Would you date a player? (Page 2)

[JessieBellll]

If he was hot and let me do buttplay on him sure

[AFellowWeeb]

Hell yeah, women would

[AFellowWeeb]

I mean, all this girls saying no, but randomly we see a lot of pink anons ''does my boyfriend really loves me? he flirts with random girls all the time? WhAt ShOuLd I dO? WhY can't i FiNd a DeCeNt mAn?''

[btbc92]

Let me tell you something. No matter how insecure, no matter how abuse, use, or background or woman is. No woman in her right mind would ever date a manipulator. Women have choices as men do. But at the end of the day who's the one that's being a player? The one that you're saying that the girls are going for. And that's supposed to be a man right? So as a man are you just going to just sit there while another man that's what he does? Or are you going to be a man and be an example of why women should go for someone like you? The things that you're saying that the pink Anonymous says tells you one thing and one thing only. There's not a lot of good men left. But at the same time you permit the same thing if not do the same thing. How in the world is a girl supposed to know her boyfriend loves her if you don't show her that? A man that loves her will not be flirting with random women. But yet you say that's what you men do. They don't know what to do because they was not shown that. And the reason why they can't find a decent man, because you guys basically meet the bare minimum probably none at all, but you don't want to go far and beyond for the person that you say that you want to be with. So while it may sound ridiculous and I cannot sense understand that because it is kind of ridiculous. But as a woman myself I can kind of see it I have faced many disappointments in my life and it's very sad. I don't see a lot of men. I see a lot of boys that are immature and don't want to grow up. Doesn't even matter the age it's the mentality.

[btbc92]

So before you scream about what's the females do. First learn to be a man. Then you could complain about what a woman or girl does. Because until then you need to stop judging because you're still a boy yourself. And I'm not talkin about your age I don't care about your age. But how you choose to think. A real man is not going to chase after a girl that's not stable minded the same way a real woman is not going to chase after a man who's not stable minded.

[Hangry22]

@btbc92 He isn't gonna accept anything you said. He thinks all women are cheaters and gold diggers while men are innocent little angels who have to be a doormat for his girl. I thought he was different and loyal but he's just like every other guy

[AFellowWeeb]

@btbc92 First of all, if your boyfriend beats you, cheats on you, its none of my business, so why would i bother to interfere? you did the choice, not me, deal with it. Second, there are good men out there, problem is, they dont fit your ideal appearance standards, this is why i said women go for players, which is true, simply because their appearance. Third, you dont fucking know me, you know an account called ''AFellowWeeb'' on the internet, i already shared a lot of my personal views on relationship, im all about REAL 50-50 and order.

[btbc92]

Who says that I have a boyfriend? Who says that I have a boyfriend who cheats, beats, etc? First of all:

1. I have been abused most of my life if not all of my life. Getting hit with a belt by your parent should tell you that. 2ndly. If any man thinks he can hit me, he better have life insurance. Because I am not going to jail for nearly killing a man or God forbid taking his life because he chose to. That's common sense for me. But most people don't have the same mentality or common sense. A man is supposed to protect his loved ones. Many men don't know love and these days many don't want love. Is a woman then supposed to assume that every man is a woman beater? Then what world are you living in? That means your the issue. Not the woman.

2. " Second, there are good men out there, problem is, they dont fit your ideal appearance standards, this is why i said women go for players, which is true, simply because their appearance." If you think a good man have to do with appearance then again, your the issue here. Not the woman. Biologically women will have sex based on their genetics and those their ancestors have had sex with. Those for example who are highly interested in sex may be passed down to the child. That may not be you. Maybe learn about genetics instead of assuming women as well as men all the time is going to just want a specific guy just because. That is less than 3% of women. That is not 97% of women you're assuming. Get out in the real world. Talk to women and get to know different people.

