How come Men can date a girl and never fall in love?

[Belleevans]

There's a trend where men want one girl to go on dates with, hang with, act like a couple and even say it's a relationship yet never fall in love and can separate his feelings from the relationship. Women however can't, they start to fall in love from getting to know the guy, the romance, hanging out and sex. So how do men do this without deep feelings? Or do men fall in love but deny and hide it from her because he wants his freedom?

[Reaperbot666]

• males tend to take months/years to bond to a female.
• females tend to take weeks/months to bond to a male.
• from what some studies show at least.
• http://pauldavidphd.com/wp-content/uploads/Pair-Bonding.pdf
• https://www.medinstitute.org/articles/pair-bonding-and-the-brain/
• https://www.thetrumpet.com/7750-the-emotional-corrosion-of-casual-sex
• https://www.webmd.com/sex-relationships/news/20131125/how-the-love-hormone-works-its-magic#2
• https://www.psychologicalscience.org/news/releases/a-48-hour-sexual-afterglow-helps-to-bond-partners-over-time.html
• https://www.foxnews.com/opinion/society-is-creating-a-new-crop-of-alpha-women-who-are-unable-to-love

[Belleevans]

If we r so different what's the point? Besides the man getting her pregnant and leaving. What is even the point in humans being together? Too completely different beings. Unlike animals who are either paired or not

[Reaperbot666]

If he values her and she him. A good female can keep a male loyal and honest to her. And some for other way around.

[KrakenAttackin]

Women "fall in love" with what resources a man can offer now and in the future, not the man himself.

[Belleevans]

@KrakenAttackin incorrect. I fell in love with 2 men now who had no job or resources

[SjE78]

who says this tripe? guys feel... guys fall in love... we just have different ways of showing it...
the only guys who dont are narcissists, they only love themselves and are incapable of loving anyone else...

and those women i've loved i've never denied feeling anything so not sure where you get the idea we dont

[domasphuck]

Lust can often overrule any emotions guys have they will fake it for sex and not get attached making it easier to move on when females stop giving sex and want more.

[genericname85]

women can do the same. it's not like emotions are something you can manually turn on or off.

[Anonymous]

We are not biologically programmed to bond that way as easily as women.
Women needed to do this as animals for protection.

[Jltakk]

Trend? Literally never heard of, let alone seen this.

[mich15smith]

they just don't want a commited relationship

[KrakenAttackin]

We have learned how dangerous "love" is.

[authoroftheuniverse]

1 in 2 female murders are at the hands of male intimate partners. We can discuss dangerous if you'd like

[KrakenAttackin]

@authoroftheuniverse Absolutely. Let's talk about how women drive men to suicide, steal their children, steal their livelihood, force them from their homes, have them arrested, etc. Women have worked hard to earn that murder rate.

[Anonymous]

same can be said about women