Would you marry a girl that dated a guy while she was separated from her ex-husband?

[Anonymous]

4 years ago, she started dating a guy she met in Med School before divorcing her husband. Then she divorced him and continued to date the new guy.

4 years later she says she regrets it

would you date a girl like this and potentially marry her

[Explorer91]

I knew a girl from highschool. She dated a guy for 5 years. The last year of their relo (yes a whole year) she started dating a new guy. This new guy new she was still in a relo (and living with her boyfriend) but dated her anyway. Maybe the new guy didn't care at the time because thought it was just sex. BUT then a year after sex and fling with this new guy she breaks up with her boyfriend and dates the new guy. I thought omg he is never going to actually go into a relo with her. He does. Then I thought surely it won't last. then it does. And then I thought surely he won't wife this woman. Then he does. And they are married now and appear happy.

[SugarSugarplum]

I think it's slimy to date during a separation. Only death and divorce free you up for dating.

[DextroShade]

It would depend on the circumstances of the separation and divorce: if she left her husband for a good reason like he was beating her, not providing, being a drug addict or alcoholic, or going to prison then I would be okay with it; if she left because she "wasn't happy", got "bored", or "irreconcilable differences" then I would never take her seriously lest she do the same to me.

[MrOracle]

What you are describing is a cheater. Clearly she doesn't respect her sacred oath and has major moral and boundary issues. The best predicter of future behavior is past behavior.

[Billlewis]

Sure. Why not?

[DishLady]

No… why attach yourself permanently to a cheater?

[Anonymous]

What would be the problem there?

[Libarena]

I hope so.

[Anonymous]

Nope