[btbc92]

Buddy. No. your not a weeb. You're just ignorant as a person because your views are fixed and live where women are always bad, pity me no woman wants me attitude. That's the world you live in. But that is not how women are. That is but a good amount who are taught that, and they learn from their environment. Just like how you behaving is environmental and out of ignorance. Why even for somebody like me would want to date you? You are willfully ignorant. And it's not to shame or judge you but it's true. Your negative energy and negative people make good women want to go elsewhere, and the negative is either going to be selfish or try to bring you down. When your in a relationship it is NOT 50-50. It is your 100% every day and her 100% everything. You're not being real. Your being ignorant out of spite and hurt. I understand where you come from. But what I will say is that you're wrong. Women don't go for players. Insecure and broken people do. Some are born to desire that kind of men because something in them desires that. Women especially will go based on emotion or what is in their heart, flesh, etc. While men, in general, goes by sexual urges usually if nothing is logical or rationale for their decisions.

[btbc92]

Very few like myself can work and mentally operate both emotionally and rationally/logically at the same time. Everybody is not the same. So you need to stop acting like you don't have emotions, thoughts, and feelings of your own. You act tough, but you're really weak. And insecure. That's why you sound and behave like your big and bad or better than those girls. But your just the same. Here's the thing with me. I don't have to personally or physically know you to be in your shoes and see both the good and the bad. I'm that sensitive about people. You're not really a bad guy. But at the same time as your misunderstood, your not stable and is dysfunctional. And it makes you look bad. But it's up to you to change and become healthy. Because emotionally especially your not a healthy individual. I know because I've been there. Nobody here at least me isn't saying that there isn't any truth to some of the things your saying. But what your saying is only about 25% out of 100%. If 4x25=100% you only have learn 25% out of 100%. But that is not entirely the case. Understand a woman's plight before you expect us to understand a man's plight. Because PRIDE of a man and his ego is why women get hurt and then go for such bad men or broken men. You're just as broken. Your just not a player. But you're prideful. That's even worse. That's why I told you. At least most of us to some degree can tell if he is manipulative. And it does eventually becomes a choice to tolerate that because most women 80%+ have low self-esteem and self-worth. Because we get emotionally broken down as young as 8. You say it's not your business or problem but as a woman, it IS your business. Because you're a man. And God called you to lead, a be a provider and protector. You can't complain about a woman and what she does if you yourself have no desire to be involved. SO why are you complaining? Either you do desire a woman and you hate women or you don't? So what is it? Only a weak man thinks as you do.

[btbc92]

I don't always agree with how they THINK. Because many don't THINK. Some don't WANT to think. I can't change them. I can only educate them to the best of my ability by the grace of God. The same with men. I see that men are more stubborn in this area than a woman. There needs to be respect, compassion, empathy, and understanding. Have that 1st before you want to judge before you miss out on serious life lessons. Don't complain if you already refuse to help. Just stay out of it, opinions aside. Because in the end, you're stressing yourself out, hurting others for no logical reason, and making yourself miserable.

[AFellowWeeb]

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[AFellowWeeb]

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[btbc92]

So you rather listen to Garbage instead of living your life?

[Hangry22]

@btbc92 You nailed it and he probably got mad at protector and provider stuff

[shiril]

Why not? If there is wavelength match, no issues

[EmmaMary]

No, absolutely not.

[lsjr16]

Nah cause she just trying to fuck and leave

[noscrubs2020]

No hahah

[psychoticanimallover]

No thank-you.

[Asianguy123]

Why would I waste my time?

[SSam23]

No, I’d never!

[Ila4545]

I would date a swinger. lol

[Kafka_]

If you're a sex addict, you certainly would.

[Satanic_Dexter]

Depends on the circumstances

[jimmy2]

God bless you for knowing that

[PinkGiraffee]

Fuck no.

[Anonymous]

date them, but not exclusively, play toy

[Anonymous]

Well I’m a guy so no.

[Jamie05rhs]

Nope. I would not.

[bannacookies]

Definitely not

[faithattah]

No thanks

[COMMODOREII]

Hell no!!!

[scott04sa22]

Nope

[In_Trance]

Sure

[Jack9949]

Fuck that

[Nazgol]

Nope never

[nevermind__]

No, absolutely not.

[Anonymous]

Nope, never.

[Anonymous]

Well I’m a guy