Do girls’ really want relationships these days or do they just like the thought of a relationship?

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I been back on the market and it seems every girl I have met so far, claims they want a long lasting relationship but really they don’t , they want a relationship based on their terms.

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

There ARE women with more traditional values out there, but no question, they are in the minority. The majority have been so indoctrinated by radical Feminism - often my their own mothers - and are even more radicalized in college - that they simply aren't suitable relationship material.

Too many think they are going to get a top 0.1% man and think that anyone else is "below average" - and they don't have any idea how demanding such a man would be even if she could attract one. Most women are so busy trying to compete with men that they have no femininity to offer a man, and men do not value or assign any points to education, degrees, careers, status, or income. Most women falsely believe that these things make them more attractive as a relationship partner, but if anything, the opposite is true. A man doesn't want a competition at home, he wants peace.

Gen-Z women are already more than 50% single and that percentage is growing across the board. More than half of Gen-Z women will not have children, which will be devastating for them personally and for the world generally. I will likely be gone before it gets crazy bad, but the world is being depopulated, and that means a lot fewer consumers to buy anything, which means fewer jobs and ESPECIALLY fewer inside office jobs. The jobs that will continue to be in demand will be infrastructure jobs - the difficult, dirty, out-in-the-weather jobs - because there will be a massive shortage of those workers and without them, the infrastructure will collapse. And these are not the jobs that AI or robots can really do.

People don't have a clue what is coming, but there will also be a huge collapse of government services, because the tax base is going to be halved just to start, and the number of older people who are retired and not earning but using services will be far higher per paying worker.

People who have no children to help them in old age are going to be absolutely screwed. I suspect it will become common for people to starve to death in Western countries, something we haven't seen in 100 years. The standard of living is going to fall in a big way. Buying (used) homes will be cheaper, but maintaining them is going to be ungodly expensive, because the number of men in the trades is going to drop way off. The local handyman is going to be booked out a year and people will have to get used to having no hot water for months at a time, or having their car down for a year waiting on a mechanic.

Most people are not paying attention at all - and there is no quick fix for population collapse - it takes 80-100 years to recover, assuming nothing else major goes wrong.

Men, I strongly recommend you work on your trade and handyman skills so you can fix your own stuff. That's often going to be your only realistic option, and it will greatly improve your quality of life. Women who are single, I would recommend that you reconsider what it will mean to live without a partner and children during the population collapse that is already coming soon. The ones who reject an 8/10 guy today may well be forced to accept a 3/10 guy in the future to keep yourself from freezing during the winter. If your car breaks and no one is available to fix it, how will you work and be independent? What will you do without electricity at home? Or without clean water.

It's coming like a freight train, and even if it seems like it's a ways off yet, it will be here before you know it.

wysiwyg2525 · Accepted Answer

Both men and women want a relationship on their terms but the odd are in favor of the woman because they tend to control more things due to sex and their body. Let's face it, a woman can go out and get a guy in a little as 1 min or less because she is a woman. As for men they got to work for it. Men these day are getting smart and are giving equal treatment back to women. Another words men are doing what woman do to them for centuries. For example

- cheat
- not paying for dates
- ghosting them
- hid money from them
- have girls as friends
- walk away when things dont go their way
- talking to whoever they want
- being late for dates
- cooking for them instead of wine & dine
- standing up for themselves
Just to name a few.

Men, really do want a relationship but they dont want the drama or spoiled person that's out there. They want women to want to put a 100% in. Every relationship should both be 100%/100%. There is no such thing as 50/50. Why are you putting half effort in to a relationship. When a man or woman days this then they got mixed emotions on you and they dont want to tey more than 50%. Its all in or nothing at all. Men stop think with wats between your legs so, you can actually find a great women and women stop thinking with what between your legs to find someone and control them. It's not what you have between your legs for both men and women it who you are as a person. Find out their characteristics, personality, and features. Get to know them. Women stop thinking of a date as free. Don’t expect to the guy to pay for you on the first date. The way I see it if men have to pay for you every time just to sleep with you then that makes you a sex worker on the streets. Sex to you is not free. Men stop paying for this. Let the women work for you too. No harm on telling them no. When you take sex out of the equation for meeting someone and money then your relationship will be stronger. Right then an only then you will know if it is worth your time to move forward.

LazerBean · Accepted Answer

I would think most people want a relationship based on their terms. I would say most girls still do want relationships, although that number is plummeting.

sage2021 · Accepted Answer

Having a relationship only based on their terms or only on yours is ridiculous! What ever happened to 50/50?

Summeroflove · Answer

All women are different… and at your age many women in your age bracket who are worth marrying are taken. There are some like you… Who have been divorced for reasons outside their control or widowed who aren’t bad people. As well as people who have matured.

Many people are extremely entitled some people just don’t realize the way they are and others don’t care while others are just completely narcissistic. You have to have standards and a filter… Because standards have to go both ways.

There is a difference between… Having standards and wanting someone whose compatible. Verses someone whose narcissistic, one sided, and very entitled. It’s important to find someone that you could build a future with. Someone who will love you and someone that you can build a strong connection with. Having standards isn’t a bad thing and being honest about them is important as well. Not to waste someone else’s time.

You have to notice manipulation tactics such as one extreme of future faking and the other of rushing a relationship. Many people will be in a relationship with someone they don’t want to be with long term because in the short term it’s benefiting themselves… They will talk as if they eventually want to level up the relationship whether that’s becoming exclusive or in exclusive relationships engagement as well as marriage. But they never do… That is a red flag. It’s a also a red flag if someone’s trying to rush you into marriage within a year sometimes less.

Actions speak louder then words. If someone’s telling you one thing and doing another. If they won’t be honest. Leave… Don't waste your own time on people who don’t matter and invest in people who don’t deserve it. Because there are people that do…

egan3141 · Answer

"They want a relationship based on their terms." Welcome to humans, when we want something, we want THAT something, not something else.

DonaldDarko · Answer

Probably they never did or they wouldn't have kicked men to the curb as soon as the government stepped in and started supporting them. We might as well accept the facts of the matter.

Twalli · Answer

Some girls are inovecwith the idea of being in a relationship, but not with the person.

LongLiveBillGates · Answer

If you're not a loser it should be easy for you to find a girl to fuck.

BarryLiverstone · Answer

They want to feel safe and accomplished. That’s found in a long term relationship where both people are communicating and growing. Girls want that and their terms are 70%

khyalove26 · Answer

I’m a girl and I want a relationship and am actively like searching but that’s just me

Alex-Snow · Answer

I think most want some kind of attachment or commitment

Hellraiser1984 · Answer

They want $$$ sex and no attachments. When they're done with you they move on to the next one.

user4477388 · Answer

Just the thought of a relationship they want someone to spend money and they want to be single moms with their ex on the outside looking in

Anonymous · Answer

Just like men, some of them do, some of them don't.

WhitneySnow · Answer

What are their terms?

NathanDavis · Answer

with me, yes...

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

Depends on the doll.

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