Do men really date women because of for who they are as people and not just because of their looks?

[Anonymous]

Do men date women because they like them as people or is it purely physical until maybe at one point they learn to tolerate her personality? Do men ever care about the personality or is her body more important? I'm just curious I wanna know how men feel attraction. This is what I've heard is the case for men from some men. Women seek emotional connection usually more than appearance so personality is important to us, not just the looks. But I've heard that men feel attraction differently? Like they start dating a woman only for her looks without caring about her personality and maybe with time they end up liking her as a person? Is it true?

[Browneye57]

All this crap you've 'heard'. Instead of 'hearing' all this bullshit, why don't you actually date and make some decisions for yourself. You'll be WAY better off.

But at least you understand that men are simply not the same as women. No, it's the giant lie of feminism - they're not the same and equal, never have been and never will be. f

Women connect emotionally. You got that. Probly easy cuz you're a woman.
Men connect physically. This isn't to say they don't have emotions, but it's just a completely different mental process. They really don't bind to you without a physical connection.

Personality isn't what attractions people initially - looks does - attraction starts with how a person looks to them. If they're attractive they want to get to know. If they're not, it just ain't happening. So always look your best.

But yeah, once attraction happens there has to be a conversation. So brush up on those social skills as well, as they are learned.

You seem to have this typical attitude that you're superior, that guys are easily manipulated, that they are sub-human, like some kind of animal. This will be your undoing, I can nearly guarantee it.

So please tell us, what exactly do YOU bring to a relationship that would be considered high value? Seriously, we are dying to know. And no, it's not your golden vagina, nor that you're empathetic.

[Browneye57]

Notice there's no reply on what she DOES bring of value to a relationship. I gather there isn't anything, she just wants to complain about men. Typical. And a giant FAIL.

[magiusX26]

looks get your foot in the door so to speak but personality is how you get all the way in. this about women connecting emotionally is only part truth, you women also go for looks 1st just most deny it. no one in history has met someone and 1st thing they think or say, if attracted, is s/he has a beautiful personality. it is, was, and always shall be looks 1st. cold hard facts there.

[magiusX26]

oh and the reason thats a fact is you can not see a personality on initial glance. it takes time to find out a personality. most people can not fully ve known, personality wise, until years up to a lifetime or more.

[Hangry22]

Men only want body and looks. All others are secondary. Can't blame them. Just how they're wired

[TheReturnOfTheGrump]

They desire love and a connectjon to. Some anyways... Some ogher maybe not so much... Same with women tho some judt care about vetting laid. At first maybe they care about looks more because they fall love or get attached or someghing or whatever it is and the connection grows or something. Without the looks and potential they probably wouldn't make it to the next level ever. Something like thag...

[TheReturnOfTheGrump]

They desire to love and be loved.. Etc.. Too.. And it also plays a huge role in motivation to better yourself or whatever for us i think. Stuff like that...

[Anonymous]

Looks are what initially attract someone. Personality is what decides if they stay or not. Yes, when a man first meets you and shows interest, it's most likely because of how you look. If he's still there a few months later, it's probably because he found out he actually likes you as a person.

[Anonymous]

Like you women, we are all different. I believe we are no different than you. I think for most people, BOTH have to be there ultimately. But women go for looks as well, they just aren't as open about it as guys are. But make no mistake, they definitely do. Just like we care about personality.

[Dinosaursandanime65]

I’d say a lot do it for their appearance. But I believe there are some variables who take everything into account. Now THESE are the rarest of them all! OH YEAH. ... BAP! Now this son bitch. Imagine this, eh. Chj chj chj chj POW. Nope, not anymore! That’s number two.

[HawkPerception]

Looks are important initially for most of us. Personality is what keeps us. Everyone wants positivity in their life. So the better personality you have, the more the person will want to keep you in their life, guy or girl.

[zagor]

Men care about personality from the get-go, if they are looking for a relationship. For a one-nighter, doesn't much matter. But if there is no physical attraction, unlikely anything will ever happen in the first place.

[Paul09]

While looks to a certain point are important to me. I also need a great personality. And have similar values. You could be super hot, but a bi**h, and id walk away. But if it would be just for sex, than just looks for sure.

[Avicenna]

Most of us do, yes. You want to enjoy being around that person.

[crmoore]

My priority is who they are as a person, but what they look like does have impact, just not as much impact as their personality.

[Anonymous]

Hahaha no.
A guy who tells you different is lying.
Everything we like about women is based on our interest in fucking her.

[BustyNeedles]

Who they are is the most important thing

[Anonymous]

Most just want to get laid

[thrombis]

Yes. We just fuck for looks with casual sex

[dudeinohio]

I'll always go for personality over looks.

[Anonymous]

Because they like their pussy.

[Anonymous]

Looks only