Why do girls want relationships instead of hookups?

[Anonymous]

It seems when i go on a date with a girl its always for a relationship.

Im just trying to have sex, im not trying to have a whole girlfriend

[MrOracle]

You are a guy, and as a guy, you can have sex without getting emotionally attached to the girl. Most girls cannot do that - even if they try to have casual sex, they get attached, and then when the guy doesn't feel the same, they get emotionally hurt.

Of the girls who are exceptions to this rule, most of them experienced some kind of trauma or abuse when they were young that impacted their emotional development - even a divorce at a young age can cause these issues. Another cause is simply running up their body count until their pair-bonding ability is gone.

The point is that most women aren't looking for casual sex, so if you want to find the ones who are, you will need to be upfront about your intentions. Obviously this will reduce your potential pool of partners, but on the plus side you won't have to deal with a crying girl who really thought the two of you had a connection.

It also helps to "shop" where such women tend to be - bars, clubs, and Tinder.

[Asker]

usually im not upfront about my intentions, but i will try to be

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

Sounds like you might be looking in the wrong places for that type of companionship, if you wanna call it that. Most women want a guy that's going to stick around. What if somebody accidentally gets pregnant?

[Avicenna]

You need to go where the trashy onesxare (cough, Tinder)

[Asker]

im looking for the sluts, so thats maybe where i got to go

[CountryTJstar]

Zach my friend, you’re not pursuing the right women for you.

There are a lot of women that don’t want relationships and yes there are also women that just want sex sometimes.

I've found as long as I’m honest about what I’m looking for, I find women wanting the same thing.

Buy a book called “Mate” by Tucker Max, Dr Geoffrey Miller, it’s a great bible for men in the dating world.

[Skull_Anon]

Cause if you don't know people don't date if all they want is sex

You have other options for that

[Asker]

so dating is for a relationship not just for sex

[Skull_Anon]

Yes in 99% cases

[ohmyguy]

not really. sure that's accurate.. but.. hooks up lead to. high body counts most men guys dude can't handle a confident experienced female.. our egos break down.. n our confidence is easier to shake up or rock.
man eaters love those guys

[Anonymous]

Go on Tinder for that.

[Anonymous]

Most don't today.

[Jmmmfi4]

PLENTY OF SITES FOR THAT

[Twalli]

They want a husband