Is it true that creating sexual attraction first is the only way for a woman to want to date you as this article suggests?

[Anonymous]

https://www.themodernman.com/blog/why-do-women-reject-me.html

Yes it’s true

No being a gentleman works as well

[Anonymous]

I've met dozens of women that were not interested in me. But after building attraction that changed over night. It happened again, and again. There have been a few times where this occurred simply from a woman seeing me, or some instant attraction, but that was always the exception.

Also, see that pink that said it's not true? a lot of women don't even realize the man is generating attraction with her.

[Asker]

How do you generate attraction?

[Opinion Owner]

It begins with knowing your own value, and being comfortable in your own skin. The rest comes from teasing, flirting, and presenting yourself as a sexual being as well as a friend, rather than just a friend. However, it's not easy to provide examples because it varies, will involve body language, proximity, eye contact, sometimes touch, and your energy.

If a man hangs with a woman that he sees more than a friend, but only treats her as a friend, then that is how she will see him. It's also dishonest...

[Asker]

Why does teasing seem to work so much?

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe it's the uncertainty of it. What would your response be if the girl you were really into, asked you if she had put on weight? (you notice she really has after looking at her).

[boggboss]

Nooe about as true as any other article out there that gives simple steps to date like dating has ever been simple

[Asker]

So what is the way to a woman’s heart?

[boggboss]

There is no one way its a mixture of her being attracted to you to some degree then having melding personalitys that go together again its not just some simple step thing take a lot of trail and error

[Asker]

Yes everyone is different and there would be trial and error but surely like most things involving humans, there are patterns which you can use to get a general idea.

[boggboss]

No because using somthing as simple as a pattern would be like having a simple one liner that you would approach all women with expecting it to work most women will sence that its somthing you do to multiple as it won't come off organic

[Asker]

A pattern can be a lot more complex than a one liner. The world is full of patterns (some extremely complex).

[Asker]

Also trial and error surely implies a pattern of trial and error works.

[boggboss]

To skme degree there are patterns but its yes but that trail and error is to work out qhat works for you as I could say be funny make conversation and test the waters with how she feels about you but you may not be skilled social to do it or be able to come off as a funny guy

[DavidFox]

Yes there is truth there, but it’s not that simple.

[Posterboy56]

The answer is "no," not "no being a gentleman works as well."

[Wise4myage]

Not true, unless the girl is just looking for a hookup. The sexual attraction part comes later.

[Anonymous]

No it’s not