How to make a guy 8 years older than me fall in love with me?

[Anonymous]

what older guys want from the younger girls?

[Gwenhwyfar]

How does he treat you?

[Asker]

he treat me nice.. but he seems like does not like to message so he talk less. he talk a lot during the video call

[Gwenhwyfar]

Just because a guy tells you he’s horny doesn’t mean he’s a player

[Asker]

really?

[Gwenhwyfar]

He might be just horny and hitting on you cause you’re the closest available girl

[Gwenhwyfar]

Even a regular guy will do that

[Asker]

does it sounds like he's a player?

[Gwenhwyfar]

No. It doesn’t sound like he’s a player.

[Asker]

what should I do to make him hitting on me even when he's not horny?

[Gwenhwyfar]

You like him like him. So try asking him out on like a virtual date. The horny part can wait till later.

[Asker]

he won't do virtual date because he live with his mom and I won't do either because I live with my family and my internet data is so limited.

I really want him to visit me :( but I don't know how to ask him. and the flight is 11h long without transit. :(

[Gwenhwyfar]

That’s gonna be tough, but u can ask him

[Asker]

would you want to travel that far if you like someone?

[Gwenhwyfar]

Only if I really like them

But tell him you’re into him. Can’t hurt.

[Asker]

I ever told him that I like him , and he smiles. and he ever told me that he likes me..

[Gwenhwyfar]

Awesome 😊

Invite him to visit

[Asker]

ages ago he invited me a few times to visit him. it was stressful. I told him that I can't because I'm still a student. and I invited him as well and he said he can't leave his work.

so since that time we no longer talk about this.

and this semester is my last semester. and I want him to visit me. :/

by the way how do you know if you really like someone?
is it because always think of that person sexually?

[Gwenhwyfar]

Try asking him again

If you think of someone sexually all the time that means you really like them

[Asker]

okay :)

I see..

[Gwenhwyfar]

He sounds great. Have fun 😊.

[Asker]

thanks. and thanks for advice ❤️

[Gwenhwyfar]

Welcome ❤️

[Anonymous]

What I want from younger girls is interest.

[Asker]

I have interested in him. is that enough?

[Asker]

I'm*

[Opinion Owner]

If he knows it; he might be a bit oblivious.

[Asker]

I ever told him that. he might know that because I was often sent him pictures what I did in my daily life

[Opinion Owner]

Is he single?

[Asker]

yes. a divorcee

[Opinion Owner]

Well he might be sour on relationships.

[Asker]

yea... any way to make him change his mind in relationship?

[Opinion Owner]

Be kind and sweet to him; until he can't stand not dating you.

[Asker]

I was always be kind and sweet. and now I'm tired.. :/ my last message, I asked him if he doesn't want to talk to me anymore.. and he didn't answer that and he was only answer my first question if he's busy or not. and he said he is busy a bit. since that time, I didn't reply

[Opinion Owner]

That is unfortunate; maybe you need to move on. And find someone who will appreciate you.

[Asker]

I'm trying to move on... but I really like him..

[Asker]

is that means he really hate to get into relationship?

[Opinion Owner]

It sounds like it.

[Asker]

if he really doesn't want me to text him. why he didn't answer my question.. :/ is it means he wants me to wait for him until he no longer scared to start a new relationship?

[Opinion Owner]

Doubtful. It is more likely that he is ghosting you.

[Asker]

by the way... he was always reply in a short message.. but when we talk on phone, he talk a lot..

[Opinion Owner]

That just means he is a better oral communicator than written communicator.

[Asker]

is that normal?

[Opinion Owner]

Probably, I'm autistic and I'm the exact opposite.

[Asker]

hmmm.. :(

[mich15smith]

you can't make people fall in love with you

[AmeerX]

Just start talking to him and compliment him