Have women become undateable these days?

[Italiano312]

A majority of them are so annoying and uptight and have a warped view of feminism that it feels like I’m constantly putting myself at risk during dating

[Yads_Is_Back]

Thankfully you didn't generalize, so thank you for that. Not all women are bad, and not all women are bad.

When you say "a majority," I don't know, but it's a very accurate pattern that people tend to get what they give relationship-wise. That's when both men and women ask questions like this, they've already messed up and are not worthy then want to complain. But you're like the first guy who has posted this who did not generalize as in "all," so you're probably one of the very few on here who has any great social skills.

Aside from that, I'm not gonna speak for the majority of women that you're referring to, like feminists and the like because I'm not part of it. But I will say that for those of us who guys consider worth dating (not to sound stuck up here) and even marrying, well, that gives us a MUCH GREATER wide open field of options, and guys who complain like the ones on this site do obviously won't be in that group of options. Nobody wants a complainer.

So I don't know what kind of women you're around, but I'm just telling you that there are great women out there, and I wish you the best 🙏

[Yads_Is_Back]

And not all men are bad *
Sorry, typo in first sentence

[Shawtyinlove]

Where your trying to help him, or insult him? Men like him need to stop over generalizing, but pretending to help him while casually insulting him probably just adds on to it :/

[Shawtyinlove]

After reading the comments this answer is the most based 😅 so i give u that

[MCheetah]

Mainly, just in the Western world, and just in major cities. There, there only seems to be four kinds of women.

1. Feminists/SJW's/"open relationship" undateable trash.
2. Immature thots/skanks/gold diggers/sugar babies/single mothers, who eventually evolve into the first set.
3. Queer women/lesbians/"bisexuals" (part-time lesbians).
4. Quality women, but off the market by 19 and possibly married.

None of these women are interested in you. The second set may pretend to be, but they only just want your money. The first three also make up the OVERWHELMING majority of women on dating sites and apps over the age of 23. So because of this, yeah, it makes dating seem a futile effort these days.

And not to be one-sided, but a lot of men don't exactly stack up, either. I'm not talking about being an "Alpha male" or owning your own house and car by 23 (and not working labor jobs out in the suburbs, but actually living in the city). I just mean a responsible, decent, caring man who's mentally ready for a relationship. I won't pretend I am that man, 100%, but I at least think I am.

So, I'd argue, yes, many women have become undateable nowadays, but many men have also become soyboys and male feminists, being almost equally undateable, as well. Millennials really are the worst generation, aren't we?

[Kit_Kat88]

What’s wrong with bisexual?

[Anonymous]

Many of them are and at some point they're not worth it. Don't end up with someone who blames men for everything or some nut job feminist. Avoid all leftists.

Let them grow old and bitter. Thank god they won't have any children so they can just fucking die already

[Yads_Is_Back]

They tend to be the ones who get one night stands and still have kids and such with guys higher up. Not relationship material but still come in handy for sex for those top guys.
It’s only the guys at the bottom - the incels - who suffer.

[Opinion Owner]

@Yads_Is_Back The guys on the bottom suffer but I think that some of the girls on the bottom suffer too. If the men are now under the impression that they don't need to have a relationship to have sex then the girls at the bottom who want a relationship will have the most trouble finding a guy and getting a relationship

[Secret6620]

You just need to meet ACTUAL women and not a bunch of needy girls. Women aren't undateable in general. It's guys being too picky and selective as if beggers can be choosers. And usually the overly picky ones have a delusional view of the world and the women in it. If you're at risk. That's due to your own stupidity not because the women YOU selected were inadequate or "undateable"

[Marilynjuana]

If there's a pattern, keep in mind you are the only constant in it. If all the women you meet are so terrible, perhaps the issue lies with you instead. Plenty of wonderful women out there.

[Italiano312]

I haven’t met any that I want to be around for more than an hour

[Marilynjuana]

You don't sound like much fun either. Maybe time to look at the bigger picture.

[bamesjond0069]

he's right. Most women are trashy sluts or hideous looking. Not all not all not all... but about 98% fall into one or both of these categories.

[Marilynjuana]

@bamesjond0069 I wouldn't blame your lack of luck on the ladies, mate. I swing both ways, have dated both men and women. This incel-like mindset is probably something you should look into.

[bamesjond0069]

Its not an incel mindset. Lmao. Girls are TOO easy. When will y'all understand men dont want to be serious with sluts? I just dumped a girl i was dating because she initially had sex with me the first date. Now im already with someone else who gasp had sex with me the first date so its only a short time before i dump her ass too. Im really good looking so my dating life is one slut to the next. And basically i ignore fat girls because im very athletic and good looking so i just can't do that. Ahhh.

[Marilynjuana]

@bamesjond0069 You're either trolling or non-ironically made a massive fool out of yourself lol.

[bamesjond0069]

How did i make a fool out of myself?

[Marilynjuana]

@bamesjond0069 I'm sorry but I don't have the time nor the crayons to try explain something this obvious to someone this ignorant.. Good luck!

[bamesjond0069]

I yet you had time to write all that... hmm.

[Yads_Is_Back]

@Marilynjuana Good point. Well said.
@bamesjond0069 The 2nd-grade conclusion to draw in what she said is that you're basically saying you attract sluts and fat girls because that's what you're around. Good and worthy women tend to want to be around good and worthy men, and neither of those are complainers but both are able to see faults in their own selves. So you proved her point lol again nicely stated chica

[bamesjond0069]

@Yads_Is_Back i attract sluts but that doesn't change the fact most girls are sluts. Even in church i talk to girls and they have tried to sleep with me. I dont even go to bars or places like that!

[Marilynjuana]

He must be joking😂

[Marilynjuana]

I also like the dislikes from men who can’t handle taking responsibility. Oh this site.

[DeltaCharlieEcho]

A vast majority have, yeah. There are still a few unicorns left, but they're few and far between and it's easy to act the part for women; it's easier for them to act like a good person than to genuinely be a good person.

[Avicenna]

There have always been some who are undateable within my dating lifetime, which began when I was 15.

[msc545]

You absolutely ARE putting yourself at terrible risk. Think #metoo, unwanted pregnancy, and false accusations of sexual misconduct.

[Anonymous]

Updateable? No

Unfuckable? No

Unmarriageable? For the most part, yes.

[Dave31989]

Some of the girls these days, my lord, it's like talking to a wall, id rather talk to the wall

[boggboss]

If that is how you feel then yes

[bamesjond0069]

Yeah why date? Just pump and dump them.

[Yads_Is_Back]

No wonder you're an incel 😂

[bamesjond0069]

@Yads_Is_Back what does that even mean?

[REDHOTLINE]

Yes they become selfish and arrogant.

[Kit_Kat88]

You attract bad partners if you have this mindset

[Anonymous]

Nah. You're being way too sensitive.

[In_Trance]

Some of them are, but they've always been that way