care at all, if she is hurting you.

Get the hell out of there, she will keep hurting you on every occasion.

[chihuahua011]

That's a huge no no. Like I would dump her right away. Doesn't matter if I love her or not, that's just disrespectful.

[ItsTheNephilim]

Ditch her.