Have you ever been contacted by an orbit?

[Lrig93]

Have you ever dated someone and been orbited but then they contacted you out of the blue? Or vice versa?

[caring__1]

I've never had this experience that I know of, but it sounds a lot like stalking. They're staying in contact but not connecting. Sometimes it is because they are shy and have great difficulty making a connection, whereas other times they are using you as a fantasy figure. We don't want to make the fantasy figure real, for then we lose control over the fantasy. If you are interested in the person, and the issue is just shyness, you can make contact and help him feel safe. If all he wants is a fantasy figure, he'll probably still want to remain at a distance.

[BeMuse]

I've been mooned a few times, but no orbits...

[elizamichale1]

you mean someone gets along with you and disappears and come back from nowhere huh? if so then yea this has happened once

[Lrig93]

What happened? Like they don’t contact you but stay on all your socials.

[elizamichale1]

nah they were like completely gone into maybe some other world lol and after a while they were back like crazy and saying they need me so much etc

[Lrig93]

Was this a guy?

[elizamichale1]

Yeah

[elizamichale1]

Thanks for MHO honey

[Gwenhwyfar]

This has never happened to me but I know people it’s happened to

[OlderAndWiser]

No. Are you asking because you had this experience?

[Lrig93]

Read my other question

[naraku]

I have had contacts out of the blue. Sometimes I'd answer sometime's not depending on how things went.
It was never anything big though. Just a brief chat if that.

[Lrig93]

Were they people you dated?

[Lrig93]

*they*

[naraku]

50-50.

Some are ex's some old friends.

[Jjpayne]

Yup, last person I dated, orbited me twice and quickly beamed out shortly after both times

[Sevenpointfive]

as far as i know orbiters are stalkers. steer clear

[Browneye57]

You mean like a planet or what? LOL
What's an 'orbit'?
A beta-orbiter? Those dweebs stuck in your friendzone?

[Iron_Man]

I’ve had girls contact me out of space before it was interesting

[Lrig93]

Did you respond?

[Iron_Man]

Yes of course

[Lrig93]

Were they girls you dated in the past?

[Iron_Man]

Just telephone girls from the telephone dating services

[allenwants2]

hey I've been all over this universe but the only orbit I know is a satellite I never layer a glove on her

[msc545]

Yes, a few times. I am suspicious of it and don't like or trust people who do this.

[likelyOK]

Same.

[Jamie05rhs]

I have been contacted by old friends. But I didn't consider them to be "orbits."

[HamburgerFries]

Nope. I don't date anymore. Not worth the time or effort.

[Citizenkirk]

I have no idea what that is supposed too mean.

[Lrig93]

When you date someone but they stop talking to you and keep interacting with your social media.

[Citizenkirk]

I'm confused 😕. If they are interacting with your social media, isn't that talking too you, the way I am talking to you now?

[Lrig93]

They just like your posts and view your stories etc

[Citizenkirk]

Than they would rather be your fans than your companions. That could work.

[Hangry22]

Nope. Never had that happen

[Hazelstar99]

No I haven't experienced that

[Massageman]

No, I never had the pleasure.

[DCSTVT]

I have never experienced this before.

[InferiorElegy]

No idea what that means but I've never even dated.

[likelyOK]

Yea I have

[cjgsu]

Nah.

[JosyJosy]

Yes but I hung up

[COMMODOREII]

Whats an orbit?