Girls, Do girls want to meet guys these days or is it always a safety concern or lack of interest?

[Anonymous]

I’m getting tired of dating apps and if any girl spends beyond one year talking to guys online I’m sorry to be blunt but that’s a douche bag move. If you don’t tell a guy you have no interest then he shouldn’t be toyed with. As socioeconomic issues get worse, people’s personalities tend to be getting uglier and more me-centric. I wish people were more genuine these days.

[Lizzzzz288283]

We always have our guards up for safety because we honestly have to as women. it’s really scary out there. I’m starting to lose interest in meeting guys in person from dating apps just because the majority of them look for one night stands, which is something I’m really not interested in.

[Asker]

But that’s the thing I’m not looking for one night stand. Now of course in my male mind if I see her on a date I would be like “wow she’s beautiful I want to have sex with her” but I wouldn’t say it. Even if that means I go on 10 dates before anything like that happens. I want to have a relationship and let it grow to becoming something in marriage.

[Lizzzzz288283]

Maybe make that very clear before you hang out that you don’t just want a one night stand