How to stop stalking your crush online without unfriending or blocking them?

[Anonymous]

If i unfriend or block him then he will talk to me and I don't want his attention at any costs.
I wanna get rid of expecting him to ask me out.

I can't ask him out because I don't want to.
Not because my ego is huge but this guy gave me mixed signals. I don't wanna lose my self respect again.
Just tell me how do I stop my urges to stalk him online? :(

[triff]

This sounds very unsettlingly to have this kind of behaviour aimed at you How is he getting to communicate with after being blocked and unfriended

[Asker]

Phone number and he lives nearby :(

[Asker]

He loves to keep me as a friend. But it hurts me that how he flirted with me before and used to be close but now he has feelings for someone else.

[triff]

You need to block his number or change yours Your not a priority to him and he seems to be making a new life but wants you on the back burner Be strong severe all communications with him for your sake and don't lower yourself to by accepting him back

[Asker]

Yes right.

[triff]

this guy sounds like a bit of user and not making you feel an important person He seems to want you to be his victim gaining control Wearing you down to a low ebb so you end up being available on beck and call