Guys and Girls: Dating someone who has no job/career goals?

[Anonymous]

We all pursue relationships with the hope of making it long term and having a future with our partner right? So what if we date someone who is almost everything we want and treats us very well but they don't know where they are headed in life? Like not being in school, not having a job or having a low paying job with no intention to move up, no career goals, no ambition and no vision for their future? These things are important when thinking about the future right? Because it's hard to grow when you're around other people who aren't, let alone the person you're dating.This goes for both men and women. Should they just be considered a bad candidate or should you remain with them? How can this be overcome? (IF)

[TonyMetal25]

Your talking like this was a problem, that is a JACKPOT! she will be a cute housewife taking care of her family and kids and making her home cozy and her being comfortable and happy and loved, I'm saying all this, that's if she was loved a lot by her husband and treated her like a queen...and if he was able financially...

anyways that will be her ultimate dream and many girls will tell her how lucky she is...who knows!

If your that girl, I wish you all luck!

[TheMisogynist]

I like it when women aren't so ambitious. Two income families aren't all they are cracked up to be. All the expenses are often enough to completely cancel out one of the incomes. Between the increased taxes, the daycare, the extra gas and oil changes, the nights you order pizza cause both parents are too tired to cook. You end up with the same amount of money, more stress, and kids that are raised by strangers.

[Shaun]

We'd have to REALLY connect on every other level, and even then I'd expect her to get and keep some lame job in order to pay for her share of the essentials.

[Anonymous]

guys do not make a big deal out of it as much as girls do