Guys, are you ever too shy to message a girl? Do you just wait for her to message first, or do you initiate a convo when you want to talk?

[Anonymous]

This in cases where she's already messaged you first few times.

Yes I am

No I am not

Other

[ShadezMcgee]

I am not. If I ever hit my girl up I give her a time and day to meet and we go from there. Now and then I may send her a text to check in, but I keep that limited because I prefer to talk face to face instead of text or on the phone.

She knows this, but checks in on me daily unless she knows I am busy. She does that because her attraction is very high. If men do what she does on a daily basis, it will lower the girl's attraction for him and push her away.

[Asker]

I've contacted my crush few times on facebook. He doesn't talk to me unless I talk to him first, WHY?
He was very friendly during our conversations on facebook. He seems to like to talk to me.

I stopped messaging him and now we haven't talked for 2 months.

[ShadezMcgee]

Then he lost interest or wasn't interested to begin with. Move on

[Natehunter199]

Im not shy, if i want to talk to her i send her a message. But if i dont get a responce back within a hour i might send one more. When i dont get a response i take it as the individual dosen't want to talk to me or that there busy and will get back to when they get back to me. I dont want to sit there and blow them up with messages. But it is hard to figure out the rite thing to say when one get the silent treatmen and you know they seen and read the messages you sent them.

[virgin20]

One of the girls I talk to already messages me first. I'm shy and rather she talks to me when she wants rather than me talk to her incase I'm bothering her.
Don't know why I feel like this,, it's sort of a mental thing

[virgin20]

Always messaged me first*

[Asker]

My crush has been very friendly during our conversation on facebook. He seems to like to talk to me.

I stopped messaging him and now we haven't talked for 2 months. I feel like he sometimes try to get me to talk to him by posting something that might get reaction out of me/similar stuff than me.

[virgin20]

It's difficult because some people just are friendly back to others.
He's your crush and if you feel confident to chat then I don't see anything wrong with you trying to lead things

[Asker]

Do u think he could be interested?

[virgin20]

If he's shy maybe. Want to chat in pm?

[Asker]

Yes...

[perfectchaos]

If she has messaged first a couple of times I can start messaging pretty easy as long as I have something on my mind.

[Asker]

My crush has been very friendly during our conversation on facebook. He seems to like to talk to me.

I stopped messaging him and now we haven't talked for 2 months. I feel like he sometimes try to get me to talk to him by posting something that might get reaction out of me/similar stuff than me.

[Asker]

Should I text him again?

[perfectchaos]

That's up to you but if you really like him what the cost.

[Asker]

Yeah but im afraid of looking desperate...

[perfectchaos]

Listen that doesn't make you seem desperate. Now if you start yelling give me the D then yeah

[Asker]

Do u think he could be interested?

[perfectchaos]

That's hard to say

[Bakry123]

It come with experience u maybe shy but eventually u had to talk

[Slim57]

Message no. Too fed up with not getting replies when asked to message first yes.

[Gedaria]

I will try any excuse to chat to a girl.

[Asker]

What kind of excuse?

[Gedaria]

It depends on what she says. Her likes or dislikes. What turns her on. Music , films, and a lot more...

[Anonymous]

I usually just send her a dick pick.

[Asker]

Seriously...

[pizzalovershouse]

No just do it